http://forum.lowyat.net/ Mon, 08 Jun 2026 23:00:04 +0800 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/4688810 Knowing that you will leave the country in 2 months, will you still proceed with this person who has a lot of chemistry with you?<br /><br />This person knows about your departure and well aware, what is he signing up for... spoke about possibility of LDR, but both parties are a bit wary because both have been through the LDR bit in the younger days... Fragileme Cupid&#39;s Corner Thu, 08 Nov 2018 15:43:31 +0800 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/4602624 <!--SPOILER BEGIN--><div class="spoilertop" onClick="openClose('76755d6eb3575f303982fec88e4ec266')" style="font-weight: bold"><u>&raquo; Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... &laquo;</u></div><div class="spoilermain" id="76755d6eb3575f303982fec88e4ec266" style="display:none"><!--SPOILER END-->Hi all,<br /><br />As the topic suggested. I met a guy through Tinder and we went on couple of dates. He is an ultimate gentlemen and proved to me that chivalry is not dead. I feel protected / safe / almost like a princess being around him.<br /><br />He is utterly honest and open about his past and I really appreciate that - well, I dont know if he is that open to his other dates as well but that doesnt really matter la...<br /><br />Bottom line is, I really like him. And because of this, I wasnt being myself - I was very careful (become a little bit more reserved) around him because I care about his view about me. As a result, he said, he doesnt feel that chemistry between us.<br /><br />So, we met up and had that chat - long story short, he said he didnt want to mislead me further and we agreed that we can be good friends but not romantically involved. Surprisingly, after that chat, I felt so relieved (nothing to lose already) and become myself&#33; I laughed my heart out (prolly the best night we had together) and I was just so much more opened up&#33; We text a lot more versus the time we were &#39;dating&#39;.<br /><br />Now, I was out partying with my girlfriends couple of days ago and half halfheartedly asked him to pop by if he has got time - he showed up despite having a business issues to attend and he doesnt drink. <br /><br />Now, this is where the confusion came - we went for supper after that. And below are some of the things that happened:<br /><br />1. He offered me to share his ice cream<br />2. We drank mineral water from the same bottlle<br />3. Very automatically when we walked to the restaurant, we held hands<br />4. When we part ways, the hug was lingering way too long<br /><br />So, my question is: He really doesnt have any romantic feelings for me? He is just comfortable with me, hence all of the above?<br /><br />I need to know&#33; Yeah, perhaps the only answer is to ask him directly - but he already said he doesnt want to mislead me further ma... but the action, and what he say, doesnt tally leh&#33;<br /><br />Sifus, help&#33;&#33;<!--SPOILER DIV--></div><!--SPOILER DIV--><br /><br />Hi there, I appreciate all advice and comments that were given - it was such an experience to see how everyone interpret things differently and I am thoroughly grateful each and every response as they gave me perspective(s) and how I can / should approach the situation. Yes, some of you called me desperate as I come on here for advice, but well, I supposed it is better than walking away ignorant to everything and to only regret things later.<br /><br />Before I proceed to close this thread, I did love to say, things happen at the strangest way(s) possible&#33; We ARE OFFICIALLY DATING now <!--emo&:wub:--><img src='http://static.lowyat.net/style_emoticons/default/wub.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wub.gif' /><!--endemo--> Fragileme Cupid&#39;s Corner Sun, 17 Jun 2018 23:21:52 +0800 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/4329830 Some of you might have seen my earlier thread where I mentioned the guy I like had told me he wanted to just be friends... though is disappointing that things seems to change overnight but i have accepted it with open heart that time is not right and we should just move on...<br /><br />Couple days ago, he sent me a long text again saying he knew i blocked him somehow (truth is I didnt) and told me that though he cant make me his gf now but that doesnt mean he want me out of his life and so on and so forth.. again, he reiterated the reason why we cant get together now... unsettled business between his ex and both their families.. <br /><br />So, i responded telling him that i understand is tough time for him and i just wanted him to be happy... then i asked him, so what do you expect from me? someone of your companion when you need someone to talk to? he said he didnt want to be selfish and he really dont know... <br /><br />My thought, isnt he already selfish at the first place that he initiated interest when he very well knew he cant commit to anything? then, he got (i dont know if it is) angry or frustration or whatever accusing that I blocked him and have not responded to his messages?<br /><br />How should i handle this? Fragileme Cupid&#39;s Corner Sun, 18 Jun 2017 20:20:29 +0800 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/4315729 -deleted- Fragileme Cupid&#39;s Corner Tue, 06 Jun 2017 21:17:39 +0800