http://forum.lowyat.net/ Sun, 07 Jun 2026 05:42:23 +0800 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/4652623 I get to knew this girl about November last year and finally get her earlier this year after constant close contact. During the constant messaging, I felt that I&#39;m able to click with her since our common interest. After awhile going out with her casually I started feeling the chemistry that going between us and started to fall for her. Before long I able to get her to be my girlfriend. While we are dating I did my best to ensure she felt comfortable and happy with me by offering to pay almost all of our outing expenses , while saving for the future (wedding, house etc). I am comfortable to take the responsibility to take up 90% of our future expenses since there are normally is a dispute between couples. While we are together we did have some common gold that we wanted to achieve together and I used every opportunity I have to cerebrate every special occasions with her , birthday, mooncake festival and valentine. I work out the celebrations and the gift for her so she would feel I had her special in my priority list. I occasionally asked her if there is any thing defects that i have that i can improve to be her other half and i tried my best to meet her requests and she told me she is glad with the improvements. We were happy during the months that we were going out.<br /><br />Until about a month ago when we were going out she often pose topics that makes me feel insecure an uncertainty such as another boyfriend and not having a mutual feeling towards me. Eventually i get to know she did not have feeling that she has interest on me like never having to think or missed me when we were apart, not wanting to go out together, etc. This news took a toll on me that i had sleepless nights and eventually she started giving hints of breaking up. Apparently according to her she did not love me and even if were together with children in the future, she might eventually find some one else that she loves and will dump everything that we built to follow her heart. I had noting else to say to hold the relationship together but to follow her request. I had to crush everything i ever planned for my future with her into the dustbin. It was really heart breaking for me.<br /><br /><br />I am not sure if in a modern relation ship a couple goals together is much more important or feeling is much more important. Since i know feeling cannot be develop in a short time notice but its grown together in time while a couple work towards their common goals. This only from my point of view of my current situation and still not yet recovering after nights of crying. Its going to be hell to get over this ordeal. <!--emo&:cry:--><img src='http://static.lowyat.net/style_emoticons/default/cry.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='cry.gif' /><!--endemo--> <br /> elune84 Cupid&#39;s Corner Fri, 07 Sep 2018 12:57:26 +0800 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/1533394 Guys need help to list down a gaming rig spec within my budget (rm3500max). The budget includes the cpu and windows os only. Do not need a monitor(23&#39;full hd),keyboard,mouse and speaker because already got. So just the cpu and windows 7 onli. Do help. Thx sifus&#33; My gaming laptop just died and now looking forward to a new pc. <br /> <!--emo&:clap:--><img src='http://static.lowyat.net/style_emoticons/default/rclxms.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='rclxms.gif' /><!--endemo--> elune84 Hardware Sat, 21 Aug 2010 07:18:16 +0800