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How to get a Chinese girlfriend as an Indian

for4va — Fri, 22 Apr 2022 13:51:57 +0800

How to get a Chinese girlfriend as an Indian and why I’m so attracted to Chinese girls?

Background about me
I’m an Indian Muslim actually but neither religious nor spiritual, 26, Single, my girlfriends have commented on me that I’m attractive etc... Not sure if this matters.

But compared to other races including mine I’m so attracted to them even when my Chinese male friend find them average etc I find them pretty and beautiful.

It is my goal now to have a long-term relationship and marriage.

How do I find one? and what should I do 😅

I really appreciate the answers

Thank you

and please don’t flame me..

I feel regret for not making the move

for4va — Thu, 19 Sep 2019 00:14:50 +0800

Today is my last of University, there's a girl I like or have a crush on her, but we never talked to each other expect looking at each other. Today she's was with her friend, when her friend leaves her, heading to the washroom, my friends are pushing and giving me the ”push” to talk with her when she's sitting alone.

I tried to walk to her and I keep returning to my friends and eventually, her friend is back from the washroom and left the place after half an hour or less.

I don't have the courage to talk to her

Why am I like this? Is it because I never had a girlfriend which makes me lacking in confidence so much ?

Lastly, is okay to approach a girl on street/mall or wherever to talk and get her number if you like her?

Now my uni life is over, I don't know where to find my life partner anymore... And I'm 24 years old.

Should I tell her how I feel?

for4va — Wed, 08 May 2019 15:46:57 +0800

So, based on my previous post, now I finally have asked her why she didn't come to date/lunch. She told me that her boyfriend is pissed off and she didn't know what to do and she says I'm sorry for not telling me/ should have let me know.

From here, should I say that I have a feeling for her? Or I should just move on and reply nothing?

I don't feel sad anymore now tbh.

The girl used to like me is now ignoring me

for4va — Tue, 17 Jul 2018 18:24:43 +0800

From my last thread (She suddenly stop texting me) almost whoever replied to my thread, told me move on but I just can't simply move on. On one day I texted her and she replied with hi (myname) , I asked her how are you ? (and tried to continue chat from there) which is unfortunately she didn't reply anything back. Usually she will reply me quick but this time no reply at all . I feel so miserable it's not I'm desperate or something , my friend told me as a student life in college you should try date as many as you can but I'm just not that type.

What can I do to get back her interest on me back ? I'm going to meet her for one last group project meeting. What should I tell her ?

is it my fault ? because whenever we are texting I usually reply late, I don't text her often as well or I'm not giving enough of attention etc ?

She suddenly stop texting ?

for4va — Wed, 11 Jul 2018 20:35:35 +0800

I'm feeling sad and broken. On my last thread I've talked about we're about to have a lunch together but when the day comes she didn't reply anything. I messaged her today is our lunch day but no reply, after 20 minutes then I went back to home with sadness and sorrow. The thing is after our lunch plan is postponed due to some reason we totally didn't talk anything about this again. During the end of our project, I thanked her for remembering my birthday and she wish me again and she say we will have lunch soon. After several days I asked her when to have it , she said this day and time etc will be okay for her but ended up it didn't happen and she didn't tell me why ?

Should I ask her why ? or Stop talking to her ?

I can ask her friends or ask her directly since we are meeting for one last time regarding about the project.

is this why people says women are complicated ?? Like I'm seriously confused right now. I can't focus on something else and it is hard for me to simply move on from this kind of thing.

Please advice.

I asked a girl I like out for a lunch

for4va — Mon, 09 Jul 2018 21:11:38 +0800

I asked her out, should I let her know my intentions ? or just talk like a normal conversation without involving any hints or sign to show that I like her ? We both are students from a difference course.

I like a girl but she's a Chinese

for4va — Sat, 03 Dec 2016 14:49:13 +0800

Hi , first of all we both are students in the same University but different intake . We don't know each other but we tend to meet at cafeteria and at bus shuttle service. Firstly , I met her bus shuttle service area we both are waiting for bus, that's the first time I met her I was looking at her and when she looking at me back I turned away I couldn't make eye contact (Low self confidence maybe because whenever a girl stare at me and try to make eye contact I couldn't maintain it back). Second time I met at her cafeteria I were ordering food and she's with her friends at dining table this time she definitely knew that I were staring at her because I managed to make eye contact for 2-3 seconds ? LOL .

How to know if she is interested in me because we never had an conversation before or this is just an attraction ? because I pass many girls in my campus but she is the one who currently in my mind now. or I should move on and focus on my study's this is my last semester and I never had a GF before :C , I'm afraid If I couldn't get anyone after my study's.

Should I approach to her and say I liker her ? I wouldn't mind if she reject me because I must know my sh!t.
Pros after this scenario : I will gain self confidence, I will never afraid of rejection and never feel afraid to talk to a girl anymore maybe ?

The problem is I am too afraid to approach to a girl I wonder how would she react if I say "Hi" and what if she ignores me ? :C

About me I'm Indian but I'm attracted to other races instead of my own kind and I've no idea why.