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Why wont she go away?

Sasuke95 — Tue, 30 May 2023 21:16:07 +0800

I still remember one day my colleague brought her friends from other department to have lunch together, I told them funny stories and then there is 1 particular chubby girl like the story very much and laugh a lot.
Little did I know this is the start of my nightmare.

This girl would start showing up around me frequently, eventually she would straight away sit in my own department because we practice hot desk, no fixed seat for anyone but everyone have their own department, you should look for hot seats in your own department instead of going to other dept.

Then she go around my colleague to ask about my info, one day she came to where I sit and keep asking for my phone number, I keep brushing her off by saying I'm busy with work but she won't leave, luckily 1 of my colleague passed by and saw this and chased the girl away, saving me.

Lunch time she would also sit with my gang, but my gang don't really know her, and I am not going to go out of my way to entertain her, I keep it this way to avoid giving false hope, she did not change her way regardless.

Sometimes when she passed by my seat she will talk to me a bit, and leave some food on my table before leaving, I don't eat junk food from pantry so I would just give it away to colleagues, if they dont want then I put it back to pantry, it is annoying and waste my time travelling to pantry.

This year only my dept is migrating down few floors below within the same office building, I thought this would end but she would still take the elevator and continue to work in my dept, sometimes she would even sit on my seat when I was away from the seat (i go to toilet), luckily when i came back i was about to go home, i took my bag from the desk and leave without saying anything.

Help.

Taiwanese girls?

Sasuke95 — Sat, 26 Nov 2022 22:04:21 +0800

In my recent job I constantly deal with Taiwan people and hit it off with 1 of the prettiest one, I have long given up hope finding someone in work place, it is nice to see a change.
We are happily discussing about my visit in Taiwan in the near future, we can't wait to see each other.

My friends told me the culture there are quite open in terms of relationship and willingness to sleep together, while my own google search result shows the polar opposite saying they are very conservative.

So which is true guys?

Escort service question?

Sasuke95 — Sat, 22 Jan 2022 20:58:03 +0800

I found out a website that has the girls that fit my taste and feel like trying it, the website got show which number to contact, they're the middleman between you and the girl, sort of like a handler.

Here goes, of course i join the telegram first then pm there using telegram because it has option to hide your number, more privacy wont expose your number, but they replied ask me to chat in whatsapp, not sure why they want to forgo the anonymity, as i know every phone number nowadays is tagged to your IC number, if seriously want to track down the identity, phone number might be sufficient.

Anyway, i went out bought a new number and use it to whatsapp them, just in case they feel safer knowing my number.
End up they told me they're not accepting new customer.

Why???? Am i missing something here? Is there something in the escort world i did not know about and made them feel unsafe and dont deal with me?

The first question they ask in whatsapp is where do i find the contact, and whether is it my first time, is there any significance to this?

Escort service question?

Sasuke95 — Sat, 22 Jan 2022 20:48:57 +0800

Case #147

Sasuke95 — Mon, 17 Jan 2022 00:21:44 +0800

I was assigned to work outstation for 1 month, during the job i got to know 1 girl colleague.
I find her attractive, so i decided to give it a go, and managed to transition to texting everyday on non-work related stuffs, get to know on personal levels.

I consistently made her laugh with my sense of humor, you can feel the progress is going very well.
Eventually she revealed she's attached, but her bf is staying in another state, and not making effort anymore to travel to meet her.

We had 4 dates so far, at times i feel like things are progressing, but at times i feel im hitting a dead end.

Pros:
1. she will randomly send me her pics of herself or personal life
2. she make effort to continue the text when i feel like letting it die off
3. she agree to date quite easily
4. she dont back off when i get close proximity, or even physical contacts
5. she starting to trust me to drive her around for getting our necessities (food grocery, wash cloth dobi, outside food)

Cons:
1. she will still bring up her bf of 12 years time to time, to remind me she's attached and have no intention of leaving? even if the bf not making effort anymore?
2. she will say to intro me to her pool of female friends from time to time, seems to want me to disqualify her as potential
3. she knows her relationship now is dead end, but still clinging to it just because of the years involved, forever going in circles, cant make decision

I'm quite clear about my actions that i'm not in this just for friendship, she probably knows that, but she didnt reject my advances.

Not asking for advice, just letting out my thoughts, but i welcome any if you're willing to chime in the 2 cents.
I decided to follow my own advice, if i gave out such advices, i should follow them as well.
That is, a relationship shouldnt be a complicated thing, if it's harder than it needs to be, it's not worth it.
My next action is going to be slowly withdrawing myself, letting the chats to die out.
One cant be greedy and have the best of both worlds, if she cant let go, we cant truly begin, and i'll be wasting myself hearing about the bf time to time.

I'm proud i'm rational enough to assess my own situation this time, and make the right choice to cut my loss.
I'm still open to more possibilities if she wants to continue, but im not holding my breath, if it happens, it happens, if not, no big deal, just wait for next opportunity with the new one.

End rant.

Timing on STD

Sasuke95 — Sat, 25 Dec 2021 13:06:25 +0800

This is a thing long past, but i'm just curious to this day.

Let's assume I'm the carrier of STD (in truth i dont think i am), i slept with a girl on Month 1, we never sleep together ever since because she's been assigned to other state to work for few months.

Still, havent sleep with her since Month 1, she told me she got STD on Month 10, and just recently went to clinic for treatment, the treatment involving pouring some kind of acid on her vagina to kill the bad stuffs, it's so painful she actually fainted she told me.

Then she proceed to ask me if i slept with some other girls before Month 1 to catch the STD and passed to her, basically suspecting me passing the STD to her.

My question is, does STD take as long as 10 months to finally show up?
Or, she actually slept with some other guys and catch it there, and blaming it on me?

I wish to learn the timing, if you have the experience, and want more privacy, you can directly pm me.

EDIT: yes got use protection most of the time, only time no protection is when i want to feel the full warmth of going inside, but this never last longer than 1 min, i scare shoot inside, once i got a short moment of good feel i will pull out and put on my protection to do it safely, so the no protection moment is only lasting for short moments if anything

Booster shot

Sasuke95 — Fri, 24 Dec 2021 13:13:08 +0800

Just got my booster shot appointment in my MySJ app today, I got the Sinovac 2 doses before this.

When i told both of my parents, they're discouraging me to take it if the booster is other brand than Sinovac, they told me people who mix vaccine shots faced problems down the road, they would even go as far as sponsoring me the cost to privately get back the Sinovac booster shot.

The thing is, the app didnt specify what vaccine i'll be getting, is there a way to find out?

Also, any of you heard bad cases of mixing vaccines?

Is 7k salary ok for age 27?

Sasuke95 — Fri, 17 Dec 2021 16:22:17 +0800

I think I'm a little out of touch with the world, not knowing how everyone else is doing.

Last week my company decided to give me a raise due to my good performance, to RM7k per month, effective next Jan 2022.

At age 27, is this considered:

1. poor?
2. average?
3. above average?
4. exceedingly good?

EDIT thanks to user "wailam" saying it is important to say what is the field, to make sure the context is right.

I'm in finance/audit/accounting related field.[SIZE=7]

Edited font size for more visibliity

Dengue after effects?

Sasuke95 — Mon, 22 Nov 2021 19:13:54 +0800

I'm about 3 months after the dengue already, but i feel my body is still weird, few weeks after dengue i suddenly got a serious case of gassy or bloating that last for about 1 week, feel very unpleasant because i hate the feeling of being nauseous, never throw up though.

Recently the same thing happened again but at a lesser degree. Generally all these while since cured from dengue my appetite has been dropped. I won't feel hungry, won't have the urge to eat but i can eat some. I will still eat for the sake of eating and not skipping meals.

I still haven't regain my lost weight, everyone that sees me keep harping on me became very thin, wind can blow me away.

Ex dengue warriors, is this normal? I'm seriously thinking of getting my first full health check in my life to see if there's any issue with me. It's not practical to keep worrying when the nauseous feeling will strike again wherever I go, it can happen as soon as i finished lunch. Today i came home early cuz of this, feeling not well after lunch.

Unending dog bark

Sasuke95 — Fri, 22 Oct 2021 20:58:40 +0800

I live in 6th floor, the other person live in 10th floor, it's an apartment so rules aren't strict, quite many people started to have dogs during covid times, now the whole area sounds like dog farm sometimes.

The big issue is, the one in the 10th floor has chronic barking. It can last 30 min or more per session, and is loud and annoying too. Worst thing is it will pick the most unfortunate time to bark, like when I'm still not ready to wake up at 9am or when I'm online office meeting, it disturbs me greatly.

What's more disturbing is there's many already complain about it, some attempts to report to police, nothing meaningful happened. Some tried to face to face talk to the owner, the owner decided to not entertain, I'm like wtf?

One day i lost it and I went to management and talk about it, the management told me the owner wants protection for the home that's why got dogs. So owner is the only one needing protection here? In expense of the peace of everyone else? The management didn't even do anything meaningful to stop this, it's like the owner is someone powerful that can do whatever he/she wants, but i doubt it because people living in here aren't those rich powerful types.

I really wonder why hasn't the owner face any type of consequences at this point, its been more than half a year. The only way out I can see is to move out, but move out because of 1 single person sounds very ridiculous to me and I can't swallow this.

Guys, any ideas?

Someone to look after you

Sasuke95 — Fri, 13 Aug 2021 15:12:43 +0800

Had a serious illness since past week (now I'm much better, more or less like a normal person now), and i realised my thought of "being alone is fine" is kinda wrong. I can't say for sure if I can survive without my parents care, i was just focus on resting while they prepare the necessary ingredients for my recovery.

This got me thinking hard, what if they're gone? Am i doomed? Parents are not going to be here forever, we all know that, time will be up at some point. The big question is, what if something similar happened again? Who's in place to take care of you? When you're weak enough, you can't possibly cook the foods, prepare the drinks, drive around get the ingredients, etc. (I'm starting to feel real sorry for taking them for granted in the past, now I'm compelled to do anything for them).

Anyone got experience that the one that's taking care of you when you're really ill, is not parents but your other half? On one hand I still have my reservations towards girls due to my endless streak of accumulated bad ending experience, on another hand I think i do need them when my body fall apart, I'm not really sure where do I stand now. I think I have to shift focus from accepting that they're all the same, into becoming determined to find the one that's decent that can take care of others.

And i think i have someone in mind, but she's already another guy's gf due to my inaction few years ago. She's kinda pretty, but i just don't find her attractive due to her showing her cards too early. But still, even after all those years, she's still contacting me from time to time, as if I'm still holding a special place in her heart. All i did was treating her well unconditionally during my intern period, like fetching her home without asking for anything, like that. She only chose him because I opted out, he's already chasing her during my intern time, and no doubt he's more handsome than me, but i won due to the little things i do for her. She even told me he talk behind my back just to win her over, how sad can that be? Ironically she went to him after realising I'm not into her. I'm kinda pity that guy.

I think i stand a chance if i want to be serious in getting her back, despite they're still together all these years, i just don't think he got her completely yet, other than her I don't think there's any qualifier currently. Or just let it go and find another fish in the vast sea?

What do you think?

PS: forgot to mention, she offered to come to take care of me when she found out my illness, despite having a bf, could it be she's still not over me after all these years? Waiting to rekindle if i so wish to?

Six dashcam to cover all sides?

Sasuke95 — Sat, 19 Jun 2021 17:54:33 +0800

Recently i bought an Audi, i want to make sure no one can get away with doing funny things to my car.

For my previous car, few years ago I found out all of my 4 doors get keyed by someone just for fun, I was very furious but unable to find out who did this to me until this day. I was sure i didn't pissed anyone off that day, just a normal day at the library reading books.

Post your best solution.

Edit : few of my library buddies also get keyed on different days, clearly there was a psychopath who destroy other people's cars just for fun. I'll surely incapacitate him if i find out who's this guy.

Who should give way?

Sasuke95 — Thu, 10 Jun 2021 13:33:08 +0800

Recently came across something that's been in my mind for a while. Few days ago i was walking on a narrow one way street, then a man is coming from opposite direction.

The man isn't intimidating, nor buff, just average build. I'm just similar like him. But when the distance is almost closing up with each other, I can see the man don't have the intention to give way, so i give way instead by walking out of lane then quickly walk back in. Do note that anything that's not the walking lane is a real road for cars to drive. So safety wise it's a no brainer to stick to walking lane as much as possible. Little to no cars that day so no big deal.

That got me thinking, am i supposed to do this all the time? Why can't be the other person giving me way? It applies to some other scenarios as well whereby i need to compromise instead of raise up the issue and confront the person. I'm starting to develop a sense that i should stand up for myself and not just blindly suck up anything just for convenience or to avoid trouble.

Is there something wrong with me that the other stranger that don't even know me will auto assume i will give way?

I know somehow it's a trivial matter, but i had enough of getting the short end of the stick every time.

Edit : i remember one time during uni there's a gathering, sofa space is limited and some will have to sit on floor. I was among 1 of the people that managed to get sofa seat. Then there's a couple that came in a bit late and there's no more sofa space, he asked me to give way so that he and his gf can sit on sofa. The gf is new and he's been chasing for very long and finally succeeded. And overall he's a nice guy and we get along well during other times, and he asked politely. At the end obviously i gave him, but now thinking back, is it right? If he came late, why not just sit on floor tgt with his gf? And among all people why choose me to compromise? This sudden realization got me sick. If its you, how will you reject it?

The awakening

Sasuke95 — Sat, 15 May 2021 21:08:41 +0800

With so much free time on hand, i accidentally discovered a lot of content that answers a lot of my questions about why i keep failing, i usually dont simply believe anything i see on the internet, but when all of my experiences exactly matches what the content says, it's not up to me to not believe it. It is real, the world is really working backwards.

I will first start off with "DONTS", these are some iron rules to follow to save yourself from misery:

1. Do not chase girls. 100% of my chase ended in failure, when you chase, you already lost the battle, because she already got you in the bag, there's no more challenges, no more mystery, most of the time you will be on the giving side, and she wont bother to do much for you because she dont have to. Instead, let them come to you, let them confess their feelings to you, 100% of my gf gotten in this way.

2. Do not beg / fear losing the girl. 100% of my begs didnt work, when things go wrong, i instinctively wants to fix things and try to reverse the damage, it never works. This action will actually push her further away, end up losing more of your self respect, she will feel even more disgusted about you, and so on. The correct action should be just let her go, as counter-intuitive as it may sound, it actually works. I pulled this off without me knowing what effect it might have, the girl actually came back to my after giving it some time (few weeks, less than 1 month). By letting go, you disrupt her thinking pattern of expecting you to beg but didnt, your did something out of ordinary, your self respect is restored.

3. Do not agree to her unacceptable behavior. When she started to lose interest, she will pull off something like canceling date last minute just because she wants to cancel, there's no valid reason behind it. My old self would say that it's ok and let's schedule another time then. This in fact is very wrong and shows you have no backbone/bottomline and she will think she can get away with this kind of shit everytime, you have no more self respect. Instead of trying to avoid confrontation to not ruin the chances, face it. Tell her this is not okay and you're walking away. If this ends here, you dodged a bullet of having a miserable girl, if she comes back, you win, it's a win-win situation.

4. Do not show weakness. 100% of the time when i showed weakness end up she left me. I remember i failed a test in my uni and i cried like a dog in front of her, because i am perceived as god in studies and yet i failed, i couldnt accept the fact. Then another time the girl asked me "why i always seemingly doesnt care who does she hanging out with", then i started to care and her interest dropped like a rock. Do not do what she says. What piqued her interest in the first place was me not caring about her, once she got you to care about it, you loses and she'll leave. If you think you can use girls as emotional support, as counter-intuitive as it may sound (because girls are meant to support us in terms of mental wellbeing too), think twice before you let it happen.

5. Do not push the question. Learn to read between the lines, when you send a few lines of messages, one of the lines asking to schedule a date, but she replied you for all the lines except the "date" part, take it as a hint she's not interested to date you. You'll always encounter this situation whereby some of the lines you sent she didnt exactly answers that, and leave you guessing/in suspension. If you need to guess, it is over. If she's interested, there's hardly any guessing room, it will be very obvious she's into you, you can feel it, no doubt.

6. Do not expect her to stay. As counter-intuitive as it may sound, they're constantly screening for better men out there, she'll leave when one day she sealed a better deal and never look back. Ever wondered why when they leave, they're very adamant in their decision? Because they already sealed the deal with the other guy, just like how you already got a job offered in new company and feel very confident to leave your current job, same concept. How? They're constantly posting photos of their bodies / curves, that serves as a bait to fish for better men, you dont think they post for fun do you? It is their nature to do so, even if they themselves are not aware of it. This is a game you can never win, you cant expect to defeat every man, eventually someone will defeat you in terms of offers/prospects and she'll leave you for that. Just enjoy your time together while it lasts, and dont expect much.

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We men nowadays are very pathetic, the "simping" phenomenon is very rampant now. Look at the hot models in social media (FB, insta), when you look at the comments, there's tons of thirsty male dogs throwing compliments at her, but never a sec they think whether they achieve anything by doing so. You dont see the model reply to them do you? Let alone the chance of them dating. Whereas the models feed off all these compliments/attentions and became very powerful, some even desperate enough to throw money at them (OnlyFans anyone?) while still not getting a piece of the real action, all they can do is watch from the screen, nothing more. The girls ego grows, started to feel more entitled to this world. This is what causing them to impose such unbelievably high standards on us men, demanding this and that, or else stand no chance of dating. Imagine us men taking away all of the money and attention, when no one look their way, these girls became nothing, crumbles into dust, and they will be the one starting to chase for us men, but sadly this is not a reality yet.

I dont know when majority of the men will start to realize this, maybe not in my lifetime, but i have a feeling eventually this will happen when the imbalance became too great and then more and more men realize this dreadful Simping phenomenon. The Simping bubble will one day burst. I myself still follows the models because we men are visual creatures, we like seeing these things, but i wont ever comment on their pics, nor throwing money to them, i only look at the pics, have my fill for the day, and move on to grinding money. It is not wrong to appreciate the beauty, but it may not be right to simp beyond recognition.

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One last thing is, i decided to not marry. Knowing the deep shit stated above, coupled with high divorce rate, there's no more meaning to this.
Ask yourself objectively, what can you get out of it? What do the girl bring to the table? Think very carefully, but to me, sex is the only thing they can bring.
When divorced, all of your hard earned assets will be split, also need to pay alimony and child support.
We men stand to lose the most in a marriage and only gained sex, and the sex is gradually getting lesser and lesser if the wife withhold it due to losing interest in you. You end up with nothing, lots of men already kena screwed this way already, looking at the comment section of the content that i read is absolutely heartbreaking, i'm glad i didnt marry yet.

End sharing session, take it or leave it, your choice. GG.

Unbelievable scenario

Sasuke95 — Thu, 22 Oct 2020 02:56:01 +0800

I continued my Add Friend spree in FB and eventually got to know this new girl, did some basic check and concluded it's a legit profile, many pics, pics dated all the way to many years back, many likes and comment, comments are not robotic but genuine, and i think she's really pretty, celebrity level, considering my strict taste in appearance.

She easily got 500+ likes in FB, and 4 digit followers in Instagram. I'm conditioned to rejection or resistance from girls, I expect this one to ignore me or give me cold replies.

It turned out complete opposite, she's very enthusiastic in reply, hinting directly she's single and like what she sees. Talked a lot on common interest and she's very sweet and agreeable all these while, instant replies too. Also hinted she wants to meet me after covid condition improves. Two words I can say about this, Dream Conversation. True definition of Takes two to tango.

I further checked she's not selling anything, so can't be going after sales. I wonder what's going on? Am i teleported to another world where rejection is minimal?

She told me got a lot of pursuer, she also said she's afraid that I'm not going to initiate chat with her after adding her, claiming I'm attractive and not the kind that would bat an eye on her.

I'm not the most good looking guy out there, not the best body too, some girls even despised me still looking kinda thin, not sure what magic that i have made her behave so overwhelmingly positive, or I'm just thinking too much and better just appreciate the current scenario?

Opinions?

How should i tackle this?

Sasuke95 — Mon, 21 Sep 2020 11:14:47 +0800

Currently I'll be auditing the client for the next few months before i move on to other places, I'm the only male here so literally there's no competition.

There's 1 girl that caught my eye, very innocent looking and always wear short skirts and tight fitting attire at times. I sit close to the water machine so she'll walk past me quite frequently every day to reach the machine and get water.

Every time she walk past, it kills me a little inside, i don't know how much longer I'm gonna endure this. I tried making moves on her but she didn't respond well, it takes 2 to tango so if the flow always ends at her, there's not much I can do.

This desire of wanting to get this girl is great, but at the same time knowing I can't get her, it's very very torturing, it's like there's a cake in front of you but you can't eat it, the cake will teleport away if you try to reach it.

Here's the attempts i made in the past :
1. Few months ago asked her out for lunch, she did agreed and we went alone, end up didn't have much to talk about, subsequent invites were ignored

2. After giving myself some time for recovery, I attempt again by trying to chat with her using company chat app, she'll respond but eventually the flow will end at her not replying

3. Got randomly invite her for activity like going for sports, interesting events, but I'll never get a yes on that, she'll say she's not good and not keen on sports, and didn't really answer the invite for the events

It's a very shitty feeling knowing i got no competition and still failed, I'm also good looking, perhaps 1 thing i can't be sure of myself is how to encourage more inputs from the other party in chats, i don't have a standard approach to talk to girls, I'll say whatever i can think of at the moment, it's like luck, if it happens the chat keep flowing then good, else feels like a bit awkward, or isit supposed to be this way?

I'm done recovered at this point and ready for another shot, any really good conversation topics to start and to use during lunch? I'll try to make a 2nd lunch happen.

Ps: 10 months already I'm there by the way

Mother of all confusion

Sasuke95 — Sat, 19 Sep 2020 12:30:21 +0800

Never experience anything like this before, the mother of mixed signals.

Met online and been chatting since start of MCO, after some time lowering her barrier i managed to get a first date with her.
First date went well, lots to talk about and eye contact.

However there's a time limit to "get to know you" phase, once that's over, it seems we have less and less to talk about, 2nd date didnt talk too much, 3rd date mood seems reignited and talked more.

But still, she's still entertaining me, will agree to dates after some weeks passed, and still texts.

Our texts also kinda slowed down, like 1 reply from here after 1 day or 2, and reply kinda not enthusiastic sometimes.
Eventually i got tired of this and decided not to reply anymore, after 1 week she texted me again asking why i disappeared, and proposed a date from her end for the first time.

I kept my cool and told her i was busy in my career, and agreed to the date. During past texts i promised her to give her some skin care samples to aid her skin care routine, but in fact i prepared a gift of a luxury skin care product but without any cost because i can claim my company, in the note i wrote something like this "wanted you to maintain your skin better, so that i can continue seeing that alluring smile of yours, no worries this item is no cost i can claim company".

So the most recent date, we didnt talk much, more talking on my side to try to keep things going, sometimes when the silence is too long she will throw in a few questions to talk a bit. Gave her the gift that day. Actually im quite worried she'll not receive it well, because all these while she has been very particular on sharing costs, she would ask for my bank acct at the end of date and transfer exactly half back to me without fail, and wont let me fetch her. I expect there's a possiblity she will bank in the money for the gift i gave her.

Luckily, she didnt, she accepted the gift and be happy about it. Then the texting phase continues, her reply is kinda dull back to usual.
At one point, i told her that so far all the dates were about eating, why not try some activity instead? (very hard to plan activity with her because she dislike sport and dont like expending energy)

I proposed a fishing activity or escape room game to change the dating style a little, she replied "as a friend i think eating is sufficient as activity".
I lost it at that moment, one moment she's alright and another moment she's like showing low interest, i dunno man.

My final reply to her "well, i dont want you to be my friend, i wish in the future my kids address you as Mum", she "seen" it at this moment, in the past she did "seen" my texts and will still reply some time later, not sure if this time she will, but im prepared for the possibility that she wont, and things will end there.

Is she just playing hard to get to test me? (just like before the last date, i sort of passed her test and she rewarded by proposing a date from her end?)
Or this is a sinking ship to begin with? She shows signs of exactly 50% interested and 50% disinterest, no girls did that before.

Couple seat in cinema

Sasuke95 — Fri, 11 Sep 2020 22:30:34 +0800

I tried to order couple seat during online purchase, before i pay it i noticed a small sentence there saying "only can occupy 1 person".

And then i try to explore other cinema brand and they dont even show couple seat anymore.

So now, no more couple seat? no point going to movies with girl if we're going to be separated anyway.

Please enlighten me

Sticky situations

Sasuke95 — Fri, 21 Aug 2020 21:34:51 +0800

Edited : to make it much shorter, tldr is fcked a manager girl in office

Girl C (workplace):

Just gave birth few months ago, during lunch time one day i casually asked her what's up, she told me she's going to pump some juice from her big assets (she literally said like what i typed here, i didnt try to filter her words), i was like wtf? (that escalated quickly, and in no way you should talk to an acquaintance like that)

I said im gonna head for lunch and didnt think too much about what she said.

That day was very busy for me, i'm the only 1 left in the West Wing at around 7pm, while East Wing still has quite a few people working OT.
Just when i was a little hungry and wanted to go pantry to get some biscuit, i saw her, pumping her thing there expecting no one will go to pantry this late.

I took her by surprise but she was able to remain calm, i took it as nothing happened and took a few packets of biscuits and go, after all she's manager level of her own department, i wouldnt want to cross her path, on the other hand she still looks very pretty & cute with little girl's voice though.

I pray she dont try to initiate a conversation and let me go, but she did anyway and said "finding some snacks here?". I was like come on, you dont say? Out of retaliation i asked her an obvious question too "pumping milk again?"

"Yeah, wanna try some?" she said. I cant believe what i just heard man.... But as a curious man, i wonder how it taste like, so slowly walked towards the table, just in case she's joking and trying to stop me, she didnt. I took the bottle and have a few sips, i dont know how to describe the taste, it feels smooth.

Since she's so daring all the way since lunch time, im going to reciprocate her boldness and asked "mind if i drink directly from the source?" Shortly after she fetched me to a hotel and we do our thing there (cuz i parked far away for cheap parking, she has premium parking and not willing to walk, thats why she fetch)

Now i'm not sure what my future holds in this workplace, i know the saying "dont shit where you eat", but i did just that, if things go wrong, things will get ugly.
Advise me whats the possible consequences? To add oil to fire, im not only dealing with a manager level person, but also a married woman (she just gave birth i mentioned).

Reckless taunting by motorcyclist

Sasuke95 — Mon, 17 Aug 2020 13:23:10 +0800

Road was quiet this morning when i drive to work, there comes a time where there's only me 1 car and 1 motor, the motor started to wiggle wiggle a bit in front of me, not sure what he's trying to pull.

Once we get to a wider 2 lane road, he started to zip around between lanes left and right, just when i thought he's leaving my lane and I'm about to speed up, he zipped back right in and force me to brake, then he resume to speed up and i eat his dust.

He did it 1 more time before we reached the next section of the road which is a busy lane, he can't pull that off there.

Additional info :
1. I got no dashcam
2. He got helmet
3. You only get to do something to him on his 2nd attempt, his 1st attempt you would have braked and realised he's taunting you
4. His 2nd attempt happened very shortly after his 1st attempt, there's enough time to do something to him with no witnesses nearby
5. My car is Axia

What would you do if you encountered it? I'm thinking of the below possible options :

1. Not braking and possibly hit him and made him fall down, then carry on with my life, I don't really care about my car

2. Overtake him and emergency brake horizontally to force him fall down, quickly grab the steering lock and get down, break his leg

Any ideas?