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Bike Financing

Confused Ant — Tue, 01 Aug 2023 00:18:40 +0800

Hi guys, need some financial advice. Trying to find a way to finance a used motorcycle that I am really interested in. Need around RM20k (or lesser if down payment is needed). Planning to settle everything within 18months or lesser as I don't want to drag and pay higher interest. What route you recommend that I go? AEON? Conventional bank loan? ~~Ahlong ?~~

For those who suggest I should just save up and buy it at the end of next year:

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Oh btw its > 500cc.

Also, come share how you bought your bikes. Someone should have a good story to tell whether its good or bad.

Makanan Luar Rumah

Confused Ant — Thu, 14 Nov 2019 00:37:06 +0800

So guys, apparently someone left a plastic bag containing some (nasi mamak?) rice and combination of lauk I guess (I suspect curry) infront of my house. Quantity quite a lot like those you get from typical nasi arab stores where us normal Malaysian cannot finish. Discovered in the morning which I am a bit confuse as who would eat a dish like that in the morning? We just left it where it was. Didnt bother to look if it was fresh or already spoilt.

The thing is my house sometimes will get this kind of stuff once a year or so. Once we got a bag full of fruits with a thank you letter (tf?). Thank you for what? At least state who you are or who it is for. We also left it there and threw it away later. It was always food tho that was left/send.

Is there any taboo things I might not be aware of? Or is this some kind of sign or reason or whatever? Anyone have had this experience before?

Tldr:

Someone send TS food to TS house.
Happens around once a year or so.
TS confuse the reason behind it.

Inb4 Alien/ah long

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Wood Supplier

Confused Ant — Fri, 04 Oct 2019 01:00:57 +0800

Hello guys, any recommendations for a good wood supplier around Selangor? These are for DIY projects at home. Looking for softwood, hardwood & plywood and also Malaysian exotic species (not searching for any specific type yet, just want to broaden my options, will just buy whatever I find interesting or cheap). Looking for used pallets as well if anyone knows where to get them cheap (or even free, hahaha).

These woods may need to be milled first at least on the face and 1 of the sides as I dont have a jointer or planer yet.

Just want to tag [@ar188] & [@yushin]. Saw you guys replying to older threads with good recommendations.

Thanks in advance!

Marriage, Sex & Cheating

Confused Ant — Wed, 12 Oct 2016 22:38:45 +0800

Hope the title was strong enough to get your attention.

The story goes like this:

But first of all, brief detail about me.

1) Happily Married.
2) Will be having a kid in around 2 months.
3) I love my wife unconditionally.

Ok lets start,

So I've been denied sex from my wife as she is pregnant. I fully understand and respect her decision. I am not mad at her. But I'm a guy and I have a very huge sex drive. I was missing sex so much.

So one day, I got news that my former crush will be getting married soon. So I contacted her to say congratulations and etc. We chatted just like normal friends would do. But one thing led to another. She was the naughty and kinky girl that every teenager was dying to have as a girlfriend. And she still is, as I really know her. She's easily a 8/10 (for me at least).

I did not get her previously (what I got was just a kiss). But being the guy that I am (like all of you), I decided to ask her to spend the night with me to talk and release my sex desires with her. Tho the latter was not discussed but was mutually expected. She agreed and so we spend the night together recently. We talked and had sex, she opened up to me about her life and so did I.

It was a very deep conversation. This was not the normal conversation a husband and wife would talk about. It was special. As she lay asleep, I suddenly got this feeling (which I still confused about). The feeling of wanting to spend more time with her. I thought that after sex I would not want to see her again (one time deal). But no, all I think about right now is her.

Deep down inside, I've never wanted her to be apart of my life and so did she. But right now I cant get her out of my head. I know I was interested with her back then, but now, I'm obsess.

She's getting married soon but I still want to spend time with her. We both knew that it was not possible anymore and we both agreed that was the first and last meetup. But my feeling says otherwise. I know that this will all go away once she gets married.

I am genuinely happy for her as she has been in multiple complicated relationships previously and I am glad that she had finally found someone that could take care of her. But damn, its killing me inside thinking about her (not having the opportunity to spend time with her anymore).

So guys, ever experienced anything similar? Would like to know your feedback on a few things:

1) What is actually I am feeling?
2) Would this feeling fade away after she gets married?
3) Or was it the sex that is clouding my mind (I had one of the best sex with her) - or just maybe the excitement of something risky/cheating?

I have made up my mind on what to do. But I just like to know about other opinions and experiences.

As for the cheating part:

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Updates on post #20 guys.