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Budget 2017 Expectation

Giveme55 — Sun, 16 Oct 2016 21:03:36 +0800

What do think and hope for budget 2017 ? More on people first or economy?

Moving to a new house

Giveme55 — Sun, 16 Oct 2016 19:15:27 +0800

I am planing to move into my new house can transferred my UNIFI OVER from old house to my new house to avoide a new contract for 24month or apply those Umobile , maxis or DIGI for unlited call and internet at the moment?

Still using manual tiket

Giveme55 — Sun, 16 Oct 2016 18:10:10 +0800

Anybody has info about KTMB ticketing system ? Are we still using manual tiket ?

Still love ipone 6

Giveme55 — Sun, 16 Oct 2016 16:18:40 +0800

Do you still love iPhone 6 ?

Accout Balnce missing

Giveme55 — Sat, 15 Oct 2016 20:52:27 +0800

I thinks most of you do not know about your bank account Balnce in your account . Do check your bank account daily , weekly or monthly?

How kind you are u

Giveme55 — Tue, 11 Oct 2016 22:21:07 +0800

How kind are you towards others and how understand you are ? Will be friend no matter what happend like misunderstood and mistake ?

About loosing a friend *modified

Giveme55 — Tue, 11 Oct 2016 21:29:37 +0800

I have very few friend recently I make a new friend , this new friend of mind ls seems not like to make friend with me

should I continue this friendship? I do know this this new friend but now we like stranger already

sometimes we meet sometimes not at all . I ask my friend anything would like tell me if you dislike about me my friend said no.

My friend don't reply me , almost all the msg now we just like stranger .

Mosquitos come in to house

Giveme55 — Sun, 09 Oct 2016 22:37:25 +0800

Why suddenly mosquitos come in side my house ?

Clothes to work ( office )

Giveme55 — Sun, 09 Oct 2016 21:19:53 +0800

Do wear formal on Monday only or wear formal during other week days as well ?

Location office . *no t shirt no jeans expect Friday .

Monday bluesss

Giveme55 — Sun, 09 Oct 2016 21:12:47 +0800

Will be moody went come to Monday like no mood and Wednesday too?

Too much xxx

Giveme55 — Sun, 09 Oct 2016 21:00:13 +0800

Dear Dr G,

My name is Dave and I am 40 years old.

My wife thinks I have problems with sex addiction; I hope you can provide me your opinion.

My wife and I have been married for 15 years and we have two great teenage children.

Although life has been hectic for both of us, I continue to have good libido and engage in sexual activities at least twice a week with my wife.

In recent months, my wife has been not too receptive in the bedroom.

Initially, she said she was worried about pregnancy. And other times, she mentioned that the hormones might have dampened the sexual appetite.

The reality is, we have this disparity in desire. My wife thinks it is abnormal to have too much sex at our age. She thinks this is a form of addiction.

My questions are: How much sex is considered normal at my age? Isn’t frequency of sex a reflection of happiness in a relationship? Do I have sex addiction?

Please help

Dave

The experts in the field of sexual health, including psychiatrists, sociologists and sexologists all have differing opinions on the issue of sex addiction.

As a result “sexual addiction” does not exist as a clinical entity in medical classifications of diseases and medical disorders.

In a general term, the condition of “sex addiction” is characterised by compulsive participation or engagement in sexual activity, despite negative consequences.

This is slightly different from the condition of “sexual dependence” that refers to a conceptual model of people reporting the inability to control their sexual urge, behaviour and thought.

However, most of us agree “sex addicts” are not simply people who crave lots of sex. Instead, they have underlying problems such as anxiety or depression that drive their risky sexual behaviours.

Many people relate the condition of “sex addiction” by the over frequency of sexual intercourse. And that leads to the question of what is considered the “normal” frequency of intercourse.

In reality, many factors can influence how often people have sex. Relationship status, health, age, culture and religious beliefs all play an important role in the frequency of sexual encounters.

The famous Kinsey Institute performed a National Survey of Sexual Health and behaviour in the United States which revealed interesting statistics about the sexual appetite of the nation.

Only 2% of single men and 5% of single women between the ages of 18 to 24 years old have sex more than four times a week compared with 21% of married men and 24% of married women.

Age is not necessary a deterrent to sexual frequency, but the number of intimacies naturally declines.

In Malaysia and Asia Pacific countries, I was involved in a similar study a few years ago.

The frequency of sexual activities in Malaysia is around twice a week for those under 40s. This declines to six times a month for those above the age of 40.

The sample size was, however, small and most of the respondents were urban participants answering the questionnaires online.

It was also revealed that couples might not be any be happier even if they engage in more sex.

Researchers from Carnegie Mellon University conducted a study on 64 couples between the ages of 35 and 65.

Half the couples were instructed to double the weekly frequency of sex and others were halved.

When assessed the level of happiness, those who had more sex were not happier, instead, the level of happiness actually decreases.

The fact is for every couple, the relationship dynamic is different. It obviously takes two to tango and the “right” frequency is the one that satisfies both partners.

It may take time to figure this out and the frequency will clearly alter with time and relationship. It may take an effort to figure out what is the right intimacy frequency.

The important focus is on communication and negotiation. Couples may need to make compromises to reach an agreement.

Health care providers such as qualified sex therapists do not just help to heal, but often act as mediators to open up communication and assist the process of negotiation.

No discount

Giveme55 — Sun, 09 Oct 2016 13:21:28 +0800

Buying a phone soon but...

Giveme55 — Sun, 09 Oct 2016 11:43:10 +0800

I am going to buy a phone soon but , by taking a loan express loan , who dos that ?

Can loan turn in to saving?

Giveme55 — Sun, 09 Oct 2016 08:01:27 +0800

i am think to take a loan but can turn it to saving? Can take bank Intrest as well?

Which saving account or FD for

Giveme55 — Sun, 09 Oct 2016 07:45:22 +0800

I have been checking all the bank account noting seems suit the budget i have , currency I am still progressing to saving abit like 100k . Just ask which saving plan or FD suit for low saving category ?

Is it woth it ?

Giveme55 — Sun, 25 Sep 2016 20:44:57 +0800

Need some advice pls thanks ?

How many prepaid line

Giveme55 — Sun, 25 Sep 2016 14:56:57 +0800

How many prepaid line u have ? I have 2

Do you said this word

Giveme55 — Sun, 18 Sep 2016 21:39:04 +0800

If you any friend you tell them " sweet dream good night " does your friend relay u back or no ?

Dreams

Giveme55 — Sun, 18 Sep 2016 21:35:51 +0800

Does your dream come true even a simple one ?

What do you bring

Giveme55 — Sun, 18 Sep 2016 21:01:25 +0800

Do you bring a bag to office or just bring umbrella or just bring your body to work with loaded with cash and keys ?