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Not dj soda

iskull — Thu, 08 Oct 2020 19:17:24 +0800

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Still got portable digital cassette?

iskull — Fri, 30 Aug 2019 00:12:07 +0800

At this hour late in the night, was listening to old music then, started to reminiscing the past

while doing so, i was thinking abit on my mum, who is old and alone back in the old place.
her mind is not that well anymore, frail and sometimes will paranoia. not that anything is happening,
just feeling guilty that ive been more busy lately and not going back as frequent as it used to be

one thing that struck me is that i love music and sometimes, i also will be abit paranoia. Unlike the father,
felt like i am more alike mum. maybe she likes music too

am thinking to buy something and put in old songs for her to enjoice.

inb4 /k is not my personal blog

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Dear thelma, why am i not entitled

iskull — Sun, 19 May 2019 14:16:14 +0800

Stumbled upon this post at The Star about a daughter who is angry at her mother for refusing to take care of her own child. Which strawberry /k is this?

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I’m 34 years old and I’m a first-time mum. Before I got married, my relationship with my mum was good. However, after I got married and gave birth to a baby boy, everything seemed to change.

My husband is working overseas and I’m a working mum. After discussing with my husband, we both agreed that it’s better to live with my mum while my husband was away for work since we need her help to take care of my son.

For the past three years, we have also been giving a reasonable amount of money to my mum for taking care of my son and for letting both of us live at her home.

However, recently, I feel that my mum is starting to hate both of us, especially when my three-year-old is having a tantrum, whining or shouting loudly at home.

Whenever these happen, my mum will constantly shout at me and request that I move out of her house, saying that she doesn’t want to take care of my son anymore.

I told myself to just be patient and forgive my mum for whatever she has said or done. However, recently I found that my mum is so evil and secretive.

She even told my mother-in-law and our neighbours how extremely naughty my son is, and telling them frankly that she is so frustrated with him and that she doesn’t want to take care of him. She even told my mother-in-law that it’s better to ask me to stop working and take care of my own son.

My question here is, how can my own biological mum be so calculative with her grandson and daughter? We need more time to enable a three-year-old to understand what is right or wrong.

Another issue is, how could my mum talk bad about her own daughter behind my back and how could she say all the negative things about me and my son in front of my in-law?

Luckily, my husband is finally able to get a new house and we are preparing to move out from my mother’s house with dignity. In a few more months, we will stay together as a family of three and we plan to take care of our son together.

In the morning, we will send him to a pre-school and by noon, my husband will fetch him to my mother-in-law’s house for lunch. We are also thinking of asking her to help take care of our son for a few hours until I finish work.

My husband and I both believe in good and bad karma. We choose to forgive and forget all the bad things my mum has said and done. We believe our aim is to build a happy and healthy living environment for our son.

But occasionally, I still feel sad and cry when I think of all the hurtful words that came out from my mum’s mouth and the feeling of being betrayed by her. My heart is really searing with pain.

Dear Thelma, I really need your kind advice. Is all this negativity my fault?
Depressed daughter

Your mum has told you that she doesn’t want to take care of your child fulltime. Indeed, she has said so over and over again, to you and your relatives – and even her neighbours. She has also told you to move out. Yet you have ignored her wishes.

I’m puzzled why you think you’re entitled to take up her home and her life in this way. You appear to be well off, so it’s not as if driving needs have forced you into this position.

Let me spell this out for you: Your mother is not a maid or a nanny. She is also not running a hotel. Your mum is an older lady who has worked hard all her life, and who was no doubt looking forward to a few years of peaceful retirement.

My advice is that you apologise to your mum immediately. She sounds like a very nice woman for having put up with this for years, so she’ll probably be open to a conversation about the best way for you to move out and to start taking responsibility for your child.

As for moving, that should be done as soon as possible. Go and stay in a hotel or rent a bed-and-breakfast. If your mum allows you to stay a few more weeks, start paying for a nanny today, or take time off work and look after your child yourself. While you are house-hunting, pay your mum for your room and board.

After you have apologised, ask your mum and mum-in-law how much they want to be involved in raising your son. Do not demand; you are asking a favour. Childcare is the responsibility of you and your husband, not your older female relatives.

In that vein, I have a question about your plan of sticking your mother-in-law with your son every day from noon to night. Have you asked her if she wants that responsibility? If she suggested it herself, then OK.

If she is not enthusiastic about this arrangement, rethink your plans. This is your son, so have your husband cook his lunch and arrange for a sitter or a nanny to mind him when you two are busy.

Finally, when you have moved and are settled, I suggest you have a good long think about your attitude. You talk about karma but it seems to me that you have only considered your own needs in this situation. Use this experience to improve yourself.

Read more at https://www.star2.com/family/2019/05/19/my-...Mg3tzxXpMxkz.99

today i lose my purity

iskull — Mon, 18 Mar 2019 10:25:44 +0800

my car broke down in the middle of road

first taim let tow truck tarik

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EPF declares

iskull — Sat, 16 Feb 2019 12:58:49 +0800

EPF declares 6.15 percent dividend for conventional savings, 5.9 percent for Shariah

KUALA LUMPUR (Feb 16): The Employees Provident Fund (EPF) has declared a dividend rate of 6.15 per cent for Simpanan Konvensional 2018, with payout amounting to RM43 billion and 5.9 per cent for Simpanan Shariah 2018, with a payout amounting to RM4.32 billion.

In total, the payout for 2018 amounts to RM47.31 billion, a marginal decrease of 1.7 per cent from 2017.

“With a real dividend of 3.93 percent for Simpanan Konvensional and 3.68 percent for Simpanan Shariah on a rolling three-year basis respectively, the EPF has exceeded its mandate of delivering a dividend of at least 2.5 percent on a yearly basis and at least 2 percent real dividend on a rolling three-year basis,” the EPF said in a statement today.

https://www.theedgemarkets.com/article/epf-...percent-shariah

Mavcom chairman to resign

iskull — Fri, 06 Jul 2018 21:34:50 +0800

KUALA LUMPUR (Bernama): Malaysian Aviation Commission (Mavcom) executive chairman Tan Sri Gen (Rtd) Abdullah Ahmad is stepping down, a source confirmed.

“I cannot say anything at this point of time. But, I can tell you that he is on his way out,” the source, who requested anonymity, told Bernama.

She said a statement on the resignation would be issued later.

Mavcom has been under the spotlight recently following calls for its abolition by local airlines, namely AirAsia, Eaglexpress Air Charter Sdn Bhd and Suasa Airlines Sdn Bhd, saying the Commission did not understand how the aviation industry really worked.

The much criticised passenger service charges also put Mavcom under pressure as the move to hike the rate was not welcomed by industry players and travellers.

Abdullah, a retired Air Force general, has served Mavcom for more than two years and during his tenure, the administration received over 3,900 public complaints and managed to resolve up to 93% of them within 30 days.

Transport Minister Anthony Loke had previously revealed that Abdullah's salary was currently about RM85,000 a month, which was four times more than what Prime Minister Tun Dr Mahathir Mohamad earned.

He said the Prime Minister had given instructions for a salary review after it was revealed that Abdullah's monthly salary and allowance in 2016 was RM78,300.

Loke said there was a 3% increase in 2017, and a further 5% increment in 2018, to bring his current salary to RM85,000 a month. - Bernama
Read more at https://www.thestar.com.my/news/nation/2018...e7LRQWoJq1xQ.99

Kes ini apa macam ? Mavcom lodges police report against Tony Fernandes over claim

Resignation Tracker [GOTONG ROYONG edisi PH 2.0]

iskull — Tue, 15 May 2018 19:10:17 +0800

HALAMAN UTAMA

Najib - Ex Prime Minister - LOSE

Najib - Ketua UMNO, BN - RESIGN

Ibrahim Ali - Ketua PERKASA - RESIGN *NEW*

Dzulkifli Ahmad - Ketua MACC - RESIGN

Shahrir Samad - Felda Chairman - RESIGN

Liow Tiong Lai - MCA President - STEP DOWN

S. Subramaniam - MIC President - STEP DOWN

Huan Cheng Guan - DPM of PCM - RESIGN

Ashraf Abdullah - TV3 Group Managing Editor - RESIGN

Mohamad Fatmi - Pengerusi Kumpulan Utusan - RESIGN

Honorable mention:

Mohamad Fatmi Che Salleh - Pengerusi Bebas Bukan Eksekutif Utusan - RESIGN
Jamalul Kiram Mohd Zakaria,Sariffuddin Tengku Ahmad , Mohd Yusof Bin Abu Othman - Pengarah Bebas Bukan Eksekutif Utusan - RESIGN

Ramlee Marahaban - Director and Chairman of Warisan Harta Sabah, Suria Capital Board - RESIGN

Tajudin Ramli - Non-independent and Non-executive Chairman Edaran Bhd, Former Executive Chairman of Malaysian Airline System Bhd - RESIGN
Bistamam Ramli - Non-independent and Non-executive Managing Director Edaran Bhd - RESIGN

Lain-lain:

Musa Aman - Chief Minister Sabah - KONON LA

Apandi - Attorney General - FORCE LEAVE

Irwan Serigar - Treasury secretary-general - TRANSFERRED

Khalid Abu Bakar - Ex-IGP - STANDBY

Bonus:

Kamarul Zaman Yusoff - Director of UUM MAPAN - RESIGN

Lim Sian See - Anti-LGE/DAP - RETIRED/SOUL-SEARCHING

Raja Petra Kamarudin (RPK) - Malaysian Editor - 360 NOSCOPE-UTURN

Siapa lagi? Kalo ada yg missing, Harap tolong suggest!

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Masih dalam siasatan, pending:

Arul Kanda - President IMDB - ? (Ini TAK PAYAH cakap la..., sediakan popcorn je )

Jho Low - Financier - ? (Susulan dari point #1 di atas, tambah potato chips ... )

Sharizat - Politicion - ? (Lembu dan Kondo)

Tan Sri Abdullah Ahmad RMAF - Executive chairman MAVCOM - ? (Issue with Tony Fernandes, LATEST UPDATE)

STAY TUNE FOR MORE

Losing first time home buyer

iskull — Mon, 24 Jul 2017 20:35:35 +0800

Hi all,

I'm about to make a deal to help someone who can't afford a loan because too many commitments.

The said person will just need my name in the joint loan. all the payment will be settled by him.

Furthermore, once after 3 years, he will take back the loan and give me half the rental for the 3 years.

Let just say that this deal is with someone close

I'm new to property, i heard there might be privileges if you are new home buyer etc. I just want to know if this deal is so bad or its pretty ok with just a minor cons towards me.

Hope that you all can share your opinion on this matter with me. Thanks alot