http://forum.lowyat.net/ Sun, 07 Jun 2026 01:26:58 +0800 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/4886071 I am female, uni student and he is a working guy. We have an age gap. We met online. It&#39;s been around 6 months. I asked for his contact first because I liked talking to him. He&#39;s from a neighbouring country. He hint before that he liked me but I pretended not to notice. Then he was direct but I didn&#39;t really address it. Now, he has been joking around that he loves me...I told him ppl cannot love if they never met. That&#39;s just logic. I just don&#39;t want him to think he loves me because he doesn&#39;t really know me, it&#39;s only possible if you meet someone a lot. We do talk a lot about our life and issues too, but I already convinced him a few times to really think about this and he&#39;s just positive. <br /><br />We know what each other looks like, called each other a few times (I called first). He said he wants to go see me, but don&#39;t know when. <br /><br />I told him to talk to more girls but he said if he could found someone from his place, he wouldn&#39;t have been looking for people online. Now, he said I am the only girl he talks to. Before, I gave him advice on girls and he asked me for advice too. To be clear, the app was just a chatting app and I went there to troll people but unexpectedly talked to this guy. I already told him several times I&#39;m scared of relationships. I have been single forever and he said he was too. I already told him I have problems. I don&#39;t want him to just like the idea of me and he is still pushing for it. I like him too, but I don&#39;t want a relationship.<br /><br />Don&#39;t know what to do. I tried not to like him and even tried not talking for a period of time, but I still like him. I know it&#39;s not love. It&#39;s not possible. And I never told him I liked him, scared that I might be confused with my feelings.<br /><br />Long story short, I am trying my best to be realistic. He is more positive. We are not in a relationship. I tried to ask for advice from several people, but not helpful. So, I am here. I don&#39;t know what to do with this guy. If he does come meet me, I don&#39;t know what to do? I am just a broke student and he does not know anything about this place. I also am not from this state...if he meets me in my hometown, I don&#39;t know what to do as well. I don&#39;t drive and don&#39;t have dating experience.<br /><br />Edit: Change title since it is more appropriate haha isklara Cupid&#39;s Corner Thu, 02 Jan 2020 13:52:39 +0800