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            <title>Life In a Rut</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/4171758</link>
            <description>So for the past couple of years life has been extremely unkind to me, 2016 in particular. I &amp;#39;ve never felt so down in my life before...so I have been thinking you know some people say &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1) You need to fight for your dreams, never back down, never take no for an answer...bla bla bla...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;conversely there are some advice that goes along the lines of&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2) go with the flow, life is about the journey, not the destination, be thankful for everything bla bla bla&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;by now you can get the idea of what I am talking about, (1) and (2) are absolutely contradicting &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;so my question is, in your life, which do you find works best for you ? (1) or (2) ...of dare i say it (3) which I assume would be a hybrid of ?</description>
            <author>fuserdef</author>
            <category>Serious Kopitiam</category>
            <pubDate>Tue, 10 Jan 2017 22:17:40 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>[HELP] Laptop Won&amp;#39;t Turn On</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/3913010</link>
            <description>Hi, &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My Dell studio 1555 died, please help ?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So I was updating my steam/dota 2 and left my laptop on before i went to eat dinner. When i came back the entire laptop was dead. No light. Nothing. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I tried remove battery and power up with a/c adapter connected - Nothing &lt;br /&gt;I tired just battery power up with no a/c connected - nothing &lt;br /&gt;Battery is fully charged as there is a battery indicator LED on my battery and its full when i press it.&lt;br /&gt;Tried disconnect battery and a/c adapter, press on button for 30sec to discharge the static, plug back in the a/c adapter and power on - nothing &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I notice that when i dont plug the a/c adapter into the laptop, my a/c adapter indicator light ring is on, however as soon as i plug it into my laptop the a/c adapter light ring indicator turns off. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;any ideas ? thank you &amp;#33;</description>
            <author>fuserdef</author>
            <category>Technical Support</category>
            <pubDate>Sun, 03 Apr 2016 23:05:59 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>Nice Guys Finish Last</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/3727853</link>
            <description>Saw this post on the Sunway Confessions page, thought it would be pretty cool story to inspire all the underdogs in /K &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;#2018&lt;br /&gt;&amp;quot;I&amp;#39;m an ex student from sunway. I would love to share my story with my best friend X. I would try to keep it short.&lt;br /&gt;X and I met in high school. We went to college together. Through out the years, I always knew that he loves me but I didn&amp;#39;t respond to his affections. I dated other guys while he never dated anyone.&lt;br /&gt;When we were in college I started to have feelings for him, so I dropped him hints and he proposed to me. But I turned him down. Because it hit me that I didn&amp;#39;t love him as much, I didn&amp;#39;t love him as much that I could see a future with him. On my naive mind, I thought I could do &amp;quot;better&amp;quot;. As he wasn&amp;#39;t tall or price charming like. He was also the &amp;quot;good boy/dorky&amp;quot; type.&lt;br /&gt;Since then we had a lot of arguments, I knew I hurt him, a lot. But I thought if I do not see a future with him I shouldn&amp;#39;t date him as we would break up eventually. Things got bad to worse we decided that we should stop talking to each other, after 7 years of being best friends. He told me that I&amp;#39;ll always be his best friend, and if I needed anything he would always be there for me.&lt;br /&gt;Fast forward, I graduated, married a tall and handsome guy Y I met from business school. I didn&amp;#39;t even invite x for my wedding. And we had a daughter.&lt;br /&gt;My daughter needs a surgery. And it requires a lot of money. I&amp;#39;m jobless. My husband doesn&amp;#39;t earn much from his job as a manager. And my only hope is X as I got to know that he is a very successful engineer. After 7 years of not talking to each other, With my tebal muka, I talked to him on Facebook and told him my issues and asked for a loan&lt;br /&gt;He agreed to help banked in the money, and went by at the hospital to visit my daughter.&lt;br /&gt;Then I treat him dinner in my house, that&amp;#39;s when he noticed the bruises on my arms, my neck. Asked me about it. And he weeped. That&amp;#39;s the first time I ever saw my best friend now a grown man shedding his tears down his cheeks.&lt;br /&gt;He then stood up and gave me a squeeze. Apologizing while holding me. We just cried together.&lt;br /&gt;I never felt so secure in a long time. That&amp;#39;s when I realized, x truly loves me. He told me to leave Y and I should report Y.&lt;br /&gt;The truth is, my husband is abusive and a drunkard, he seldom comes home, he wasn&amp;#39;t even home that time.&lt;br /&gt;How I wish I could just turn back time, just give him a chance and just allow myself to fall in love with him. My life would be perfect.&lt;br /&gt;But it&amp;#39;s all too late now, he has his wife and his own life.&lt;br /&gt;Yes I&amp;#39;ll be leaving Y, I even signed the divorce papers. I didn&amp;#39;t report him for the sake of our daughter. Even all that, it is just a horrible feeling that I missed out on a man who truly loves me.&lt;br /&gt;I know my life story sounds like a drama but it is a true story.&lt;br /&gt;Girls, the moral of my story is, don&amp;#39;t always go for the physical stuff, don&amp;#39;t be blinded by lust. someday you will realize that all these means nothing. Also. It doesn&amp;#39;t mean that good looking guys are evil. Always go for a man who loves you more than you love him. Doesn&amp;#39;t matter if he looks dorky or uncool.&lt;br /&gt;Love is patient, love is kind, you will see all these values in him when he comes. Never settle for anyone who is hot tempered. God bless&amp;#33; wink emoticon&lt;br /&gt;I now can only wish and pray that he would be happy. At least. Because I know I&amp;#39;ll be happy for him. &lt;br /&gt;Sorry for the long post. I&amp;#39;m just ranting and expressing how I feel as well. &amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sos ribuan pulau : &lt;a href='https://www.facebook.com/permalink.php?story_fbid=677067995762735&amp;id=289984354471103&amp;fref=nf' target='_blank'&gt;https://www.facebook.com/permalink.php?stor...4471103&amp;fref=nf&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;</description>
            <author>fuserdef</author>
            <category>The Museum Of Kopitiam</category>
            <pubDate>Tue, 29 Sep 2015 22:48:06 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>[WTA] Parking at Wangsa Maju LRT</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/3643327</link>
            <description>Hi is there parking at Wangsa Maju LRT ? Planing to take the LRT to work so would be looking at parking there for the whole day. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How much the the charge for parking there ? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Not from KL so I havent a clue</description>
            <author>fuserdef</author>
            <category>Serious Kopitiam</category>
            <pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2015 08:49:37 +0800</pubDate>
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