Success in Career but Loser in Relationship

MyFreedom — Mon, 24 Nov 2014 17:08:06 +0800

Dear all

i am in early 30s now .... success in career , but loser in relationship .... WHY ?

I focus in my career previously , and now comfortable with my job ,

Earlier this year ..... I found a girl ...and she became my gf ...... a lot of my friends said she is 'High Maintenance' and she just go after my money I don't believe my friends. and why they said so ....

They said my gf dressing and accessories mostly are branded or high end brand and not those LV or Gucci , is something more expensive

at first , we really sweet couple , she never use my money or ask money from me to buy anything for her ..but i constantly brought her travel here and there .. and time passing by ,

she start to request things from me ..... from expensive make up accessories and requested me bring her go shopping all under my expenses .... we stay together , I paid for all the rental ( I sold my house) , is ok for me . a

And until 1 day , I have huge problem , basically financially , I spent a lot money for my mom and dad illness, they suffered from cancer and I emptied my bank account just for their medical , I sold my house just to bear their medical fees which cost me few hundred thousand of ringgits , they don't have medical card due to their old age ,

And that time my gf ... keep nagging me ....and not even morally support me , she scold me with harsh words ..... ignore me , when i stayed with her... i am the one who do the household , even I cooked for her....she also scold me ......

Finally 1 day , we broke off , she kicked me out from the house .. I feel relief and sad at the same time , because leaving a lot of sweet memories .......

I not sure what she want I tried my best to be a good bf ..... tried to fulfill what she needs ....

already 5 month we broken off ... and now she looking for me ...ask me giving her 1 more chance ...... but from the what I know now ,she having financial difficulties and she having trouble to pay for her house rent and her daily expenses ....

I have no more feeling with her ..... I totally ignore her....

Now I am in new pace of my career , but is not easy looking for someone that can connect with each other .......

I already start my new life ... but still loser in relationship because , I have very less female friends ..... and most of the female colleagues don't dare to talk to me much ...maybe because of my position in company ......

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