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advice needed. can't move on even he did shits.

fin307 — Mon, 05 Jun 2017 13:29:52 +0800

So,
I knew this guy way back in 2015.

We met and all after work,
then I was diagnosed with cancer, survived and then he told me "lets be serious", since the past time we were just testing the water, (see if we click or not),

So we went out, dinner and all,
He even met my family,
Took care of me after I operated and so on,

then we fought for silly thing on last ramadhan (june i think),
so he disappeared for a while,
I was so depressed and sad, while on going treatment chemo,
I almost lost hope cause I put all my feelings in that relationship,

after my chemotheraphy completed,
I continued to work (no longer work at that company now) to make myself busy and try to forget him slowly,
I almost succeed till he appears back in my life.

We met after work (his office was near) and had a dinner,
I told him that the max I can go is just a friend (even I'm still can't move on entirely),
He asked whats the reason,
I said, "there's no way I can accept you after you left me alone , knowing im Sick and all. You should be ashamed." I know I'm harsh but that's what came out from my mouth.

Before went home, he said sorry, and he will try to be better.
So we texted like normal friend, a day maybe 4-5 messages, like (how r u, home yet? have u eaten? and some general questions).
Until one day,
Some stranger text me on fb, (i know i shouldn't believe this girl since it's on fb) asking me what's my relation with this guy.
I didn't answer that girl, and i asked him (who's this girl?. u know her? she's been harrassing me for quite sometimes).
He said, "just my little sis. Know her from fb also."
I asked "have you met her?"
He said "yes. She actually wants to visit you when you're at hospital after operation, but doctor won't let anyone except your family to visit you, so I asked her to pass w/e she wants to pass (gifts) to me so I can pass to you later on.)
I was like that's so thoughtful of her.

But...
I couldn't convince myself thats the story,
There must be more.
So i started to chat with the girl.
I said thanks for the gifts and so on,
then she said, she wants to meet me before she going back to sabah.
And we met. We had lunch and I asked how she knows him and so on.
She told me something that almost made me break the restaurant plate into half.
"He came and meet me at klcc, I told him the gifts at hotel, so I had to go back and take it back. So he fetched me and.."
I was like "and?"
He said that he's tired and want to sleep in her room for a while, and she let her in. and you know what happened next.....

I couldn't believe at all.
So we continue to text.
Until one day,
Another girl came and DM me on instagram.

She's like asking me stuffs, where I met him, and all.
I was curious as well,
cause on her IG,
this guy who I dated, already existed since 2014. and on her fb since 2009.
We talked for a while, and then I decided to tell I had something with her. but that's all. no sex no nothing. just a relationship.
Then she said, that guy is her boyfriend. Been together since 2009 and all, I couldnt believe it.
She showed me all the pic, (when he was skinny back then, with his parents and all, and she's in the picture as well)
I was crushed. totally crushed.

So I set up a revenge.
I mean 3 of us. The sabahan girl, me and his gf.
So he supposedly to fly and meet his gf (not malaysian) to attend her sis wedding at bali,
So I fetched him to KLIA and all,
There he met his gf.

His gf told me thru wassap and telegram on any updates,
So the last day he was there, she decided to tell him the truth that she knows about me, the sabahan girl and few other girls that he slept with behind her back. (I didn't go that far with him yet. thank god).
And she called it off and broke up with him before he flew back to Malaysia.

Then he texted every scandals he have/had/been with, that he's sorry with what he did to them (including me).
Then he disappeared for a while,
We are supposed to go new zealand on march, ticket and hotel all booked already,
then cancer decided to strike me back, and I had to undergo chemoteraphy once again,
So my chemo period is January - April, So i had to cancel the new zealand plan,

His ex gf (the indonesian girl) went with him, took my place and they enjoyed their time tgt there.
When he came back from new zealand, I asked hows the vacay and all.
he said nothing happened, just went for sight seeing and all.
Not in relationship with her.
He said, I only know her part of stories and not his.
I was like "I dont realy care anymore about you guys. I want to be healthy again. That's my focus."

But every now and then,
he kept texting me,
sending me songs ( he sing btw and his voice is superbly nice ).
and guess what.

I'm hopeless in love.....
I tried to date few guys.
All of them are nice.
We went out for movies, dinner and some of the guys even cook for me. that's a huge A plus if you're looking for a great guy. ( i love guys who can cook.)
But my mind still thinking about him.

So last week I went out and had iftar with him.
He dropped me off at LRT and while on his bike, I put my head on his back...
I missed his smell, his broad back, and his warmth. sorry for my stupid description..

I've tried. really tried.
but I can't forget him...
I don't text him, but it's killing me for not replying his texts....
I don't know what to do..

Sorry for the long story.
Any advise here?

PC sometimes crash on its own.

fin307 — Tue, 23 May 2017 11:15:23 +0800

always happened whenever I'm playing game or watching movies.
when it crashes, it makes a huge noise. like something stuck kinda noise.

I have sent for service one time previously,
they said its a wiring problem, and they fixed it,
now it happened again.

any sifu might have an idea whats the problem?

switch from i5 to i7.

fin307 — Tue, 16 May 2017 10:08:54 +0800

if let say mine now is i5 core,
and want to switch over to i7 core,
means everything I have inside my pc will get wipe ?

sorry for this kind of q.

what to change to have a better performance ?

fin307 — Thu, 04 May 2017 15:45:32 +0800

I am currently using Unifi 50,
with their free modem and router.
Any suggestion of what should be change to improve the performance?
Like change router or modem?

[WTS] Iphone 5s 16GB Gold

fin307 — Sun, 25 Sep 2016 11:55:59 +0800

Item(s): Iphone 5s 16GB Gold

Package includes: box, plug.

Price:RM 850

Warranty:None

Dealing method: COD only.

Location of seller: Wangsa Maju/Pavilion/KLCC

Contact method/details: pm me here.

Age of item:1 year +

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Item(s) conditions:

Picture:

Reason for sale: upgrade to 7 might be.

WTS> Lumia 950XL dual sim 32GB,Display Dock

fin307 — Sat, 03 Sep 2016 20:17:16 +0800

Item(s):MICROSOFT LUMIA 950XL DUAL SIM 32 GB + Display dock

Package includes:everything, (charger, earphone)

Price: RM 1500 (but you can negotiate)

Warranty: till february 2017

Dealing method: COD

Location: W.maju, KLCC, Pavilion.

Contact method/details: Pm.
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Item(s) conditions: 100% like brand new. Just used few months for home use.

Picture:box

inside box

behind phone

display dock

Reason for sale: selling extra phone.

Um yeah. I don't know what should I feel now.

fin307 — Tue, 10 May 2016 08:37:22 +0800

So. Here's the thing between me and my partner,
I was diagnosed with an illness (quite bad) so the feeling of being a burden to someone is always there,
Last 2 weeks my partner told me that He is going to Indonesia with his sister to find some "kain" for his sister business since it's cheaper there,
He invited me to come along (there's not verbal clear invitation, just a ajak ajak ayam), but since I kena admission to HUKM on 2/5, I couldn't follow.
When I was in hospital, I tried to whatsapp him and found out that I couldn't view his pic, and his status. I became worried lah anything happen to him.
So I borrowed my mom's phone and try to add his whatsapp on my mom's phone.
What a surprised, I can view EVERYTHING from his whatsapp profile,
I was thinking "Did he just blocked me from his whatsapp?"
I tried whatsapp him using my number but all one tick (can't get through).
So when he returned to Malaysia, I asked if you have transportation to get back home, if not, I can fetch you and your sister from KL Sentral.
He insisted that I don't have to come and pick him and his sister as they can take public transport.
I don't know if that's a courtesy of me being sick or just discharged, so he don't want me to go all the troubles to fetch him.
Or others.....

So I went to his IG (instagram) and saw a lot of videos,
the one that made me question the most are all of his videos were hashtags (single,solo).
I was heartbroken at first, but I decided to ask him about the whatsapp issue and so on,
he said he didn't block me or anything.
again, I said that I couldn't reach you at all, but my mom's phone can, not only that,
you have the time to upload videos on instagram but don't have the time at least check on me?
He said I assumed too much.
And now we're on big fight where our relationship is no longer secure.

Am I doing the right thing by confronting him or no?

Myvi 1.3 premium x, xs and myvi 1.5se

fin307 — Tue, 05 Apr 2016 13:47:14 +0800

Is it true that perodua will discontinue this 3 products?
cause last Saturday I went to book myvi premium x for leisure driving,
today got a call from the agent, saying that perodua will discontinue this 3 products and only focus on either standard or 1.5 advanced,

is it true or just marketing strategy for them in a way to push me to buy 1.5 advanced? :\

i7 6700 vs i5 6600k

fin307 — Wed, 06 Jan 2016 09:17:28 +0800

I do a bit of video rendering, youtube, streaming and gaming.

so which is suit for my usage?

thanks.

choose between this two mobo please.

fin307 — Thu, 17 Dec 2015 14:40:58 +0800

help me choose between this two.

enquire about 2 monitors set up.

fin307 — Mon, 09 Nov 2015 13:28:03 +0800

is it possible for gtx 970 to run a dual monitor. not gonna use both for gaming, just one screen gaming, another side for chat and etc.

Can seasonic m12II psu handle this gpu?

fin307 — Sun, 01 Nov 2015 23:49:21 +0800

sapphire nitro r9 390 and
sapphire nitro r9 390x?

help in building an affordable gaming ring.

fin307 — Mon, 05 Oct 2015 23:25:39 +0800

yes, so my brother graduation is coming up and he's been doing so well with his exams and studies,
but sadly,
he's been using my laptop (vaio sony the old one) to do all his works,
so as a present, I want to buy him a gaming desktop as he likes to play casual online games.
so my budget is within rm 3000.
any advice?

thanks

a quick question regarding on CPU.

fin307 — Sun, 28 Jun 2015 18:48:54 +0800

xeon e3 1231 v3 vs i5 4690k

the problem is that,
I am building a rig and stuck between these two cpu.
I am more to gaming rather than video editing.
and the price between these two cpu are almost identical, only differs rm 50-60.
I tried googling around, some favors xeon and some favors 4690k.

I am open to all kind of opinions, overclocking, and other variables.

Thanks in advance for the kind opinion!

[WTS] ME.I AM MARIAH. Mariah Carey concert ticket

fin307 — Sat, 23 Aug 2014 17:37:58 +0800

Item(s): Mariah Carey "ME. I AM MARIAH' 2014 Live in Kuala Lumpur

Package includes:

Price:RM 435 after discount of 10%.

Warranty:

Dealing method:COD. PREFERABLY WANGSA MAJU, AMPANG.

Location: WANGSA MAJU, AMPANG

Contact method/details:017 381 7706 .
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Item(s) conditions:100% GENUINE.

Picture:

Reason for sale: because buying another 2 tickets to seat side by side with my firned.