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Trust issue

Kuro Kokoro — Sat, 12 Jul 2014 13:10:39 +0800

im tired.

so i should have just accepted men's breach of privacy?

if he wants to keep flirting with online girls and put me aside, i should have just acted cool?
he's not basically cheating but i hate it when he had video call with other girls and etc till the point im getting ignored. somehow i feel cheated with this so called freedom.

i never do what he does.
i dont go fooling around with other guys.thats maybe the reason i couldnt accept this kind of act.

i couldnt trust him.

it's cliche but im insecured and he doesnt give me any assurance.

EPF or Pension?

Kuro Kokoro — Wed, 19 Feb 2014 17:11:20 +0800

Hi every one,

I would like ur opinions/ advices based on ur experiences.

What's the advantage of EPF or Pension?
Which 1 is better to take?

Any civil servants especially (private servants are also welcomed), please give me ur feedback.

Thanks in advance

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Kuro Kokoro — Fri, 07 Feb 2014 02:30:14 +0800

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Any combat games?

Kuro Kokoro — Wed, 05 Feb 2014 20:43:11 +0800

Dear people,

Please recommend me any good combat/fighting games?

WHITENING PRODUCTS

Kuro Kokoro — Wed, 05 Feb 2014 01:55:30 +0800

There're so many whitening products out there either in pills, cream, milk shake and etc.

any of u used to try one or am consuming any of it?

how about glutathione/vit c injections?

Serum?

People are so obssess to have WHITE skin like korean in tv while the truth is that's all plastic surgery/synthetic.

Well, Im already fair. Just that Im so curious with either these kinds of products really do well?

As for my skin, it prefers natural home remedy to stay younger..

FAKTA OR AUTA

Kuro Kokoro — Mon, 03 Feb 2014 18:51:07 +0800

Do u guys actually being frank here in online forum?

Is there actually any chance that some of us might be making story just like to make it interesting?
(my partner gave me this damn stupid answer after I asked him why he responded so dearly about other girl in a forum)

To me,
I wouldnt respond to any topic that I couldnt relate too. I responded based on the experience/knowledge of my own/people around me. But of course wont drill down too much, just enough to be in a discussion.

How about u? fakta or auta?

Share with me your thoughts hehe

Do u still hold on to ur current LDR till now? Y?

Kuro Kokoro — Mon, 03 Feb 2014 03:19:01 +0800

LDR is never easy.
To some of us, it's like forever alone.
But there are still who love their partner so dearly after enduring so much troubles/pains/evanescent happiness together (including me).

So guys.
Share with me.

How long you have been together now? Why do u still stay with her/him? Is it solely because u love her or afraid losing her or other reasons?

Me, almost four years now. My reason is because I just love him and grateful for his sacrifices, plus seeing him as my potential life partner despite of all the sorrow that has happened (slightly feeling regret now actually)

So how about u guys?

Privacy & hiding something is 2 different things

Kuro Kokoro — Sun, 02 Feb 2014 02:38:58 +0800

After all these online sessions, getting people's advices/opinions, reading all the threads, I realize that those who loves more hurts more.

You were in pain but too stubborn to leave because u have this much more love for him/her.

You decided to have faith even though u have doubts because u couldnt leave him/her, u arent strong enough.

what an idiot to be on this side who loves more.

Relationship is about willing to commit for both sides but understanding each other will never work when either of u has something to hide. Having a privacy and hiding something is two different things.

Something that I ponder upon tonight.

Guess I should really move on.

Whats the actual meaning of faithful?

Kuro Kokoro — Sat, 01 Feb 2014 20:57:15 +0800

Hi.
Im here because I am in need of opinions/advices.

Like any LDR, there were lots of painful memories.
We have been faithful to each other. None of us actually had affairs.
But what's actually the meaning of faithful in men's life? Having online is a way to hide things from us girls? Is it what faithful mean to u? I wonder about that.

Some of u might see me as a stupid girl. Once I'm in a relationship with someone, I would be loyal.
If guys asked me out, I rejected them, only to those who have interests in me as more than friends.

I didnt date with them because yeah, I dont actually feel comfortable going out with guys tht I've just known.
I dont want to give hope to other men. I dont even reply online chats from other men.
When a guy sent "Hi cute or whatsoever",I wont reply. Not being arrogant actually. But to me, u have to be sincere to befriend. I'm not looking for online flirting. My SNS is only to get updates from my colleague.

But recently, I just found out that my boyfriend wrote about other girl so dearly in an online forum.
I couldnt help but getting frustrated. He sounded regretful to choose me over her.

"Like, I lost mine year ago".

The girl he mentioned was his junior college. We used to fight a lot because of her actually.

Im not being jealous without reasons. Just that long time ago, he ignored me when I texted/called him. But he could tweet/chat with her online. They had lost contact. But I wonder if he still miss her? if he do adore her?Why dont he be honest to me? Why would he say he love me all these years?

We have been better these recent years actually. I really love him. I love him too much. And now when I read his statements about her, I couldnt stop wondering. Was his heart yearn for her/for someone else?
When I asked him, he said that I was stupid to believe of what people wrote online. He claimed that he wrote that way just to make it interesting and make people read. I doubt that actually.

In my heart, it's only him. Somehow, I couldnt accept if there was other girl than me? I felt cheated and betrayed in some way.

When I asked him "are u serious with me" or do u truly love me". He would answered "If I didnt, we wouldnt be together till now".

Im confused. And I know I might look stupid for being insecured over a girl who wasnt around him anymore It's just that it's still painful if his love was not only for me in his heart.