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Those with Mid-life crisis

babykon101 — Wed, 18 Mar 2026 19:04:07 +0800

Mid-life, achieve much but feels like still more to achieve. But where does all the times go?

last time very cheong, first one in last one out - nao climbing ladder but don’t know why
last time go parti2, futsal and all. nao 9pm sleep w kidz

how about my fellow ktards? Reach peak ady no nid stress - just stable like a boss?

Do you desier for FIRE or calm and peace is all you desire until you knock

Makan2 Di Konica

babykon101 — Mon, 16 Mar 2026 15:35:36 +0800

What good food to rekomen. So far ordered Nasi goreng - sikit pedas and my tongue already flaming.

Sorry about my posts

babykon101 — Fri, 19 Dec 2025 16:37:19 +0800

My boss just came back from overseas trip and mana tau he so late he still kam into office.

I didn't bring my laptop charger these few days because i know he's overseas so i have been using his charger. Now sudden when i go smoke, he took my charger.

what should i do? battery currently still 82%

No more youngters on /k

babykon101 — Fri, 19 Dec 2025 16:15:00 +0800

With the recent news about Malaysia planning to restrict social media access for those under 16, it suddenly hit me that forums like /k might quietly become an adult-only space without anyone planning it.

will our beloeved gobi-diam become a digital coffee shop where everyone is 30+ and tired?
or do you think we don't need young bloods to stay relevant?

Genuine question, no flame pls

babykon101 — Fri, 19 Dec 2025 15:41:06 +0800

Recently this question been bugging me....cause i also first hand experience.
At what point does “normal aging” stop being normal and start being something we should actually look into?

Feels like everything these days gets brushed off as:
Tired? → aging
Body aches? → aging
Brain fog? → aging
Low energy? → aging

But then at the same time when i google, we’re told to be “health conscious”, exercise more, eat better, manage stress, do checkups, etc.
So which one is it?

How do you draw the line between normal wear and tear?

Maybe I’m overthinking, but it feels like “aging” has become a very convenient answer for everything.

Todei my wife woke me at 1am and ask me....

babykon101 — Fri, 19 Dec 2025 15:12:20 +0800

Luckily waifu didnt ask tough question. Just ask me if I have seen her usual pillow that she carry to sleep.

abit PTSD when ex-gf woke me up with my phone in her hand.

Weekend plans apa?

babykon101 — Fri, 19 Dec 2025 15:02:01 +0800

Vote pls so I feel better about my life choices 👍

My bills is now /k level

babykon101 — Thu, 18 Dec 2025 10:40:45 +0800

Salary coming in, haven't even touch pocket already need to deduct so much. headache how to reduce. salary also /k, expenses also /k already

House Loans
HL1 - 7200, mgt fee 420
HL2 - 1500, mgt fee 200
HL3 - Settled, mgt fee 320

Car Loan
black car - 4865

Bills
Celcom - 500 ( 3 phones, 1 wifi)
TNB - 400
Insurance - 2300
Maid - 2200
School Fees - 1600

dont know apa lg bills haven't even counted in, need to check finance app later. ktards have any idea where to reduce? all macam basic neccisities je, fuarkkkkkkkkkkk

Being father not EZ

babykon101 — Wed, 17 Dec 2025 17:28:01 +0800

Ever since ayam haz becomes a father, work becum not EZ.
Previously can goyan kaki etc abit, now work very hard thinking of baby cause very motivating, mau better future for kidz. Also seldom out with friends cause thought of those time can be better utilized to lie down sleep beside kids better.

Nao at work can't wait to go home see baby, play with baby, carry them around bring go buy grocery and then play toys with them.

/K how do you deal with missing your kid whilst you at work.

Do you feel threaten?

babykon101 — Wed, 17 Dec 2025 16:43:12 +0800

Ayam now at the posisi where i need to hire people. Damn some of these youngsters fresh grad can do programming la, hacking la etc.
Ayam thinking hmm if they so good and got management skills they can run projek already, no need unker here sak these edi.

Somwmore they veli good use AI, i use AI look at gooding pictures only. So how ktards few when their underlings jing sakki?

Can I use N-Word

babykon101 — Wed, 17 Dec 2025 11:36:55 +0800

I have percentage African.

Maen2 Dekat Jakarta

babykon101 — Wed, 10 Dec 2025 18:08:51 +0800

Ok am alone in jakarta for 2 weeks. been here 3 days jor and only have been Hotel -> Office -> Hotel.
Been to Grand and Plaza aja, so am decicidng to explore and take some pictures this weekend.

Itinerary as below (Saturday), have also hired a personal driver so can get around easier.
Sunday haven't though of but maybe /k can suggest?

8am - Leave Hotel Sheraton Four Points, Breakfast @ Yakun Kaya Toast (The Amboja) + Buy Fore Coffee
9am - Leave for Taman mini Indonesia Innah
12pm - Back to hotel rest

4pm - Leave for Ancol Beach
6pm - Dinner
7/8pm - Find Martabak
9pm - Back Hotel

Couples like roomates instead of partners

babykon101 — Wed, 10 Dec 2025 12:49:26 +0800

Ayam notice many couples makan together also glued to phone.

Talk also like business meeting.

No more sweet sweet, no more effort.

Is modern relationship really like this now?

Or ayam just mix with the wrong group?

At what age you all finally feel financially free

babykon101 — Wed, 10 Dec 2025 12:48:42 +0800

Ayam 30+ ady, still feel like no matter how much I save also not enough.

Car loan, house loan, misc bills… salary masuk then disappear.

Meanwhile see some people my age already “comfortable”.

KTards… at what age you all finally stop living paycheck to paycheck? Do you need to reach tesla-level salary to be comfortable?

Mois as wife

babykon101 — Tue, 09 Dec 2025 09:54:25 +0800

Recently saw 4 of my friends married and pregnant summore, 3 marries viet mois, 1 thai moi.
Feel very strange when going out with them sometimes, totally can't communicate as they are uneducated (suspect they knew them from some bars probably).

Also 1 of the vietmoi suddenly random throw tantrum cause other girls in group (including my own wife) don't want to speak to them since nothing to speak about. So the vietmoi thought we all looking down on her and want to prove her point by trying to pay for lunch for all. Damn what a scene, like some farmer kampung gal.

The thai moi more caring, when go clubbing and i drank too much, da thai moi will pat2 my back help me puke and even take tissues and all. Not too bad.

They all running not bad businesses and i don't see how these mois can contribute anything to their lives.
I also used to frequent some places like Mexico, ktvs etc and have a lot of mois but all these is for banging je. They try ask me go out eat with their friends (maybe want to waterfish or show off i dont know), but never go since i also know they kenot even be on friends level, only suitable bring nearby hotel bang je.

So, why these people marries these random mois ah? i also dont dare to ask ma friends so asking /k.
Sekian.

Just recorded storm fury on way home

babykon101 — Mon, 23 Dec 2024 22:52:07 +0800

https://streamable.com/pbeace

Blue motor didn’t realize huge pack of motos under bridge. Cannot brake in time. Boom crash into all, hopefully not too hurt all.

https://streamable.com/pbeace?src=player-page-share

Lolita gal

babykon101 — Sat, 14 Dec 2024 11:14:51 +0800

Wow todei I see a Lolita gal at mall. This one so many years ago geh, tot extinct ady. Can’t even remember the term Lolita just nao, there thinking apa tu ah, lollipop, lojinkz oh Lolita. Huhu naise 2 c younger generations still pay homage to the trends of yesteryears

Just Nao Go Pudu

babykon101 — Sun, 04 Aug 2024 21:55:56 +0800

Just nao go pudu eat dessert, then saw a bunch of foreigners (dark-skinned), not sure if it's bangla, rohingya etc sitting by the roadside.
And there's a couple of small kids + babies and made me wonder, how do they go school if no IC ya? Not like they can go international schools.

Ceiling fan with light in KL

babykon101 — Thu, 20 Jun 2024 23:27:54 +0800

Anyone know which shop in KL / Selangor got sell this? Don’t dare to buy online later come different from expectation. Thanks /k

Any idea how to get nice account number

babykon101 — Wed, 03 Apr 2024 23:09:49 +0800

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