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Can male and female actually be just friend?

goingcrazy — Mon, 27 Nov 2023 23:40:05 +0800

Hi guys, as per title said, what do everyone of you think? can male and female can actually be just friend?

Why am i asking this is, i have a gf who is a streamer, as you all know that streamer will have a lot boys as viewers and they'll try to tackle her, so recently i found out that she and a viewer has been very close in chatting privately via whatsapp, both of them have a very good click and connection, a lot of topic to talk, my gf even complain life shits to him, she has been chatting with the boy for like 2 months, eventually they meet up and she never inform me instead, she lied to me that she is going to have dinner after work with colleagues, and has met up twice, about 2 to 3 hours each time meet up.

btw, im in long distance relationship, we always VC do stuff and gaming, I still can feel that she still love me, every time we meet up sure 88 gao gao, she even bought a lot of couple shirts for us to wear whenever we go out, and planning to move and stay together with me.

And how i find out she go out with the guy is that i have access to her phone, but she do not know i saw the message yet, im now in dilemma, should i question her or not why she lied to me? maybe she just want to make more friend? but... male and female can really be just "pure friend"?? and why she lied to me?

Thanks everyone

tuxun k068 karaoke mic

goingcrazy — Sun, 04 Sep 2016 11:32:06 +0800

where can i buy this mic in KL? which mall or shop got sell this? thank you.

how to prevent pregnancy?

goingcrazy — Fri, 05 Feb 2016 18:35:42 +0800

hi all, need some advice here, serious question, me and my gf open up this topic about our sex life, but 1 thing is bothering her is that she have sick that she cant pregnant now due to she is on medication, if do so.. the baby will be handicap/abnormal

i guess some of you will tell me to hold for a while until she stop her medication, but it will takes a year or more, maybe forever...

so.. is it safe to use condom to prevent pregnancy? i dont want her to consume that pregnancy pills due to she have ate a lot of medicine..

thanks all sifu

Bath with gf/bf

goingcrazy — Wed, 05 Aug 2015 10:18:41 +0800

Have you ever bath with gf/bf?

is this normal to have in relationship other than sex?

if yes, it takes how long for you to have this with your gf/bf?

girl haircut

goingcrazy — Tue, 30 Dec 2014 20:55:30 +0800

guys.. i need help.. my friend girl just cut her hair from long to short, she showed me her short hair pic and i tell her its beautiful aka good looking, and different feel from long hair..

at the same time she also get some opinion from other friends, her friends said not nice bla bla ugly bla bla not suit her bla bla...

now she is kinda sad, how do i can spice up her mood?

thanks..

Use money to cure loneliness?

goingcrazy — Sun, 28 Dec 2014 00:10:03 +0800

I need some advice at this, as i dont know what i am doing..

i just got to know a girl that she is married with children about 3 months++ (she didnt know i know this cause she is hiding away from me), i found out myself cause living in small town some times will meet each other, but that time she didnt see me..

from the day i know her, we got date each other for breakfast/lunch/yc 1 time a week, then it started to get more when we know each other longer time, some week we date for full weekday lunch/yc, then some times will cold out no date each other at all, but it will come back.. as for weekend, kinda impossible + i seldom initiate at weekend

every time when we go for meals, starting is i pay 1 time, she will pay 1 time, when know each other longer.. i pay the most, and she didnt pay at all, some times will go for movies too, and i pay too.. (friend without benefit?)

conclusion is..

Q1) should i continue to date her? or should i reject if she date me? actually i'm kinda like her, to reject her date is hard for me, currently im single and i never had a relationship before, so some times i will feel lonely, of course i have my own things to do and most of the time will keep myself busy, if i reject for this time, there will be no more girl connection for me

Q2) some times i feel kinda stupid cause i keep paying for her + she is not my gf <-- correct me if i'm wrong by acting this way, or its ok by doing this? like use money to cure loneliness??

Q3) should i throw a question to her that actually i know she is married or something like that?

Going out/dating with girl

goingcrazy — Mon, 13 Oct 2014 21:12:42 +0800

I would like to know how other guy react to this..

Scenario 1: a guy going out/dating with a girl (the girl may not know the guy like her)

Question A: if the guy is chasing the girl, should he pay all da bills?

Question B: if the guy not chasing the girl, just friend, should he pay all da bills?

Question C: question A & B, if the girl wants to pay the bills, will you let her pay?

Scenario 2: a guy going out/dating with 2 girls (maybe or not chasing any of the girl)

Question A: if the guy is chasing 1 of the girl, should he pay all da bills?

Question B: if the guy is not chasing both of the girl, just friends, should he pay all da bills?

Question C: question A & B, if the girls wants to pay the bills, will you let her pay?

it's been in my brain for long time, dono what should i do, i've met both scenario, kinda headache

Feel free to add scenario, my brain stucked can't think of any..

How to tackle older/iron girl

goingcrazy — Wed, 08 Oct 2014 22:38:31 +0800

社会复杂了，人累了。

越来越多的女性选择单身，

越来越多的男性不得不单身，

这就是太现实了。

夜深了，你闭上双眼，

你却在幻想另外一个世界。

身边的女人越来越厉害了，

像男人一样也能开车、也能挣钱、

能做好家务、能烧一桌好菜，

遇到困难还得自己扛，家里家外一把好手，

即便遇上生理期或者生病时，一切依旧，

一个个都从软女子通关成了女汉子。

突然觉得男人就是个多余品，

你需要他陪的时候，

他忙着应酬，等他回来了，

一切都过去了。

不是不想依赖他，而是没的选择，

习惯了没有他的生活节奏。

现代的女性是万能的，

丝毫不比男人差，

肩上能扛起更多的责任，

也能面对更大的事情。

所以，我们必须要好好爱自己，

再爱自己，更爱自己，

才能对得起像男人一样的我们！

是什么把软妹子变成了女汉子？

首先因为我们没有土豪爹，

也没有姣好的容颜，更不会傍大款。

比不过白富美，也斗不过水灵白嫩的小三，

于是，我们选择拼命赚钱，

喜欢的东西，自己买，

想去的地方，自己去。

也许是这个社会给女人的安全感越来越少了，

以前觉得安全感是一个承诺，

是过马路时紧握的手，而如今，

能给我们安全感的却唯有明媚的阳光，

和繁华路口人行道的绿灯，

出门时口袋里的钱包和钥匙，

手机里显示的满格电......

每个女人都希望找个很爷们的男人，

最后却发现自己已变成了爷们！

人生不易，快乐生活，且过且珍惜！

不敢撒娇，因为没有人惯着，

不敢哭泣，因为没有人哄着，

不敢偷懒，因为没有人给钱花，

坚强，独立，拼搏是唯一的选择，

时刻提醒自己不能倒下，一定要坚强！

没有谁天生想当女汉子，只因生活太多无奈，

愿所有正在拼命的姑娘，都可以得到自己想要的生活，

和一片属于自己的蓝天。

Original from: http://mp.weixin.qq.com/s?__biz=MjM5NjMwNz...ef4c&scene=4#rd

Guys, how to overcome this? or you might say this is internet bullshit or etc etc.. but this is true..

I know a girl she is over 30+ already, and she is the kind of girl stated as above, no bf so far.. maybe before that have, now i'm not sure why dont have, and i did ask her why, but she refuse to answer me, so.. oh well.. just forget it..

Actually.. im trying to tackle her but she is older than me, every time i see her she is like a strong girl for me, make me feel so pressure, i think this is normal feeling

any advice? guys or girls.. thanks!

She is hiding something from me, why?

goingcrazy — Fri, 12 Sep 2014 11:56:06 +0800

recently just get to know 1 girl, i know that she already have bf, cause i stalked her fb without her knowing (im so bad, but im not), and im able to date her for few times, so far things are going smooth, asked her whether have bf or not, she said no, ask her have fb or not, she said she seldom use fb, ask her what name she put, she said not her name, she put other name and insist dont want give me, after the last date she immediately change her fb setting disabled "add friend" button, what the hell? but the chatting were still going on until today, i mean she didnt avoid me just hiding her current bf and fb from me, not sure if there's anything else coming..

why girl is so complicated? she doing this is mean opening a door for me? or used me as a temporary?

Girls that always say she is fat!

goingcrazy — Thu, 11 Sep 2014 22:06:07 +0800

I have no idea why those girls keep saying they are fat but actually is skinny like.. 45-60kg, how do i counter this question or make them feel comfortable with their current weight or body size?

what i did is just telling her that she has a perfect weight already, continuous reduce will become like skeleton, haha..

anyone have better answer than this? come share! thanks!