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Kids & Divorce

AntiSurge — Thu, 03 Aug 2017 11:10:15 +0800

Hello all, i'm sorry i'm not sure if this is the right group to post about divorce. I'm going through a very stressful divorce that both me and my husband wants our son. My son been staying with me for 3 years. His dad comes over to see him every 1-2 months and every holiday, I will take him to KL to visit his dad. My son is 4 years old now. My divorcing-in-progress-husband came to visit our son over the weekend and we went out together like normal. 2 days ago, my son told me "Mommy, I want to go KL because KK has zombies and vampires, KL got batman." I asked him who said that he said Papa. So he keep telling me he is very scared and want to leave KK. this morning, my son wanted iPad when we were preparing to go school, so i told him after school then only can watch. He then said "I dont love you anymore, Papa dont love you anymore. I want to go KL because Papa loves me, Papa will give me anything I want."
My tears rolled to my cheek in the next few secs while showering him. I had been fighting very hard for him, working very hard for him to give him a good life. I never say things like that to my son, I always tell him that Papa loves him, mama loves him and we are happy family.
Is there anyone here went through divorce before and know how do we teach our kids the positive way in marriage? I spoke to my husband do not say something like that to our son, but he never listen.

USA tour Recommended Ground Tour

AntiSurge — Fri, 09 Jan 2015 22:53:26 +0800

Im travelling to new york, washinton, niagara falls, toronto, quebec and boston.
Can anyone recommend good ground tour company? Many many thanks.

part time/ full time babysitter/ maid

AntiSurge — Tue, 30 Sep 2014 16:03:16 +0800

Hi All!
Sorry I couldn't look for a suitable group so I open a new topic here.

I am transferring back to Sabah and taking my son back to stay with my parents in Sabah.
Planning to terminate my maid in KL.
She is currently working full time Monday- Saturday 2pm and stay in in our place at KLCC area and we are paying her RM 1500 for basic salary.

She started working with us ever since our son is born in 2 months until now (2 years old).
Other than babysitting (cooking baby food + teaching babies for their development + taking care baby), she also do housework, cooking, washing, ironing etc. Basically everything as long as related to baby and house.

Upon transferring back to Sabah, we would like to do her a favour by getting her a new job as we treat her like our own family.

She preferred part time with the pay of RM 20/hour.

p/s: There is no agent fees, contractual fees etc as her husband is Malaysian and she is a Philipino who speaks English, Malay and understands Chinese. We hired her by just scanning her passport and familiar with her permanent address at Ampang etc.

Anyone interested?

You may contact me via 016-8304008

Full time/ part time maid/babysitter

AntiSurge — Tue, 30 Sep 2014 15:30:48 +0800

WTS New Samsung Galaxy S2 for cheap price

AntiSurge — Thu, 12 Jun 2014 18:14:44 +0800

Item(s): Samsung Galaxy S2

Package includes: Charger

Price: 450

Warranty: 3 months

Dealing method: COD at KL and postage in worldwide

Location of seller: Kuala Lumpur

Contact method/details: 017-5559044

Age of item: 2 years

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Item(s) conditions: NEW

Picture:

Reason for sale: Has extra phones

Sean Hoh from Jann Property- Bad Agent

AntiSurge — Wed, 26 Mar 2014 11:00:34 +0800

Dear All,

I would like to highlight this person
Agent name: Sean Hoh
Mobile No: +012-3379191
Property Company: Jann Property

We rented the unit at Marc Residence Suite, Jalan Pinang under this agent. During the handover, there is no issue as we hired cleaners to do full detailed cleaning for every single corner, all curtains and bedsheets are washed and the whole unit is brand new. Air cond is serviced in December while we move out in January 20.

Yesterday, March 26 2014, after 2 months of moving out. He sent a list of charges apply:

Cleaning service : Rm 300.00
Air-con service : Rm 660.00
Curtain clean : Rm 650.00
Bedsheet clean : Rm 38.00

I asked him why did he do double work since I already cleaned it.
He replied the owner is not satisfied and he needs to act upon.

Its my first time renting unit so Im a bit directionless.
Zzzzzzz..

Why does he do double work and now only he said its unacceptable?
During the handover, it is all fine.

looking for confinement lady?

AntiSurge — Fri, 02 Aug 2013 22:06:43 +0800

Hi All! I just finished my confinement.
I would like to introduce my confinement lady. she is available in this month too!
She is good as in:
-she cooks really good confinement food.
-she takes care my baby really well just like her own grandkids.
-she's a very patient woman
-she supports breastfeeding and not like most of the CL who use formula milk at night
-she's a very responsible woman that you dont need to worry anything
-she will let mommy to rest well and do all the light housework.
-she will bring cooking pots if you dont have one.
-mommy and hubby can learn a lot of professional tips from her.

I paid her RM3600+ RM 200 (minimum for angpau)

If you are interested, please contact me at 016-8304008 (Joyce) or you can contact her at 017-2729885 (aunty Kim).
You can tell aunty Kim, Joyce from KLCC introduced and ask for some discount (hopefully).

Dont hesistate to ask me any queries. No double charge for hari raya.

Continue in Accounting/ Auditing or Finance Exec?

AntiSurge — Wed, 03 Jul 2013 13:54:05 +0800

Hi! I post this on behalf on a friend coz she doesnt have account in Lowyat.
She is now working in Baker Tilly as Auditor. Previously in Moore Stephens but MS and BT had merged together.
She worked 2 years plus dy and since last year, the company promised to promote her as senior auditor. She had been waiting for about 6 months.
Then last few weeks, her manager asked her "Whats your plan if we are not going to promote you?" "even if you resign, nowhere you can go. the market is the same." etc. Those words are hurtful and she's quite depressed coz she had been working so hard for this company and everyday stay in office til 11pm/12am.

She started to look for new job and right away, she got hired by Uni Asia as Finance Executive. Uni Asia willingly to pay off the 2 months and hire her right away. She then consult her seniors in Baker Tilly and her senior advised her to stay to accumulate 3 years experience. She turned down the Uni Asia offer and yesterday, the senior finance manager called her and try to convince her again to join Uni Asia. She felt appreciated coz at least someone notice her existence.

But the thing is..... she doesnt know which one to choose.
Stay in current firm and accumulate 3 years experience?
or join Uni Asia as finance executive which is different field?

She's my best best best best friend but Im in engineering. I know nothing about it. I wish I could help.
Can anyone advise regarding this matter?

Hot & Cold Water Dispenser

AntiSurge — Mon, 17 Jun 2013 16:09:15 +0800

Item(s): Pere Ocean Standing Hot & Cold Water Dispenser

Package includes: Standing Water Dispenser

Price: RM 350 (negotiable) (I bought at price RM 700)

Warranty: 6 months

Dealing method: COD

Location of seller: Kuala Lumpur

Contact method/details: 0168304008/ pm

Age of item: 3 months

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Item(s) conditions: New and Excellent Quality!

Picture:

Reason for sale: House is too small no place to fit.

Hot & Cold Water Dispenser

AntiSurge — Mon, 17 Jun 2013 16:05:46 +0800

Item(s): Pere Ocean Standing Hot & Cold Water Dispenser

Package includes: Standing Water Dispenser

Price: RM 350 (negotiable) (I bought at price RM 700)

Warranty: 6 months

Dealing method: COD

Location of seller: Kuala Lumpur

Contact method/details: 0168304008/ pm

Age of item: 3 months

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Item(s) conditions: New and Good!

Picture:

Reason for sale: House is too small no place to fit.

[WTS] Hot & Cold Water Dispenser

AntiSurge — Mon, 17 Jun 2013 16:04:22 +0800

Item(s): Pere Ocean Standing Hot & Cold Water Dispenser

Package includes: Standing Water Dispenser

Price: RM 350 (negotiable) (I bought at price RM 700)

Warranty: 6 months

Dealing method: COD

Location of seller: Kuala Lumpur

Contact method/details: 0168304008/ pm

Age of item: 3 months

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Item(s) conditions: New and Good!

Picture:

Reason for sale: House is too small no place to fit.

couldnt see baby's face throughout the pregnancy

AntiSurge — Thu, 23 May 2013 15:22:59 +0800

Hi all!
Throughout my checkups, me and my husband cant see baby's face coz doctor said baby's facing back.
Even we did 3D/4D scan still we couldnt see baby's face.
Doctor said the placenta etc casted a shadow and couldnt see baby's face clearly.

But it made me so worry!
Has anyone encounter same thing?
Or actually doctor hiding something from me?

Paranoid in 30 weeks

AntiSurge — Fri, 03 May 2013 11:33:20 +0800

Hi all!
Im just wondering is there any mothers are paranoid like me?

Its my first baby. I know I should have been ready for little baby but in fact, Im not ready. Its not that Im not ready to get pregnant or anything, its simply because Im very scare. Every night I couldnt sleep. When I sleep, I have nightmares. Im very scare of the procedures delivering the baby. Im very scare that I couldnt take the contraction pain (i know i dont have the choice).

One thing I scare the most is baby not healthy. Throughout the scan, baby is very healthy but I kept having nightmares that little baby is not healthy.

another 10 weeks I will deliver little baby. I love him a lot. We love him so much. All baby preparation, even books and toys are ready. Only left cord blood cell and insurance to buy now and we will finalize which company to sign next week.

Everything seems like its ready. But Im very scare. I know I dont have a choice and its useless being scare/ paranoid. But I wish to know is there any other parent are like me? And how did you go through the haunting weeks?

angry at partners for dreaming having sex?

AntiSurge — Thu, 25 Apr 2013 17:34:12 +0800

I know it sounds so ridiculous and im not sure whether its normal.
Well, I always dream that I have s3x with 3P or sometimes dream that have s3x with strangers in my dream. stranger as in not begger or anything but just someone i dont know in real life.

There was once I told my husband I dreamed of having s3x with someone else. He is ok, very chill. "Entertain" me the next couple hours somemore.

p/s: Its DEFINITELY not because my husband is not "skillful" or me being very "slutty".
Those are just dreams. sometimes i wanna tell him more about those dreams that I had but I worry that he will kill me using our kitchen knives.

Ques: Will you mind if your partner (gf/bf/wife/husband/gay partner/ lesbian) sleep next to you telling you about their dirty dreams? and quite often?

Nintendo Wii Disc Error

AntiSurge — Tue, 02 Apr 2013 15:17:04 +0800

Dear all experts,

I have been thinking this issue for days and I coudlnt understand why.
I upgraded my Wii version and its crack (Loaders) and tested with few discs in the shop.
No problem. Every disc can be played.
But when I bring back home, its not working at all.

At the shop, they used my Wii and not theirs.

How is this possible to happen?
How come?

appreciate for your reply.

Baby Sitter in JB

AntiSurge — Thu, 28 Mar 2013 11:48:44 +0800

Hi all!
As I need to mobilize to Johor Bahru for work, I will be bringing my baby along after I deliver (deliver in July and mobilizing in September). However, Im very new to JB as I only been there occasionally in PAsir Gudang for work and I dont know how to look for a good baby sitter (Pasir Gudang is just a dessert).

I will be staying at one of the hotel in Pasir Gudang and Im looking for baby sitter to take care my baby when Im out of work.
Do you know any?

My colleagues said JB is very dangerous so maybe some of you can introduce good baby sitter for my baby?
I searched in some forum and saw some baby sitter ads but I dont dare to take the risk.

Thank you!!