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Malaysia Lecturer Corruption

Terio — Thu, 16 Sep 2021 10:11:49 +0800

PUTRAJAYA: A senior lecturer at a public university is being investigated by the Malaysian Anti-Corruption Commission (MACC) for allegedly abusing her powers in awarding a contract worth RM46,000 to family members.

It is understood that the contract, which involved a project to supply office supplies as well as the purchase and maintenance of sewing machines for a department at the university from 2015 to 2017, was given to her sister and brother-in -law.

The suspect was released on MACC bail after being questioned.

Putrajaya MACC chief Mohd Anuar Ismail confirmed the arrest but declined to comment.

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Bail paid to MACC to be released?? Kawtim sudah?

My my , PHD also corrupt?

Sportdirect closed?

Terio — Thu, 11 Feb 2021 02:22:30 +0800

Hi all,

Sportdirect in malaysia is it open yet? Notice some stores closed. When will open

If guy was rapist before ...

Terio — Sun, 03 May 2015 00:33:03 +0800

For women to give their opinions,

What would you feel if a guy admitted he raped women before last time?

Should a guy tell his past or keep it a secret? Sometimes keeping a guilty secret have very terrible feeling.

Everyday will be reminded of his own past rapings. The arousal and excitement as well as the guilt after the act.

No punishment because girls didn't report to police but, feel bad all the time.

Now don't know how to approach girl because scared to hurt them again.

[WTB] Apartment

Terio — Mon, 23 Jun 2014 01:59:26 +0800

I have around RM400K saved up and looking to buy a property near my work place in Petaling Jaya. Please offer me your recommendations.

Budget: RM400k. Cash Buyer, hope to get good offer.

Someone with debt - Finance Issues

Terio — Mon, 09 Jun 2014 21:50:01 +0800

In this day and age, financial matters is something we can't avoid. Malaysia's household debt has crept up to 87% of our total GDP. This means whatever we produce and earn, 87% of it are debt. Some have more and some have less.

The main debt that most people are likely to have:
- Education debt ( PTPTN)
- Credit card debt
- Car loan
- Owe friend money
- Owe Parent/Family money
- AEON/ Courts Mammoth/ Consumption/ gym membership/ vacation membership debt and whatever installment programs joined.
- Utility debt (Water, internet, electricity, rent)
- Housing loan
- Business loan

All these information are very important because it may affect your partner's credit rating because you might want to buy a house in the future but your prospective spouse has a poor credit record thus disqualifying them as the loan guarantor, this could affect your goals and plans all together.

Hence here's few ethical matters we should check before marrying someone.

Is it ethical to find out partner's CTOS/CCRIS record before marrying them.

Do you think it is fair to impose your debt on your partner/spouse? Ask them to help pay your debt, is that fair?

Dark past

Terio — Tue, 12 Mar 2013 18:23:25 +0800

I realized my previous topic was deleted. I hope the mods can revive and merge it with this.

What I've done, was known as a young man's mistake. I genuinely hope this section can open a channel to discuss it and get mature inputs. This is my experience and they are true.

An open discussion on this matter, I hope, could educate the younger generations from doing the same mistake again. To learn to give respect which I've failed to do so.

Rape and incest invites the scorn of society but, it's very much a grey area. In Chinese families, these things do happen but, we're just much more conservative and afraid of society's judgement. Thus, such matter are kept in silent. Alot have been suffering silently. I've hurt someone such a way.

Anwar Bodyguard Gun Aiming Video

Terio — Mon, 10 Sep 2012 11:59:42 +0800

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The gun aiming case.

Has anyone beaten their partner before?

Terio — Sun, 09 Sep 2012 09:13:09 +0800

Dear All,

I just found out that a friend of mine broke up because that person beaten the partner. I hope we can discuss this issue.

Sometimes anger is there and not properly managed, it leads to uncontrolled violence in a relationship. So, Let's we can talk about it. Both men and women are capable of such assault, so I hope some of you can give your opinions and experiences.

Story:

I always wonder why I was born a girl instead of a boy. In my opinion, being a boy is much easier and has more advantages.

Whenever I had problems with my husband, these are the things I would think about. I would go straight to my prayer room and fight with God in my heart and mind, begging for him to take my life or to take away my ability to speak and listen so I would no longer have to fight with my husband. We fought about money and children, but mostly about me. I never uttered a single word, not wanting others to hear my cries, but my tears still flowed from my eyes.

My husband was never a romantic or loving person, but I accepted him as he was. Our problems began soon after our marriage, when he told me that I was not the sort of wife he was expecting. I soon learned what that meant. He thought I was not active enough sexually. For me, the keys to marriage are love and trust, not sex. But my husband’s opinion was not the same. I started to feel bad about myself for not being able to satisfy him. I didn’t want to lose my marriage, so I told him I would try to learn whatever it took to make him happy.

Then I became pregnant with my first child. I was very weak from vomiting, but my husband refused to take care of me. When I didn’t sleep with him at night, he would get angry and say that I was using the pregnancy as an excuse. A month after I gave birth, he asked me to sleep with him. I was still in pain and tried to refuse, but when I did he told me he better get married once more. He said that if the wife cannot sleep with the husband whenever he wants then there’s nothing wrong with him having an affair. I asked him if he thinks women are only for sex, and he replied yes. Then he told me I wouldn’t have to do anything, just lie there or sleep, and so I did because I didn’t have any other choice. He would beat me if I didn’t listen to him. I cried and prayed to God, please don’t put any other women in my situation because this is the worst moment of my life.

Our fighting started to get worse when he lost his job. He blamed me for everything that was happening to him. I began to think that everything really was my fault. After our second baby, I couldn’t take it anymore. I couldn’t sleep, I couldn’t eat, and I even thought about ending my life. I tried to run away with my kids, but he found me and told me that he would change, that he wanted our children and me. He made me come home and then punished me by never letting me see my children because he was afraid I would run away with them again.

After some time had passed, I became pregnant with our third child. He wanted me to abort the child. I refused to do that, and every time I refused, he would get angrier and angrier. The last straw was when he took the chair and beat me repeatedly and injured my hand. He told me I deserved to be beaten because I had not listened. There was blood dripping all over me. I pleaded him to send me to hospital, but it took him an entire hour to finally agree. I made a police report there and told the doctor to please not send me home. I no longer felt safe there.

This time, I am really leaving for good. I know that my mother-in-law will be able to take care of my two children well. Now, I am slowly settling myself, gaining and building up my self-esteem and confidence while looking forward for my third child to safely come to this world. After this, I wish to fight for child custody and take my two children back with me. I missed them dearly and I strongly believe our reunion will come soon.

Source: WCC

What's happening with LYNAS

Terio — Sun, 03 Jul 2011 01:09:36 +0800

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A good video to show what's going to happen in Gebeng, Terengganu. This is to serve as an information rather than discussion.

Revealing your sexual status

Terio — Sat, 02 Jul 2011 21:18:25 +0800

Dear Cupid Corner,

If you have had sex and was no longer a virgin. Sometime there are times where you are asked or you wanted to tell people that you've had sex before so you can share some experience to others who may have issues with it so you have help or advice them on that matter.

Here's the case, by revealing your sexual status, this would indirectly reveal the sexual status of your partner(bf/gf) as well. This would implied that this person has had sex and wasn't a virgin any longer. The matter lies where the partner find it shameful or inappropriate to reveal it.

So my question is, do you have to right to tell people that you have had sex?

Mak, Kenapa sunatkan saya?

Terio — Sun, 26 Jun 2011 23:17:42 +0800

Mom why do you circumcise me? A documentary.

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Miri Airport to Kuala Belait, Brunei and return

Thu, 01 Jan 1970 07:30:00 +0800

Miri Airport to Kuala Belait, Brunei and return

Thu, 01 Jan 1970 07:30:00 +0800

Miri Airport to Kuala Belait, Brunei and return

Terio — Fri, 17 Jun 2011 02:01:16 +0800

Hi,

I have to get to Kuala Belait and Air Asia lands at Miri Airport. Is there any public transportation to get to Brunei? Thanks.

[addedon]June 16, 2011, 9:37 pm[/addedon]Also, is there any transport from Kuala Belait to Miri Airport?

GF was molested by Brother

Terio — Tue, 20 Jul 2010 15:30:08 +0800

Dear Cupids,

I've found out that my GF was molested when she's around 12-13 years old by his that time 15-16 year old brother. Most probably during nights, her brother would sneaked up on her and touched her inappropriately.

I'm tremendously angered by her past.

Now she's 22 and the brother is 25. She's in college while her brother, a graduate is working as an employee dealing with transportation.

I wanted to meet his brother and maybe get him to apologize to her and also to expose his guilt to his parents. My GF warned me not to, as her parents are old now where it may hurt them badly and that would destroy the harmony of her family.

What's the best action for this case? My GF can't forgive him but she's no choice.

Confessing to a Guy friend

Thu, 01 Jan 1970 07:30:00 +0800

Confessing to a Guy friend

Terio — Sat, 29 Aug 2009 23:22:28 +0800

Dear all,

I have a dear friend who is leaving for his new job soon. Thing is I have a feeling for him and I'd like to ask /k/'s opinion if I should confess to him.

Do you agree with the quote

" Better heart broken than not LOVE at all? "

Notice that this is serious talk and trolling is very much under appreciated. Thanks.

Would you turn homosexual if

Terio — Fri, 07 Aug 2009 04:25:23 +0800

As per topic.

Take a look at yourselves.

You're single for the last 22 years since you're born.

You've never dated any girls yet.

You secretly admired hot people of the same gender.

You have the hots wanting to be intimate with someone of the same gender.

You don't understand the opposite gender.

Will you be a homosexual?

MRI Scan

Terio — Thu, 19 Feb 2009 07:59:18 +0800

Anyone here that had done MRI scan, could you telll me the cost of it in Malaysia?

I had an old motorcycle injury, 4 year old. Walking is okay, but sometimes I do some running and the next day till a few weeks later the pain stays awhile. After prolong rest for a couple of weeks the pain is suppressed.

I'm suspecting it could be chondromalacia, ligament tear/rupture or lateral meniscus tear as the pain is on the lateral side of my knee.

Best if anyone could recommend an affordable physiotherapy doctor. Can't afford a few thousand dollars.

I think I'm GAY

Terio — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 05:02:27 +0800

I'm 20 year old college boy and I haven't had any replationship with anyone before. Anyway I just want some advice on this sexual identity crisis I'm having in fact started since secondary school la.

I just wan't to know what is Malaysian's perspective regarding gay people. I have this weird feeling towards man , yes I wanted to be loved my another man. Sometimes older men kinda turns me on psychologically. I also got a crush before on a few of my male friends, just 2 la..
Of course i never dared to tell and the feeling eventually .. let's just say I ignore it.

Therefore there's this unsatisfaction in me about not getting loved as well as me not daring to approach people. Sometimes it's frustrated to feel afraid to express my desires.

I've check out some gay communities website around Malaysia but, they looks kinda skanky to me. It's like they set up a meeting point and you know do their activity. I don;t know what their activities are but I guess most likely it's something like very open and liberal maybe having multiple partners.

I won't say I have no interest with girls or what, it's just I feel slightly more comfortable when with guys . Girls make me nervous at times and especially if she's really beautiful. Of course I don;t deny that I do feel attracted to girls , but at the same time I wished to be on the "receiving end".
I want to give pleasure to a a man I love and vice versa loves me, and enjoy that great feeling of companionship.

Sometimes I wished that I could clone myself and he's going to be my faithful partner.

So Cupid corner,

How am I able to find love? the love I want.

I hoping to have some gays here that's in a relationship who could share their experience on hows they got their partner. Yeah, guide me for a proper
gay relationship.

Oh yea, ask me anything also.