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            <title>Beginning Delemia of Relationship</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/1276349</link>
            <description>&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;Overview&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A girl &amp;amp; i currently is in a stage of coupling up. However there is this thing that is jeopardizing it. That is she thinks that my life style is not suitable for her no security no assurance.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;Problem&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are few things that are troubling my mind.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1)	Request to stay over at her place (ok no xxx bombing), basically I am fine with it if I am willing to, but why do she have to insist it? Is like if I don’t I am a mommy boy not independent enough, is like does those thing make a man a man WTF&amp;#33;&amp;#33;&amp;#33;&amp;#33;&amp;#33;&amp;#33; The problem is also because of my own ruthless &lt;b&gt;I have promised before to stay over if I ever visit her(She stay alone)&lt;/b&gt;:s basically still she is shooting i am a mommy boy, yes me n mom ruled that if not require i will still go back to home to sleep&lt;br /&gt;2)	I am the kind of guy that if I am at home NBTD &amp;amp; friends asks for yam cha I will go. Which is it this will prove that I am not home lover person??? &lt;b&gt;she think that if she is not around i will be running around :s is that consider bad?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3)	If you ask me yes I am a good boy family is my priority, lover is on par with family, then friends. She wanted to be on the 1st in the list, however I can’t agree with it. Why? Coz I feel that can’t I protect u, stand beside u even I know things are wrong or not fair to u, if I am that comply with to my family u can kick my ass n say BB. Yes risk taking is what I asking from her am I asking too much and demanding since I know her &lt;b&gt;past relationship which is bad&lt;/b&gt;. Yes some ppl will say if u love her then u will sacrifice for her is like hey this is not that girl can’t do things, relationship is 2 way in my opinion if I where give all n u receive all what make a diff if I get a slave, maid, hooker, bla bla to assist on my needs and for sure I will get what I needed without the negative stuff.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;What i think&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Is like if I were comply with her request it seems like it is not me anymore. Not more then a puppet. What expecting to change when in relationship might as well don’t started it till we get a mutual understanding.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;are we lacking of trust?????? seem to me yes, and she does not want to commit if it is not secure upto her %(highlighted by her):s&lt;br /&gt;seem like lead me no choice&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What I am doing here is try to look out of my box, If you have any things or though to share please do so.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thank You</description>
            <author>Carby</author>
            <category>Cupid&amp;#39;s Corner</category>
            <pubDate>Wed, 30 Dec 2009 13:29:41 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>looking for ram</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/636601</link>
            <description>Is it still posible to my hand on some DDR 333mhz RAM ?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;it is for my acer laptop</description>
            <author>Carby</author>
            <category>Price &amp;amp; Dealers Guide</category>
            <pubDate>Fri, 22 Feb 2008 11:46:46 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>what is the diff of the data types?</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/525323</link>
            <description>as the title mention&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;so what is the diff between this 4 data type nchar &amp;amp; char, varchar and char?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;they accept all type of input so what them diff among each other?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;how to different which kind of data should assign to which kind oh data type?</description>
            <author>Carby</author>
            <category>Technical Support</category>
            <pubDate>Mon, 24 Sep 2007 00:03:33 +0800</pubDate>
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