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My ex-girlfriend decided to give up, she left me

tacticalmask2 — Mon, 09 Jan 2017 20:20:30 +0800

Hey everyone. Kind greetings to all of you. I have to create another thread on my problem, hopefully, i dont have to create one again next time.

This is my previous thread. https://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopic=4133969&hl=

Basically, she's a queen control, due to influence by her mum and her sister. I got sick of the relationship and decided to break up. And my dad was trying to bring us back into this relationship, and finally, he gave up as well.

Today, my dad asked her to join us for one last lunch. So, after lunch, we all went back to our house, and my dad asked me to express what I don't like about my ex in front of her. I told her everything and she denied some of them. My father was also angry, saying that I always lied to them. I was coward, and I ended up crying in front of my parents and my ex.

When I was crying, my ex-girlfriend then asked my dad to stop the discussion, she said that they had been putting lots of stress to me, and I could not stand it. She understood my situation and explained to my dad that it was not all my fault. At that moment, I realise that she is still a good person.

But after that, she made her decision to give up everything about me. She removed all my contacts and blocked me. I'm starting to feel sad that I lost her. How to overcome this depression? Previously, it was me who asked for the breakup, but she still contact with me, now its all gone.

Thinking about Ex-girlfriend and Intimate Moment

tacticalmask2 — Thu, 22 Dec 2016 11:10:58 +0800

Reference to my previous topic: https://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopic=4133969&hl=

Basically, I broke up with her around a month ago. No feelings already, because of how she, her mum and her older sister controlled me.

But to be honest, within our 4 years of relationship, we did have some intimate moments. I'm starting to miss these moments, my mind tells me that i want to contact her back...the intimate moments are not about sex, mostly kissing and cuddling.

However, i know that if i find her back, and if we manage to be back together, my future will be dark.

Any ideas on how to overcome this problem?

Is it wrong to break up after 4 years?

tacticalmask2 — Fri, 02 Dec 2016 00:30:39 +0800

I will make everything simple.

I broke up with my girlfriend, after 4 years. I don't have any feelings for her anymore. The reason behind the break up is because she's controlled by her mother, and she's controlling me too much.

If i continue this relationship, I will regret. If she continues this relationship, she will also regret.

But my father has been interrupting in this issue, and is trying his best to bring us back together. He keeps nagging, scolding me, asking me to realize that i should get her back. To the point that my relationship with my dad is greatly affected.

What will you do if you are in my position?

When a girl doesn't like you, is it possible......

tacticalmask2 — Sun, 22 Nov 2015 20:07:59 +0800

Stupid question, but hopefully, there will be a girl's opinion on this.

When a girl literally says that she doesn't have any feelings towards you, will there be a chance to make her fall in love with you?

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How to forget a girl?

tacticalmask2 — Sun, 25 Oct 2015 19:07:41 +0800

I have a GF for quite a number of years already. Still together.

Recently, a girl appears in my life, and I think I'm thinking about her too much and care / worry about this new girl. I don't want to call it love yet, but this girl is distracting my mind for few months already!

I need to get rid of her from my memory, stop thinking about her. Because I still love my girlfriend and don't want to affect our relationship.

Is there a way to forget her? I'm still seeing her everyday and sometimes got talk to that new girl. Obviously, she don't like me. But I'm like caring about her too much.....

Take screenshots on Android OS

tacticalmask2 — Thu, 27 Jun 2013 23:49:09 +0800

I'm using Nexus 7.

I used Samsung Tablets before, and in Samsung tablets, there's this bottom bar with the screenshot shortcut, whereby we can just click on it and it will take screenshots.

I want to know whether I can do the same for my Nexus, on Android 4.2.2 now.

My GF break up with me

tacticalmask2 — Wed, 26 Jun 2013 09:23:49 +0800

This is my problem here, I will make it as short as possible, so that most of you can understand.

My girlfriend birthday last week...
My car break down and I'm having final exams...
I can't celebrate with her and I didn't buy her any gift...
Last night we both chatted about this and she decided to call for break up...
Today she blocked my Facebook and didnt reply all my messages...

what should i do?

Caring Messages for a Girlfriend

tacticalmask2 — Mon, 28 Jan 2013 08:48:54 +0800

How to show to my girlfriend that I'm caring towards her?

In the form of SMS messages.

Any ideas?

What to talk during a date?

tacticalmask2 — Wed, 09 Jan 2013 12:21:24 +0800

When I date with her, we can talk many stuffs.

But sometimes, there are moments when we stay silent...like couldn't find anything to talk for a few minutes..

how to avoid this? any nice topics to talk?

CONFUSED about relationship.

tacticalmask2 — Wed, 02 Jan 2013 10:20:53 +0800

Right now, I'm in a relationship with a girl.

Yes, we love each other and we care about each other.

But there are problems actually.

1. My parents disagree with this relationship. So, I have to do it secretly without them knowing. Going out for a date, I have to lie to my parents and sometimes, I feel guilty doing so.

2. I'm not romantic enough according to her, cause i cant do all the romantic stuffs when I'm at public. If I do so, some people might see and report to my parents. I shit scared about this.

She doesn't want my money..Everytime we eat together, we will pay ourselves. She's not the type who asks me to buy stuffs for her, she never asks. She tells me that all she wants is to have sweet memories with me, like doing what other couples do, hold hands when walking and stuffs like that.

any idea??

Break up after one day

tacticalmask2 — Fri, 21 Dec 2012 09:05:06 +0800

This is my new account as some people know me here.

I recently declared a relationship with a girl.

Everytime I had dinner with her, everything was really sweet. We could talk for so long. Everynight, we will chat through Facebook as well. Everyday, I will go to her work place and look for her, accompany her to go home.

And just recently, I hold her hands. We understand each other really well.

Until I tell my parents about it. My parents reject it. They said, if I choose her, I have to get out from my house and they will stop paying fees for my next semester at a university.

Last night, I broke up with her because of this. I still love her very much and I miss her a lot now. She said we should move on and she will try to forget me..when she told me this, she said that she is crying..i cannot accept the fact that we have to break up

It will be another 3 years before I graduate and I can only have a girlfriend after i graduate. Maybe by that time, she is already married or she already finds someone else.

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I feel very sad now, I'm trying to move on but all the sweet memories between us keep playing inside me.