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Insurance Agent cursing whole family

Violent Carrot — Mon, 10 Apr 2017 15:32:23 +0800

What do you think of Insurance agent like this?[attachmentid=8715326]

Have you got a Pandan colleague?

Violent Carrot — Wed, 29 Mar 2017 10:13:36 +0800

He is Accounts, whenever suppliers chase money he will avoid to answer calls, email never reply, not even acknowledge. Then when he happened to answer the call he cheated & say the boss is overseas / outstation. But the boss is in office. All the bosses & managers.

he wears makeup to work, sometimes only foundations, sometimes foundations + eyebrow + coloured enlarge contact lense

But i dont call him pandan bcz he makeup to work. I call him pandan because he actually complaint to higher management. My colleague from another department is busy & she not manage to answer calls on time. End up this one girl kena warning from management that she neglected her responsibility. Help answer call can die meh?

And he CC managers level whenever he want to shoot me. For something which is not my fault & not fall under my responsibilities / department.

Ok thanks for letting me rant here my blood not that boil anymore.

Have you hentam your ex-colleague after resigned?

Violent Carrot — Tue, 21 Feb 2017 10:48:38 +0800

My previous office environment is those that very give face to people with bad attitude.. we just tolerate and (unhealthily) talk bad about them afterwards (regarding job performance & also the attitude)

So we have an Admin that likes to push her jobs away, order other people around, giving excuses when we have request, and not answering when asked about job related questions. When she made error big or small we need to say sorry & beg her to amend our invoices / documents and she still give you a sour face for troubling her.. Im sure some of you have encountered Admin or HR that treat the company like her father's company. Ask to purchase equipments or stationeries they ask you to buy yourself.

Today I hentam her, those words I not managed to say during my employment with her.... I felt so good. I was thinking that I should be the bigger person, but, not today.

Anyone to share their experience?

Suddenly remembered his ex

Violent Carrot — Mon, 05 Dec 2016 10:29:13 +0800

She kept coming in my brain even though I had been with my BF for more than 5 years... maybe because going to go to his friend's wedding again, the old memory just pop up.

Last wedding we went, Ex texted my bf, saying she wanted to fetch bf & me go to the wedding together. I kecik hati bcz not only need to see her in the dinner but need to sit her car go. He sit in front with her, chit chat happily while me at the back silently, desperately holding back my tears (which already flow out some)

During the wedding she sat beside bf, also continue chit chat... I just play my phone to keep my mind off, hoped not to sia sui & cry infront of ppl. Then this biatch suddenly stopped talking & asked me to help her & my bf take photo, some more is take a few change some post. Bf happily obliged... I also quietly help them both take photo. I dont know how to describe the hati sebak feelings, and at the same time cannot cry out or just runaway from that scene. Then bf have the nerve ask me why I looked so gloomy

I get together with him 1yr after they broke up, so I dont think Im the 3rd wheel..I dont think I did anything to deserve these treatment..she also already has bf shortly after they broke up that time. But just few months after I get with my BF, she actually ajak me go out, said will treat me eat (yes, im that idiot who went out because of free food). End up she got ulterior motives, she wanted me to pass a letter to my bf. The letter is some sort of like a reminiscence letter to tell my bf she wanted to cut ties with him for real & delete all her memories of her bla bla bla & ask him to do the same... (drama). My bf entertain & reply her with his blog, Dear Ms A, cant delete off those memories but what passed is passed bla bla hoped u happy from now on bla bla

Im not sure if I need to see her again this weekend for the wedding, I pray hard I dont. Im not the same person as I was then (innocent stupid idiot), but my EQ still havent trained high enough to treat her as invisible.

Question: Do you have similar situations, keep remembering bf / gf ex and feel not happy about them? is there anyway I can wipeout all these bad memories of her? How?

Is it weird?

Violent Carrot — Fri, 27 Dec 2013 15:49:35 +0800

Situation1

5 ppl going to trip.

1. BF
2. GF
3. BF younger sister
4. Friend
5. Friend's wife

When crossing roads, a few times the BF hold his sis hand & guide her to across the road, leaving GF behind to cross herself. (The sis is already a college graduates)
When taking the group photo, the Friend & Wife sit next to each other, then the BF & GF sit separated by the sis

Situation2
BF rage when GF sitting on uncle's lap for fun, together with GF little sister. BF also condemns his cousin sitting on her dad's lap. Then one day GF saw BF's cousin (SPM graduates) sitting on BF lap; BF say it's normal, nothing is wrong.

We few people discussed & we think it's weird & double standard.....but the BF guy insist there is nothing wrong about this??

Can I feel pissed off?

Violent Carrot — Tue, 10 Dec 2013 11:56:03 +0800

Who will not feel pissed off at at job? Everyday feel pissed off can kill people.

These people with 10years experience but act like a boss. Write CV like movie synopsis, Worked as Admin in Company A, 10 years....but expect me to know you got handle payroll, recruitment, lead a Technical Team & also monitoring international team? I can see all these in your brief notes? U think Im Oracle meh..... Then some more pissed at me because I didnt know you handle all these high profile things & ask me why I cannot read from you CVs.

Gahhh

inb4 /k is my crapping place & troller will be violently treated.

i need someone

Violent Carrot — Sun, 16 Dec 2012 01:00:51 +0800

So I always throw tantrum at him, because he easily attracted to girls. Mostly pretty ones, regardless of attitude. He used to tell me I'm cute, I'm pretty, but I don't know its the truth or not.

Lately he treats me cold. He wouldn't even hold my hands. At first I raised the financial issue with him. Then he looks pressured. Last weekend he hug another girl he just knew because she was crying. He said its nothing. He said he was just comforting her. That night I cried. He frust & said: hey, can you stop acting like this!

I stop. I hold my tears as if he will leave me if he saw another drop of tears rolling. Because he just might. That night just passed like that. I tried to hug him, but I'm just like hugging a cold object. No reaction. It's cold.

Pry on his chat & saw his flirty message with that girl today. He said he wanted that girl to smile like the first day he met her. I can't imagine how other ppl can be ok looking at this. My fault of prying. I get what I hoped I wouldn't see.

I messaged him. I try to mend things up and get some answer. He just say he don't know. Then silence. For few long messages there are only brief replies. He sigh he frust he said he is tired. I tried to call, so that I'm not so pathethc , with my messages ignored. He sounded like I'm disturbing his dinner. He kept saying there is no issue & nothing to be discussed.

He said I could stop crying & stop being this way. He said he want to hang up & will call me back later.

I had been waiting like a pathetic idiot. Still nothing from him. I'm so heart broken. He might call it off. He might throw me away.

I had told him how I showed him my heart & how he trampled it. He asks me not to be so imaginative. It really hurts. How can he tell me he still love me with this kind of treatment?

Please, someone please cheer me up. Please....

Dont know what to do

Violent Carrot — Fri, 30 Nov 2012 11:50:26 +0800

I dont know where is the appropriate place to ask for advise, so i hope can get some help here since its a relationship problem.

So me & my bf already in relationship for more than 3 years. Everything went fine until we share our expenses… sometimes I pay the rent for him, sometimes he pay for me. I paid for most of the groceries & he pays for the car loan & sometimes the meal.

The problem is we’re planning to move nearby my working place as I doesn’t have my own transport & we wanted to save some expenses on the petrol too. Everyday we’ll dine out because we’ll be reaching home late, sometimes even OT. (reach home around 7.30pm, after cook will be around 10pm only can eat).

We decided that I will do the room sourcing. It’s dangerous for me to see the room alone, so I try to arrange a time that he can accompany me, after work. I’m very heartbroken when the day of the house viewing, he will surely OT. My colleagues need to accompany me. So I arranged on 10pm at night, just nice after dinner. But we also didn’t make it because we’re having dinner with his friends.

Financially also we’re very unstable. If im staying with my family, estimated every month I can save around RM1000. But now Im left with less than RM20 every end of the month. We’re living in a pinch, but he will still buy all sorts of stuffs that I think is not a necessity. He got around 3 earphones, one of the its Beats replica costs around RM60-RM80. He owns 2headphones, one broken (just used one year), another he was a birthday present from me, both costs around RM420. Lately also bought mp3 around Rm440 with accessories & planning to buy new laptop (he complain current laptop screen is too small, just bought 2010 year end). At the end I used my savings money to cover our living expenses because he doesnt have enough to eat & no money to pump petrol.

What i saved every month for myself? NIL. I dont know how to stop his spending pattern. He is aiming to buy new headphones again next month, but if he cant cover the expenses I need fund him. For the past 3 years i almost never buy anything for myself. Not more than RM600 for clothes & shoes. I had worked for 2 years & I cant afford to buy even second hand car, cant imagine how to save money to buy house & dont think I can get married even after 35 years old.

Please help me

What are good 10 reasons not to lie?

Violent Carrot — Thu, 29 Nov 2012 16:21:27 +0800

So my friend said in life you shouldnt be too honest. Must be good in lying.

Then i found 10 reasons why ppl shouldnt lie. The funny part is the comment by Cee T. : I used to lie a lot before I became a Christian. My biggest problem was remembering which lie I told to which person. The main reason not to lie is because it displeases God.

I dont like to lie because Telling lies lead to bigger lies.

What is your biggest lie?

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qi...03191634AAHiHKq

Best answer chosen by voters:

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Your BF/GF bring you meet his/her ex?

Violent Carrot — Thu, 22 Nov 2012 15:54:41 +0800

Just really curious..

1. Do you bring your GF/BF to hang out with your ex?

2. Do your BF/GF bring you meet his/her ex?

3. What you feel about this?

Guys nowadays not gentleman at all

Violent Carrot — Mon, 12 Nov 2012 09:46:17 +0800

So today im not feeling well & need to take train to work (KTM + Putra)..

1. While waiting train, I saw more than 2 guys smoking in the train station.

2. There are guys going in the Lady's coach

3. These strong & big guys sitting there like a boss while old auntie need to stand.

4. While queuing to board the elevator, there is this mustache man cutting my queue, squeeze & pushing me aside.

5. This mustache man hogging the right lane of the elevator, blocking other people from moving forward.

6. While reaching to the machine to put the ticket, this mustache man once again cut my line & push me aside.

Where are you, gentleman?!

Idiot in the Cinema

Violent Carrot — Sat, 20 Oct 2012 00:34:38 +0800

Me & my friend planned to watch Taken 2 for some time, while this is the first time im watching, i had high hope.

But there is this woman sitting beside me, kept surfing the f-king FB every 1minutes!!!!!!!! The phone's light kept flashing my eyes, I can't even enjoy the movie. Some more when the movie climaxed & Liam Neeson start killing people, this woman keep on giggling. What is so funny when somebody died?! Other part she will yawn, like, 10times ++ in the whole movie?!

Grhh

English Name for girl?

Violent Carrot — Thu, 11 Oct 2012 16:24:06 +0800

So my friend's child have a difficult to pronounce chinese name; which translated to English, bringing the meaning: polite

Her name is called See Man, & it is very hard for other teachers & kids to pronounce her name correctly.

I got suggestions like: Sally, Sandy, Charmaine... but I wanted to know is there a better name? I myself prefer Samantha (Sam), but my friend doesnt like it because it sounds like a guy's name......

Please help

Geli Roommate V2

Violent Carrot — Wed, 03 Oct 2012 16:14:45 +0800

Just want to complain AGAIN..........sorry because very tak tahan d!!!!!

Dear roomate,

I cant talk to you right at the face because I respect your privacy & all. I hoped that you will accidently on /k/ & read this; & try to be a better roomate:

1. Please throw away your MCD's paper cup + paper wrapper that has been on MY table since 3 days ago, or if its THAT precious, please keep it somewhere private far from our room.
2. Even though you're having afternoon shifts & only have time for yourself somewhere around midnight 3am, please dont watch your drama in the room & laugh so loud until it woke me up & stayed irritated until 6am where i need to get up & go to work.
3. I know you love to call your BF. But its 4am in the morning. If you want to chat with him in the room, please keep the voice down or else you can chat in the livingroom... I would be happy to let you take my chair.
4. Please dont leave your undies hanging on the bathroom's door. I too, need to use the hook to hang my clothes.... & Im not sure whther its used or not...
5. Please close the door after you came back from work midnight. Im the one sleeping next to the door & you're sleeping far away. There are guys in our house & I dont like people to look at me while im sleeping. The mosquito bites are same awful. Glad you sleep so far away & didnt get any of those.

Dear guy housemate: Please close the toilet door while you were using it. Or else your bird might fly away. And please dont smoke in the kitchen... I had to throw away my cooked food in the wok..... Thanks a lot for your cooperation!!

Drill: somewhere in the middle of this thread --> hahahaha.. http://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopic=2469953&hl=

2 red ear slider (terapins)

Violent Carrot — Wed, 03 Oct 2012 15:26:49 +0800

Hi,

Me & my dear currently have 2 red eared sliders, but since we cant get them to bask under sunlight, the shell is shedding a little bit. I think they're getting unhealthy

Since we're poor people we cant afford to buy indoor basking equipment for them... If there is anyone interested to adopt, please contact me ya. I hoped they will get a better living place rather than releasing them into Tasik Shah Alam.....

Their size is as big as an adult's palm, long around 4inches. Bought them last year.. Thanks.

Info:
Both is female (i think)
Coco: strange pattern on her shell, always hyper active & excited, tame & wont bite fingers. (except you're holding food). Generally friendly.
Cola: Shy & quiet, typical terrapins. She will bite anything infront of her face, running water tap, fingers.... anything. Doesnt like to people to disturb.

End of the World - What you WON'T do.

Violent Carrot — Fri, 28 Sep 2012 14:30:45 +0800

So during lunch time when me & my lenglui colleagues are discussing about end of the world, we're busy talking bout what we will do-- call family, peel fruits to eat, rob bank, steal neighbour's dog (very cute) etc.

So I asked, what you wont do on that END-OF-THE-WORLD day? (<--something you do it as a routine almost every day)

Me: Laundry

Independent or not?

Violent Carrot — Wed, 19 Sep 2012 18:05:18 +0800

My friend condemn me saying I'm not independent because I asked my mom to renew my car license (from P convert to official driving license)

My option:
A - Take leave & renew the license at JPJ myself (cant renew at post office)
B - Go to work as usual because mom already volunteered to renew the license.

i took option A

Why does this have to relate to independent or not?!

Yours sincerely,
A very confused office lady

Any Ghost Stories to share?

Violent Carrot — Mon, 27 Aug 2012 11:27:21 +0800

Its this time of the month again & I hoped I can get some chilling ghost stories to spoke my friends!

Yesterday just read this from FB:

At Taiwan Hua Lian City, a car going forward & backward 3 times until it hit the building's front door & stopped. Only a girl sitting at the passenger seat & no driver spotted! There are witnesses saying there is no one on the driver seat when the whole incident happened, & the car was previously parked along the road side before it start to move on its own..

Anything from you all to share?

Ok, since this thread like responds no good, then i put in more stories my friend told me ba.

So on one day my friend chilling in his friend’s house until midnight around 1am, 2am like that. Since so late d, he decide to ride his bike home. So there was this kancil parked outside the house for quite sometime. They noticed this car because the front light is on the whole time. When my friend reached the front gate, he is spooked out as the girl in the car acted very2 weird. My friend feel creepy but he still want to ride his bike infront of the car see what happenned. Her head was placed on the steering, face a bit mendonggak. Then the mouth is like; eating the steering? Because the steering looks like its coming out from the cheek; or else looks like the steering already crushed into her cheek bone. The car was there until around 5am. The friend in the house call her dad to check on the car, but the car is gone before the uncle came out…

** more stories behind... read la kalian. & if got, contribute la......

Got Plan, No $$, Cloudy Future

Violent Carrot — Fri, 24 Aug 2012 10:42:27 +0800

Planning to get married before 30years old, until now the savings in the bank at the end of the months always RM0 - RM10

Car? No
House? No
Money? Nonononono

I eat moderately, of course fast food is a must every once in a week or else i will have no purpose to live...
I dont go for shopping & doesnt have any expensive hobbies except for my pets, 2 red ear slider & 2 robos hamster.

i want to save $$$$$$$.... & buy my own house.....

Who always got a lot of savings & knows tricks to save $$ efficiently?

Job Interview

Violent Carrot — Wed, 22 Aug 2012 15:31:11 +0800

When you go for interview, would you bring your own resume? Or u expect your interviewer print it out for you?

Do you think wearing sleeveless + jeans + slippers for admin/hr/call centre/customer service job (general office job) is OK?

Did you ever do any of above or you did more extreme stuffs?