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GF marrying other guy

abemin — Mon, 11 Apr 2016 15:14:52 +0800

Hi guys,

Here it goes. I have a girlfriend, we met last year around May. She's a very attractive and independent girl. Enough said, she got all the packages I want in a girl. Loving, caring, independent, small and petite etc etc and the most important thing is, she do love me. Long story short, I just got to know that her dad arrange her marriage. I've met her parents one time and they seems okay with me.

She didn't told me that her dad arrange her marriage with his friend's son untill January. She thought she can get away with it by going overseas (to further her studies + working)(this is the reason she didn't tell me at the first place). Unfortunately, due to bad currency exchange, her company hold the sponsorship. That was when she told me everything. I was very devastated,broke down and lost. That was the point in my life where I stop believing in God. His plan sucks right?

From what she told me, she knew the guy way before me. It was after she broke up with her fiance around 2013. (Reason for broke up:dad didn't approve) The guy (S) came for an event at her house and the family introduced them. They went out a few times, she tried to love him but she can't, she moved on. but S, still have feelings for her.

Last year, she went to Hong Kong (work stuff) and her parents secretly invited the family over to her house for a merisik session. She only knew that when she got home. She got angry and had fights with her parents. She told her dad that she already have someone( that's me, even that I didn't know this yet back then). Her dad said, "Thats your choice, this is my choice. You're my daughter and you have to follow me". She told S that she don't want this but he don't care, since he got the family power in his side, he still want to proceed.

Her dad prepared everything (documentations etc etc) and even came out with wedding cards and secretly invite families and friends. I asked her permissions to meet with her dad but she did not want me to. I really want to ask why did he do this to his daughter. When she fight with her dad, she did asked him many times, why he do this, but his answer is simply, "I want you to be happy, just listen to me".

Point to note.
1. Yeah she do love me and I love her.
2. She told me that this arrange marriage may got something to do with a house her dad bought before.
3. She don't want to embarrass her parent by running away on her wedding day.
4. Too late, I know. The wedding is next week.
5. For last two months, she hasn't been home. Only this morning she went back to her family.

Please advise.

Looking for Apartment to rent

abemin — Thu, 12 Jun 2014 12:05:11 +0800

Hi all,

I'm currently looking for apartment/flat to rent

- Around Setapak or Wangsa Maju.

- Fully furnish/Partially furnish/not furnish

- <= RM800

- Will move before September.

Agents/anyone welcome to recommend.

Thank you.

[WTB] 2.5" HDD for notebook prefer 250GB

abemin — Fri, 21 Mar 2014 15:34:44 +0800

Item(s): Want to buy used but still kickin' 2.5" HDD preferably 250GB and 1pc 2GB DDR2 SODIMM RAM

Package includes: 1 pc HDD, 1pc or 2pcs 2GB RAM

Price: offer me

Dealing method: COD

Location of buyer: Setapak

Contact method/details: PM

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Item(s) conditions: Used

Reason for buy: Personal Notebook suddenly got HDD crash. deswai want to replace HDD and thinking of upgrading RAM.

Used City Full Spec 06 vs New Myvi SE

abemin — Fri, 28 Feb 2014 16:28:07 +0800

I want to buy car that will be use to go to work if rain,if go to site, jalan2 masa weekend and balik kampung. Otherwise just use moto. The used City about 35K and new Myvi SE 1.5 about 56K.
So help me to understand if i buy used City, I need more money to maintain? Hope you guys can help me choose considering all aspect. My budget is rm450 per month.

[WTT]

abemin — Fri, 03 Jan 2014 12:27:50 +0800

Item(s): Blackberry Z10 3G Black

Package includes: Charger only

Price: Trade with Blackberry Q10 (Offer me best price to topup)

Warranty: No

Dealing method: COD

Location of seller: Setapak

Contact method/details: PM

Age of item: 10 Months

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Item(s) conditions: 9/10 with latest leak OS 10.2.1.1925

Reason for sale: Want to try Q10