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Dealing with gf personality especially temper

Nevermore91 — Fri, 06 Mar 2015 17:02:02 +0800

To all guys out there or ladies please advise

As the title said, how do you all deal with ur gf temper? I believe some girls are not so sensitive and guys have their own weak point, but let me explain my situation.

The first few months beginning of the relationship was great. Hardly any argue, no temper, she will initiate the text sometime. But nw, everything is opposite. Small mistakes then get angry, example she is doing her internship in Pj. Im working in KL. So she asked me whether I can pick her up. So i told her should not be a problem but she will need to wait because firstly the traffic jam I have to deal and the paperwork i need to finish in office. Just like this she get angry and say I do not knw how to manage my time and dont appreciate her. Im sure I did not say anytg to make her angry. Aside from tht, she is quite materialistic, which I try to provide and its get harder for me to save. She also seldom initiate the text anymre. No she is not cheating on me because I knw her family members.

I don wan say further cause I feel lousy as a guy that is lost in the relationship. Anyway, can you all pls advise?

Need opinion on my first job

Nevermore91 — Sun, 15 Feb 2015 12:02:38 +0800

Any sifus working in hospitality line or can advise pls help

I have just completed my stdy in Hospitality Management (Degree). My grades are rather ok with many past job experience. I am actually trying to apply a job in Singapore for close to 2 weeks now. Still no reply, send out to many hotels alrdy. So far the only replied I received were asking me take the personality assesment

Questions I have are
1.Am i doing something wrong here? Because if Singapore doesnt reply me by March...

2. Should I accept the job offer here (have a offer to start work by March or to wait for a job frm Singapore while working part time)

I am getting discourage but my friends are saying that probably because CnY or because hotel are large companies so it might take longer.

Thanks Sifu in advance and Happy Chinese New Year soon

What are my chances of being accepted?

Nevermore91 — Fri, 23 Jan 2015 15:54:32 +0800

Hi all

I tried applying recently at OCBC Bank Management. And they told me to go for interview soon.

I have a confession to make tht I was once a student that never bother in my future so I did horrible for my SPM and Diploma, but I decided to turn around during my degree. My CGPA for degree is 3.07

Will there be any chance for me to be accepted?

Thanks in advance

Police Saman

Nevermore91 — Wed, 27 Aug 2014 09:43:50 +0800

Hello everyone. This morning when i was driving to taman tun from hartamas, i had to pick up an urgent call and ask tht person to call me back later cause i was driving

Call was only less than 15 second and one police car ask me to pull over. 😭

I tried to explained to the police it was an urgent call and it was only less than 15 sec and they didnt bother listening

I am very new to this as I have never get saman before, do i really need to pay it? And im not sure where to pay it either 😩

Help :( very worry

Nevermore91 — Sun, 06 Jul 2014 17:09:24 +0800

I hope this is the right place to asked

Anyway. Me n my gf always have protected sex

She told me tht she had little bleeding after intercourse. And today, she have light brown discharge (3 days after the bleeding) and its 1 week before her period. Are those brown discharge from those blood? She is irregular though

Are these bad sign? We are both stdying and cant effort to have these worries

Pls help

Gf say i do not how to comfort her

Nevermore91 — Sun, 13 Apr 2014 00:52:50 +0800

I am so freaking confuse now @.@ my gf was arguing with her close friend 2 days ago and i tried comforting her and she was not willing to tell me what happen. So i back off on that topic and spoke bout other topic

The weirdest thing is that now she say she is most upset now bcause I do not know how to cheer her up?? Wtf is this? Imagine just trying to cheer her up and knowing that she is most upset because of me trying to talk to her?

One more thing, can i ask girls out there, how you want us guys to talk to you or 'tum' you? I am really trying to understand this more

Thanks in advance!

Guys n girls advise pls :(

Nevermore91 — Fri, 07 Feb 2014 13:22:02 +0800

Is it just my girlfriend or all girls are like this? She told me before that she prefer to talk when mistake are made. But then, here's the thing, she will give me the cold shoulder for the whole day or more regardless even when i tried msging her ( currently we are both LDR) lets say we do argue for awhile, she will always say its her fault n end the arguement.

Most of the time is me been forgetful. Its my weakness tht causes us argue most of the time and she expect me not to have the same mistake? Nobody is perfect!
She has weakness too and it could have lead to arguement but i decided not to because i really love her.

She been giving me the cold shoulder a day now. And i am trying to tell her talk to me yet shes ignoring. How should i approach this cold shoulder thing?

Confuse n Sad

Nevermore91 — Fri, 15 Nov 2013 13:43:15 +0800

Sorry for the long story but I just am so sad n confuse now

I been with my gf for bout half a year now. Our relationship is awesome and we have met our parents and consider steady. We seldom argue but when we do it's real bad even it's just small matters.

We went out for dinner and after coming back things become bad. We argued because of few matters

1. I am never really good at comforting her
2. I always have reason for my mistakes

Yes, I have many things to change but she has many weakness too that I just told her lets change our weakness and tolerate each other. But last Wednesday, she said she can't tolerate me anymore and say when there are problems I never take it seriously. I was so worried when she said that, I mean not only that, she has a guy friend which most of her friend told me they are just best friend, I am still worry because they text quite often. And she's been giving me the cold shoulder and not texting me so often anymore despite that we already close the topic after the arguments
Is it that the relationship is coming to an end or is just she still upset with me?

I asked her before few months ago why can't she tell him that me and her are in a relationship, she just say that he knows bout it and also don't wan to lose him as a friend and say that I don't trust her.
Am I worrying too much or is something I have to discuss with her? Even when I discuss with her, she will become upset.

Drop weight/ Increased or remain better?

Nevermore91 — Thu, 27 Dec 2012 00:01:05 +0800

Sorry I have to post a new topic like this, but I seems not able to find my answers

Question is lets say someone is doing bicep curl, should he increased the weight every set he does or drop the weight or just used 1 particular weight will do for maximum results?

Thanks

What to do in dis situation?

Nevermore91 — Thu, 02 Aug 2012 11:40:17 +0800

Well, I like this girl from college very much because she is first of all pretty, chatty, cheerful and other things, you name it.

I went out with her twice but along with 1more friend of mine cause I didnt want things to go awkward during the conversation. So far what i knw about her is tht she is looking for a guy tht she knw for long time maybe about a year. She also mention tht a couple should only see each other once or twice a week because seeing each other may become bit boring.

Things are going well so far. During our conversation, we always laugh. We did flirt few times, eye contact etc.. and want to hang out soon again, want to eat seafood together this time

So the question here is tht when should i ask her out again? and if possible is it alright if i ask her just the two of us dis time? Will i be moving too fast? Hope to hear from any of you guys or girls advise.

Am I doing it right?

Nevermore91 — Mon, 28 May 2012 01:35:40 +0800

I wanna lose weight and gain muscle ( aiming for chest and abs ) at the same time. So far I have manage to lose 5kg in 2 months ( currently 75kg, aiming for 72kg ). I am 21 years old this year.

My problem is that I stop going gym now because trying to save cost, so what I do is that I jog about 20min at the park and do some dumbell exercise, pushup and situp exercise at home for about an hour( Monday, Tuesday, Thursday, Saturday ) and martial arts 2 times a week. So is there anything further I can do to achieve my goal? Seems like 75kg is at my weight losing limit. This is what I eat throughout the week.

Breakfast
Oats
2 Soft-boiled eggs or 2 fry eggs with bake beans
1 cup of green tea or Milo with biscuits

Lunch
Normally i eat here most because people told me that lunch is the most important meal, so what i normally eat is mix rice with more vegetable

Dinner
Salad with steam chicken, steam carrot and 1 slice of cheese mix with thousand island sauce
Oats
Green Tea or just plain water

Midnight snack ( I get hungry within few hours==)
Low fat yogurt

Advise please? I really want to get my chest and 6 abs. Thank you!

Please help? Lost now

Nevermore91 — Sun, 13 May 2012 23:45:40 +0800

Hello everyone.

I just finish my Diploma in Hospitality, planning to continue to Degree and Master if my results are good. Yes, its my favorite industry. But here is the thing, I discuss with my cousins few days ago about their career, one of them is working in FnB line, so she told me that she been going through tough time, sacrificing a lot of her time working and ruling all her relationship with her love ones and earning only less than 2k. ( She is a degree holder ) Where else my other cousin in other line works much lesser hours than her but earning more income. So they advised me to really think hard about my career path again. I really wish to have a career that I can juggle so I can spend time with my love ones and sometime even be able to do things that I love to do such as Gym.

I already had goal set in my mind, which is work in the hotel or restaurant for few years. Generate enough income and open my own restaurant outlet. But after my cousin told me about the sacrifices she has to made even spoiling her relationship with her love ones, Im really getting worry. I dont wanna discuss this with my parents because I knw they will be disappointed with me. So i wish to ask anyone to advise me pls? I really appreciate it. So lost.