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Guardian Store Scammed me?

matt1998 — Tue, 02 Jun 2020 16:24:47 +0800

So i bought stuff from Guardian Online store coz they have sales, and since 13th of May till now that i placed my order, they still havent send my stuff to me, provided gdex tracking number but cant even track.
Pmed on facebook but they didnt read messages, called them but nobody answered. At this point i felt like i got scammed. What can i do arh? Police report?

Guardian Store Scammed me?

matt1998 — Tue, 02 Jun 2020 16:19:33 +0800

Air Jordan 1 "Bloodline"

matt1998 — Sun, 01 Dec 2019 12:47:49 +0800

Item(s):
AIR JORDAN 1 BLOODLINE UK8.5

Price: (!!!NOTICE!!!: Sellers are required to display the exact selling prices of their products. Failure to do so will result in the deletion of the topic)
RM850, Price can nego

Dealing method:
COD/POSTAGE
POSTAGE +RM20 FOR BUBBLE WRAPPING AND DOUBLE BOX

Location:
COD AT AMPANG/CHERAS AREA

Contact method/details:
PM me on FB Marketplace https://www.facebook.com/marketplace/item/1463668463790112/
or on Lowyat , Price Negotiable

Item(s) conditions:
BNIB Brand NEW IN BOX

Picture:

How to remove smoke stains on walls?

matt1998 — Wed, 02 Jan 2019 22:57:01 +0800

Hi guys, I've been having a problem with cleaning walls with smoke stains on it. What should I use to clean them easily without any fuss? Going to repaint the wall after cleaning the wall.

Compatible Issues

matt1998 — Tue, 01 Jan 2019 12:49:51 +0800

How do I know when someone is not suitable for me?
Is there such thing as fate that separates couples? Do every couple work out as a pair, if they work hard enough from communicating with each and adjusting to each other "wants" and "needs"? Or its just different people have different opinion about love? I was told by my ex that we have too much difference in our character, I'm not that sociable as she was. What she liked I did not like it nor have interest in.
She thought it was right to dispose a spoilt apple (just like our relationship) and I respected her decision as we were very tired from multiple arguments, but I did tried to solve the problem which she didn't accept and try to work with me everytime. Is it my problem or shes just not ready for a relationship? I know I shouldn't blame her but I think it just feels wrong when she's doing something kind to me (writing letters saying that she loves me), (getting me a flower, buying souvenirs when going for a trip) but deep down she doesn't even want to continue our relationship anymore.

How do you guys maintain affection?

matt1998 — Sun, 16 Dec 2018 13:42:43 +0800

I've been wondering how do people in their 3yr-10yr relationships maintain their affection towards their partner? And how does someone losses their affection towards their partner too? Is it because of deep talk between couples to maintain such a long relationship? or is it when arguments couldn't be solved and in the end everything stacked up and causes someone to lose affection?
i'm weak at relationships and i wanted to know more. The real COLD HARD TRUTH.
And why is it nowadays that woman or girls leaves the man instead of the man giving up in a relationship?

Am I a failure?

matt1998 — Sun, 25 Nov 2018 10:19:58 +0800

So, it's been three months since I broke up. And I am still the same, not able to forget her.
We've been together for only six months, I loved her alot, but we do argue very frequently due to moreover with me not able to be with her all the time and both of us have different perspective on different stuff.
We met in college, fell in love with each other, everything went well until the one moment she saw our chat that I shared our arguments with one of my friend, and my friend did asked me is she good enough? I replied seriously, she's not that good but I loved her, so I just want to find a way of solving this argument.
But everything changed afterwards, she started to became cold, telling me that she couldn't trust me because I told someone else she was not good enough and she was going to start her working life soon. As I am still pursuing a degree.

So she started her work, not long after our argument. She met new friends and we only meet once per week, I thought everything was going along smoothly but she's just started to change, doesn't let me to touch her, even holding hands is a fuss for her, though I still never gave up on her. Even celebrating her birthday she was unhappy, I tried to cheer her up but she was just sad.

She did ask for multiple breakups when I asked her why did she started to not care about me, chat with me, talk with me about her stuff just like she used to. She said she's tired and wanted to end this relationship everytime I tried to argue with her about why she did these, because I cared.

Just three months ago, we broke up. The last day I was working as a 10 to 10 part timer, she went to penang with her colleagues for a trip. She came back and brought some souvenirs for me, she told me she has something to tell me once I tell her we need to talk. So we met during my lunch break and she told me that, I think that I don't know whether that I still love you or not. I would choose friends over you, can we just be friends for now, I was shocked and unable to accept what she said and I told her, think properly before you tell me whether you want to continue our relationship or not. We've been together for six months and fought for our future, why couldn't we continue it for the best? There was no replies from her after I accompany her to take her MRT ride
And in the night, she told me let's just break up, there's no more meaning even if we continue our relationship. I was devastated and I said yes, knowing that she's been cold to me and was unhappy and tired everytime we go out for dates. I thought I was rational at that point, but everything just became worst and worst.

First, right after broke up. I went home and cried so badly and I told her best friend to take care of her, what I promised to her friend of taking care of her I couldn't do it. So I left a list of her preferences to her friend.
She didn't told her friend that she broke up, and she knew I sent this message to her friend right after they went out for a night and came to scold me that, why would I let her best friend know about this, I have my own privacy too. Are you trying to tell the whole world about it.
At that point, she set an ignored function on our messenger chat.

Second, I went to her house. During the night right after I met my friends for a gathering. I messaged her, can you come out and talk about it. I'm sorry for what I've done. That moment I was trying to chase her back, but what she told me was I don't want to see you and she was scared that I came to her house just like that, without her knowing and like a Stalker. She told me do you want me to block you on facebook? I said no, if you don't want to meet me then I'll leave right now.
She did hesitate and said let's meet tomorrow but was scared by the fact that I went up to her home and said its enough, just don't do anything anymore and leave me alone.

Third, I only managed to do that for almost a month, then I decided to buy some breakfast, milk packets and stuff and wrote a letter to tell her to take care of herself for one last time. I sent it to the shop she was working in during her off day which is Sunday since she doesn't want to see me while she can consume what I brought for her on Monday. And I forgot to told her I left something for her and I slept through when I went home because I was tired. She came to me, blasting angry messages saying that don't go to her shop and disturb the people around her, she told me that she had thrown what I brought for her.

Lastly, I really did stop doing everything about her. Except for finding a friend to solve my problems of thinking of her, missing her and letting it go. This is what most people do right, look for a friend and tell about how should I let go. So this friend of mine, he was not working when I started to share my stories to him and finding him for guidance since he was a rational guy. Just one day he told me he was going to work at my ex's shop, I told him then take good care of her for me if you could. And we've been chatting about how to let go of her and he gives me advices on how to do it and he did helped alot. What I was not expected was, my ex saw our chat. They played music in the shop through phone playlist. And my friend left his phone at the counter, which was the place to connect to the music player, and my ex decided to change the song then she saw what I was chatting with my friend.

She blocked me right afterwards, she said she was scared of me. Due to one message I told my friend,which was," I saw an insta story where she was playing darts with a guy but I am feeling jealous and unable to stay true to my feelings, why do I still feel so much pain when shes just playing dart with a male friend." While the insta story was on the guy's insta and she said I stalked her, the truth was I was going through what people liked on insta and saw she followed a guy and I was curious about it and I press in it and watched his stories. (maybe this is counted as stalking too?) I don't know guys.

She was scared of me and blocked me on every single social media site, every single one that you could think of. Including the Facebook of searching her profile. What I was not able to understand was, we last met during our convocation for our diploma, I asked her to take a picture with her and she said OK, with a friends phone. But right after I went home and I asked for the pictures that we took from our friend, she said she couldn't find it and maybe was my ex that deleted the photos.

I know, it's been three months I should have forget her by now. But some memories still goes on and I'm trying to. Ranting it only make it worse and I know it,but I still do it. I just loved her so much that I labeled myself as a total failure which what I did in resulting her to block me on every social media.

I just wanted her to be happy after all, but I was not happy at all. Maybe I was just unmatured just like she used to said to me.

Bachelor E-business management or BA?

matt1998 — Wed, 03 Oct 2018 13:11:40 +0800

Hi guys, i've been having dilemma picking between these two course. Both are at different uni, if i wanted to study Bachelor in E-business management the registration ends this week and i get to start immediately. While BA, starts ard 15th of October.
I'm not really sure about which to pick , i have no idea of the future job prospect of these jobs. While BA, my parents refuses to support me in this case. They said BA is very hard to find a job nowadays, and told me to study E-business instead.
Any experienced degree holders of this two courses can tell me what do you do in the future?
need help!
*urgent*

My girlfriend dumped me

matt1998 — Sat, 22 Sep 2018 23:00:15 +0800

We've been together for six months, had alot of arguments, most of the problems were not solved because she just doesn't listen to me (yes , she's stubborn). Our arguments are mostly on messenger instead of real life, the reason she dumped me is becoz she said she don't love me anymore and she also said that she can be independent & survive on her own without me. While i did cried like a little bitch when we broke up, thinking that what did i do wrong to let her make that decision.

There was an argument that almost broke us up after just 2 months of relationship, and i admit that was my fault. What happened was, i argued with her and i decided to share with my friend what happened and asked he could give me any advice on what i should do. I screenshotted my chat with my gf and discussed with my friend. She found out by scrolling through my phone , she said that i betrayed her by showing our conversation to another friend. And scolded me that i'm not matured enough. But for me in that time,i thought isn't sharing relationship problems with friend a good way of solving problems? since he has more experience in relationships than me?

And things go on as usual until sometime and she changed alot when she started to work full time (we just graduated from college), she did have complaints abt her job and shared her problems with me in the first few months of working, but as times goes she ignored my messages and doesn't reply to me time to time and idk what happen. And just recently she went to penang with her female colleague and when she came back she asked for a breakup. She did bought gifts from penang for my family but didn't managed to give it to me in the end.

I've started to notice that she's starting to lose interest in me when i was celebrating her birthday, she's not even happy half of the time when we are dating she did admit it she was not even happy during her trip with her colleague. Does work change a person? She changed so so much when she met her colleague. She even'd told me she will choose friend over me and tell me that she felt that she's kind of selfish.

I don't understand everything at the first hand, and she's been rejecting kisses and hugs from me at some point.
There's so many events and things that happened that left me with confusion when we broke up, why did she brought flowers for me in the last date?
She lost the watch that i gave her as my confession present and even cried for few days not daring to tell me that she lost it. (found it after a few days we broke up in her own car)
Sometimes she cares, and sometimes she just doesn't care. But in the end, after we broke up and she changed immediately.
I loved her so much even our relationship only last six months, and I tried to be a good guy even though she dumped me in the end by asking her bestie to take care of her, by listing all of her preferences , what she hates and what she likes to eat, what medical condition she has, bla bla bla and so on. Since i am nt able to be thr to take care of her since we broke up.
She found out that, and told me to stop everything i'm doing right now and asked me what other things that i have done without her knowing.

I put alot of effort in my first love and things still doesn't work out. I'm scared of relationships now.

Banking And Finance

matt1998 — Fri, 21 Sep 2018 10:29:07 +0800

I've been having dilemma whether I should study banking in finance for my bachelors, what I got offered by the college was business administration which is not what I wanted. The question is, what do graduates of banking and finance do in the banking industry? Do I have to meet quota for sales? What do bankers do basically in the bank? I just wanted to know everything about the banking and finance industry.

I am insecured

matt1998 — Sat, 25 Aug 2018 11:15:20 +0800

Hi everyone, i've been with my girlfriend for almost 6 months now and i feel insecured all the time and i don't know why.
She didn't like to have voice message, video calls, and even likes to chat with me. Seen me all the times nowadays, when i care she's not replying at all and it made me felt helpless and i didn't get the attention that I wanted? She was into video calling , voice calling and even sending selfies to me in the starting few months, but now? don't have already , and we argued about that. She said that i posted her photo on instagram when she sent me her selfie (she called it betraying her), it's a appreciation post for what she did for my birthday and she didn't liked it. Now , she stops sending me pictures and whatsoever.
And when she gets home late, i'd worried like a crazy guy . But the point is, she doesn't flare our relationship to the social media even though i went out with her only once a week nwadays, she doesn't post anything on insta (because she's active on insta) about me and her alone. There would always be me and her + a few mutual friends of ours. And i gets mad cause she occasionally posts stories of her with her friends and not me? I dont feel like i got the recognition i deserved of being her bf.

Banking and Finance

matt1998 — Sat, 12 May 2018 17:09:24 +0800

Hi everyone, i have just finished studying a diploma in culinary arts and i found it hard for me to find a job and maintain as a cook for my future life, i did not like the atmosphere of working in the kitchen, the low pay (went to an interview and they offerred RM1600/month for 12hours of work for 26 days), and also the freedom in taking my own off days.( no offs during public holiday , doesn't have time for family bonding, overnight shift) i felt i am tied dead to the job itself. I went through all of these during my internships and i was not really happy during that period. And now i felt sorry for myself and my parents as i have wasted 2 years studying a course that i was enjoying as a hobby but not as a job.

I have discussed with my parents as i am still interested in studying and do not want to stay in the hotels or restaurant field for my whole life.
Now, i am still having difficulties on what i want to study. I'm from the 2015 SPM batch and my result are not that good, 4A- in SPM , Sejarah, Maths, English and Moral. the rest was B,C, and Ds. I didn't like accounting,physics,chemistry and addmath as i find them boring and hard for me.

Now to the main question, i am interested in Banking and Finance and based on the Diploma i have now , i couldn't get to study the Bachelor's degree straightaway and i have no idea what kind of work i am going to do in the future if i take this course. None of my friends are studying this course and most of them took Law, Accounting, and even Investment. What are the job scope of this path and how is the pay? Need opinion badly and what other courses i should/can consider researching before choosing this course?

Argued with Girlfriend

matt1998 — Wed, 02 May 2018 14:19:43 +0800

Hi, everyone i am currently still 20 years old. We've been arguing for the same reason for the past 2 months since we've been together, and shes my first love same goes to her. She said i am too quiet and boring , and she said shes tired but still love me. I tried to open up and talk more to her since our arguments on this particular matter, but when it comes to a crowded trip or going for a 3 day trip . She's communicating to others more than me, she said i have nothing to talk about so she talked to others. I do admit that i am quiet, but i couldn't think of anything to talk to her, when i'm with her my brain just goes blank (i don't know what's wrong with me) , and when i'm on facebook messenger i'm more active than real life. And she told me that she's dating with messenger instead of me.. Now she don't even want to talk to me whenever i tried to, she would just say sleep early keep hydrated just like i always told her to...
Shes given up and told me not to promise her anything after i promised her to talk more but i didn't managed to do so..
What should i do at this point? Having restless nights and no appetite to eat after arguing with her

Mrt Bandar utama to 1utama

matt1998 — Fri, 15 Dec 2017 19:41:52 +0800

How to go 1 utama when i'm taking mrt to mrt bandar utama? first time going to 1 utama with mrt leh , is there a bridge or something or with shuttle bus? looked through 1 utama website and still confuse....

Is zalora trusted?

matt1998 — Mon, 11 Dec 2017 09:55:01 +0800

Since they are having promotions and discounts right nw , and i saw a pair of shoes that i like selling for rm266 from the ori price rm380. Has anyone bought branded stuff from them before? Is zalora trusted or nt?

RM250 BANK RAKYAT KADSIM

matt1998 — Mon, 17 Jul 2017 16:19:07 +0800

I've recently received my debit card at shamelin branch, abt 2 weeks ago. But when i tried to withdraw the through other bank's atm and all of them rejected my transaction, my friends took out their money straight away once they got their card. But i was clueless and tried to take out the money just a few days ago , also tried sending sms to active my card and nothing happened. Called the shamelin branch and nobody is answering my call, nid help here

Travelers from ampang park lrt to ampang daily

matt1998 — Mon, 19 Jun 2017 21:06:43 +0800

Hi, would like to knw whether that i can catch up the last ampang line train at masjid jamek from ampang park if my work ends ard 11pm? becoz going intern for next semester and was told mostly going to have night shift. Thanks in advance.

Culinary student internship next sem, nid advice!

matt1998 — Wed, 17 May 2017 23:45:19 +0800

Hi, I'm currently a diploma culinary student going to have my internship at the hotel of my choice around kl area next semester. But I have no idea which hotel is the best to work in till now, need advice of which hotel to avoid & which is the best in terms of gaining work experience & good staff treatment.
I'm traveling by taking monorail & lrt, so overtime might be a huge problem for me since lrt & monorail is only providing their service until 11pm.

So my question is, which hotel kitchen is the best to work with?
Many thanks in advance.