http://forum.lowyat.net/ Thu, 11 Jun 2026 21:50:50 +0800 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/2474954 I knew this girl. Was a colleague. We started off like normal friends, then we started to share our things. personal life experience and opinion. We were attracted to each other. We started msg through whatsapp. She din like to talk on the phone so maybe I am fine with it. There was once when she confessed to me, I wasnt ready as I still cannot let go my past. Instead our relationship remains. I knew there is a girl who appreciates me and I started to give it a try lo. We started to date each other though we were seeing each other at work. Until when I am ready, I confessed to her this time. But everything just went so wrong. She told me her ex been contacting her, she said she let him go d but she was emo because of the memories they had. I told its fine, I am willing to wait for her until she is ready. We agreed and we moved on, but ever since after that, waiting was painful to me. I started to feel frustrated and I din want to put pressure on her. Then I started to talk to a friend, our mutual friend. Out of frustration, I did share some of my comments and opinion but sometimes I got fed up and I went overboard. We contacted each other through messenger.<br /><br />There was this day, she saw everything. She was so sad. Sad because she felt betrayed by her bestie and me, the person who she maybe love and probably have full trust in me. When she questioned me, i was too afraid and I lied somehow it was too late. I guess I am left with guilt that I burned everything between us. Even now, she kinda friendzone me too. I was so down. <br /><br />Somehow in my mind, I knew that I might still can convince her but she din want to see me anymore nor chat through whatsapp d. Of course I did apologize to her sincerely in front of her. Maybe not accepted but its a bit painful for me to let go things that I put so much effort in building this relationship. We started off everything with honesty but somehow when our relationship advances, there were things we din want to share anymore like both our ex contacted us and etc. Everything just went boom that day.<br /><br />I am in dilemma. What should I do?<br />Stand back and see? or let her go? paopi Cupid&#39;s Corner Sat, 18 Aug 2012 21:51:30 +0800