http://forum.lowyat.net/ Fri, 05 Jun 2026 17:46:27 +0800 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/3308117 What is going on in my lockscreen. Somebody tell me.<br />[attachmentid=4078357] reshbala Android Sat, 02 Aug 2014 23:43:00 +0800 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/3308116 Any /k expert in android 4.2. Tell me whats goimg on in my lock screen. This incomprehensible language..<br />[attachmentid=4078354] reshbala The Museum Of Kopitiam Sat, 02 Aug 2014 23:40:33 +0800 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/3305863 Rate them<br /><br /><!--SPOILER BEGIN--><div class="spoilertop" onClick="openClose('47016ecf26edce17f073ea7927197d4a')" style="font-weight: bold"><u>&raquo; Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... &laquo;</u></div><div class="spoilermain" id="47016ecf26edce17f073ea7927197d4a" style="display:none"><!--SPOILER END-->[attachmentid=4074899]<br />[attachmentid=4074902]<br />[attachmentid=4074904]<br />[attachmentid=4074907]<br />[attachmentid=4074910]<br />[attachmentid=4074911]<!--SPOILER DIV--></div><!--SPOILER DIV--> reshbala The Museum Of Kopitiam Thu, 31 Jul 2014 16:54:57 +0800 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/3302050 My lockscreen shows gibberish words. Using lenovo a3000 with stock ROM. Never root. Suddenly happen today. Screenshot of lockscreen attached.<br /><br />[attachmentid=4069825] reshbala Android Sat, 26 Jul 2014 23:14:42 +0800 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/3301291 Today i install sony xplod xav-65 headunit in my alza. Replace my non usb mp3 player. Thats al. Just wan to kuda. <br />[attachmentid=4068986]<br /><br />Previous player<br />[attachmentid=4069014] reshbala The Museum Of Kopitiam Fri, 25 Jul 2014 22:17:13 +0800 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/3300256 Can i apply to submit my name voluntarily in no-fly list? reshbala The Museum Of Kopitiam Thu, 24 Jul 2014 21:09:28 +0800 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/3292197 My ironic moment would be when the a bully bullied me in form 1 to form 3. Me being a nerd and naive that time. Once he even hit me with the school wooden chair. Fast forward to last year, im working as a physiotherapist and this bully guy gets admitted for TBI ( traumatic brain injury). And ironically he gets referred to me for physical therapy. reshbala The Museum Of Kopitiam Thu, 17 Jul 2014 10:26:05 +0800 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/3289688 4 yrs of close friendship. Just whatsapped me she got boyfriend redy.. Told me im her fren even before i asked. Just another rant. <!--emo&:oops:--><img src='http://static.lowyat.net/style_emoticons/default/oops.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='oops.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--emo&:oops:--><img src='http://static.lowyat.net/style_emoticons/default/oops.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='oops.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--emo&:oops:--><img src='http://static.lowyat.net/style_emoticons/default/oops.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='oops.gif' /><!--endemo--> reshbala The Museum Of Kopitiam Mon, 14 Jul 2014 23:14:17 +0800 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/3275445 <a href='http://shrink4men.wordpress.com/2009/01/30/10-signs-your-girlfriend-or-wife-is-an-emotional-bully/' target='_blank'><span style='color:red'>article</span></a><br /><br />Heartbroken with the insults i got, i was googling whats wrong with me and ended up with this article. It reflects 100% on my situation. What is my next step?<br /><br />-3 yrs of relationship, i always thought im the one who hurt her ( when i dont understand how i hurt her). After reading this article, im wondering did she manipulate me into thinking it was my fault all the time.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />The 10 signs from the article<br /><!--SPOILER BEGIN--><div class="spoilertop" onClick="openClose('7b363fe0f9b43ebd35782619d9f38d60')" style="font-weight: bold"><u>&raquo; Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... &laquo;</u></div><div class="spoilermain" id="7b363fe0f9b43ebd35782619d9f38d60" style="display:none"><!--SPOILER END-->1) Bullying. If she doesn’t get her way, there’s hell to pay. She wants to control you and resorts to emotional intimidation to do it. She uses verbal assaults and threats in order to get you to do what she wants. It makes her feel powerful to make you feel bad. People with a Narcissistic personality are often bullies.<br /><br />Result: You lose your self-respect and feel outnumbered, sad, and alone. You develop a case of Stockholm Syndrome, in which you identify with the aggressor and actually defend her behavior to others.<br /><br />2) Unreasonable expectations. No matter how hard you try and how much you give, it’s never enough. She expects you to drop whatever you’re doing and attend to her needs. No matter the inconvenience, she comes first. She has an endless list of demands that no one mere mortal could ever fulfill.<br /><br />Common complaints include: You’re not romantic enough, you don’t spend enough time with me, you’re not sensitive enough, you’re not smart enough to figure out my needs, you’re not making enough money, you’re not FILL IN THE BLANK enough. Basically, you’re not enough, because there’s no pleasing this woman. No one will ever be enough for her, so don’t take it to heart.<br /><br />Result: You’re constantly criticized because you’re not able to meet her needs and experience a sense of learned helplessness. You feel powerless and defeated because she puts you in no-win situations.<br /><br />3) Verbal attacks.This is self-explanatory. She employs schoolyard name calling, pathologizing (e.g., armed with a superficial knowledge of psychology she uses diagnostic terms like labile, paranoid, narcissistic, etc. for a 50-cent version of name calling), criticizing, threatening, screaming, yelling, swearing, sarcasm, humiliation, exaggerating your flaws, and making fun of you in front of others, including your children and other people she’s not intimidated by. Verbal assault is another form of bullying, and bullies only act like this in front of those whom they don’t fear or people who let them get away with their bad behavior.<br /><br />Result: Your self-confidence and sense of self-worth all but disappear. You may even begin to believe the horrible things she says to you.<br /><br />4) Gaslighting. “I didn’t do that. I didn’t say that. I don’t know what you’re talking about. It wasn’t that bad. You’re imagining things. Stop making things up.” If the woman you’re involved with is prone to Borderline or Narcissistic rage episodes, in which she spirals into outer orbit, she may very well not remember things she’s said and done. However, don’t doubt your perception and memory of events. They happened and they are that bad.<br /><br />Result: Her gaslighting behavior may cause you to doubt your own sanity. It’s crazy-making behavior that leaves you feeling confused, bewildered, and helpless.<br /><br />5) Unpredictable responses. Round and round and round she goes. Where she’ll stop, nobody knows. She reacts differently to you on different days or at different times. For example, on Monday, it’s ok for you to Blackberry work email in front of her. On Wednesday, the same behavior is “disrespectful, insensitive, you don’t love me, you’re a self-important jerk, you’re a workaholic.” By Friday, it could be okay for you to Blackberry again.<br /><br />Telling you one day that something’s alright and the next day that it’s not is emotionally abusive behavior. It’s like walking through a landmine in which the mines shift location.<br /><br />Result: You’re constantly on edge, walking on eggshells, and waiting for the other shoe to drop. This is a trauma response. You’re being traumatized by her behavior. Because you can’t predict her responses, you become hypervigilant to any change in her mood or potential outburst, which leaves you in a perpetual state of anxiety and possibly fear. It’s a healthy sign to be afraid of this behavior. It’s scary. Don’t feel ashamed to admit it.<br /><br />6) Constant Chaos. She’s addicted to conflict. She gets a charge from the adrenaline and drama. She may deliberately start arguments and conflict as a way to avoid intimacy, to avoid being called on her bullshit, to avoid feeling inferior or, bewilderingly, as an attempt to avoid being abandoned. She may also pick fights to keep you engaged or as a way to get you to react to her with hostility, so that she can accuse you of being abusive and she can play the victim. This maneuver is a defense mechanism called projective identification.<br /><br />Result: You become emotionally punch drunk. You’re left feeling dazed and confused, not knowing which end is up. This is highly stressful because it also requires you to be hypervigilant and in a constant state of defense for incoming attacks.<br /><br />7) Emotional Blackmail. She threatens to abandon you, to end the relationship, or give you the cold shoulder if you don’t play by her rules. She plays on your fears, vulnerabilities, weaknesses, shame, values, sympathy, compassion, and other “buttons” to control you and get what she wants.<br /><br />Result: You feel manipulated, used, and controlled.<br /><br />8 Rejection. She ignores you, won’t look at you when you’re in the same room, gives you the cold shoulder, withholds affection, withholds sex, declines or puts down your ideas, invitations, suggestions, and pushes you away when you try to be close. After she pushes you as hard and as far away as she can, she’ll try to be affectionate with you. You’re still hurting from her previous rebuff or attack and don’t respond. Then she accuses you of being cold and rejecting, which she’ll use as an excuse to push you away again in the future.<br /><br />Result: You feel undesirable, unwanted, and unlovable. You believe no one else would want you and cling to this abusive woman, grateful for whatever scraps of infrequent affection she shows you.<br /><br />9) Withholding affection and sex. This is another form of rejection and emotional blackmail. It’s not just about sex, it’s about withholding physical, psychological, and emotional nurturing. It includes a lack of interest in what’s important to you–your job, family, friends, hobbies, activities–and being uninvolved, emotionally detached or shut down with you.<br /><br />Result: You have a transactional relationship in which you have to perform tasks, buy her things, “be nice to her,” or give into her demands in order to receive love and affection from her. You don’t feel loved and appreciated for who you are, but for what you do for her or buy her.<br /><br />10) Isolating. She demands or acts in ways that cause you to distance yourself from your family, friends, or anyone that would be concerned for your well-being or a source of support. This typically involves verbally trashing your friends and family, being overtly hostile to your family and friends, or acting out and starting arguments in front of others to make it as unpleasant as possible for them to be around the two of you.<br /><br />Result: This makes you completely dependent upon her. She takes away your outside sources of support and/or controls the amount of interaction you have with them. You’re left feeling trapped and alone, afraid to tell anyone what really goes on in your relationship because you don’t think they’ll believe you.<br /><br />You don’t have to accept emotional abuse in your relationship. You can get help or you can end it. Most emotionally abusive women don’t want help. They don’t think they need it. They are the professional victims, bullies, narcissists, and borderlines. They’re abusive personality types and don’t know any other way to act in relationships.<!--SPOILER DIV--></div><!--SPOILER DIV--> reshbala Cupid&#39;s Corner Tue, 01 Jul 2014 12:24:06 +0800 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/3068240 looking for member to play badminton in seremban.. s2,bukit kepayang area... anybody dont have enough member please let me know.. used to play before but not able to play because no member to play reshbala The Sports Channel Mon, 16 Dec 2013 22:45:38 +0800 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/3015821 <img src='http://s23.postimg.org/vq7x7h98r/WP_20131102_002.jpg' border='0' alt='user posted image' /><br /><br /><br />fail fixed reshbala The Museum Of Kopitiam Sat, 02 Nov 2013 00:40:28 +0800 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/2990547 to begin with, my gf and i coupled 3 yrs back in college.. both me and her dont like to hang around wit fren type.. so whenever go makan from hostel, its mostly me n her.. go anywhere also me and her.. lepak and movie include.. so i finished study beginning of this year and she finished on june. so after i finished study, i came back to my hometown and found a job nearby my place. my father is getting older and he needs somebody to company whenever he go. my siblings all working outstation. so whenever he needs to go somewhere,i have to drive him.. so i became very occupied with my home responsibities.. on the other hand,whenever she had some plans,unfortunately it somehow always coincide with my fathers plans.. so i had to turn down her plans.. like datings and meetups.. she calls during working hours just to talk empty.. and just cut like that whenever i say i will call her back when i dnt have work. when i call her at night, she will say i dnt talk when she is free, she dnt have to talk when im free .i always explained my situation to her but she frequently brought up the same issue.. so the last 3 weeks,she decided not to layan me anymore and start treating me disrespectly,claiming she is giving what i gave her before.. never answer my calls, ask me only to msg.. she has been giving me the cold shoulders for the last 3 weeks.. what should i be doing now? reshbala Cupid&#39;s Corner Thu, 10 Oct 2013 23:07:58 +0800 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/2982002 <img src='https://fbcdn-sphotos-a-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-prn1/s403x403/934025_10202298289925252_526428066_n.jpg' border='0' alt='user posted image' /> reshbala The Museum Of Kopitiam Thu, 03 Oct 2013 22:13:52 +0800 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/2959933 I just started working. im 22, working as government servant in hospital. Do i really need life insurance. These insurance agents are doing a great job in trying to convince me to buy from them. Do i really need it considering i dont have anybody depending me at the moment? reshbala Finance, Business and Investment House Sun, 15 Sep 2013 00:30:32 +0800 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/2952312 my current mileage reading is 2230 km...<br />gt fuel consumption reading of 8.1L/100KM in the multi info display... 100% highway from kulai to seremban reshbala The Fast &amp; The Furious Sun, 08 Sep 2013 20:41:16 +0800 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/2945214 nokia conversations says double tap to wake up and radio app is not available for lumia 620 users<br /><br /><span style='color:red'><a href='http://conversations.nokia.com/2013/08/30/lumia-amber-your-questions-answered/' target='_blank'><span style='color:red'>source</span></a></span> reshbala Others OS General Discussion Mon, 02 Sep 2013 20:10:50 +0800 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/2892082 when i turn on the ignition key? the buzzing sound before the radio and speedometer light comes alight... where is it coming from? reshbala The Fast &amp; The Furious Fri, 19 Jul 2013 23:13:14 +0800 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/2867500 since the perodua alza is considered n mpv.. m i supposed to pay mpv charges in car wash and tinted shops? reshbala The Fast &amp; The Furious Sun, 30 Jun 2013 02:02:24 +0800 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/2756377 my dads 1978 toyota corolla broke down by the side of road at jalan sungai ujong,seremban. and the car exactly broke down behind a 2008 camry owned by a chinese guy. my dads car broke down because suddenly no feel while pressing the clutch and the acceleration like in neutral gear. the camry broke down because some issue in his cars immobiliser. while the camry owner was waiting for a tow truck to send the car to toyota sc, my uncle opened the my dads car hood, found that the clutch cable is hanging out.. he tied it back to the clutch pedal with a key chain and off the car moves.. waving bye bye to the camry owner still waiting for the tow truck.. sometimes simplicity is always best reshbala The Fast &amp; The Furious Sun, 31 Mar 2013 02:26:05 +0800 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/2755475 check out this link. physiotherapy explained by me. no virus. <br /><br /><a href='http://serembanphysiotherapy.blogspot.com/2013/03/what-is-physiotherapy.html' target='_blank'><span style='color:blue'>what is physiotherapy?</span></a><br /><br />inb4 sked virus, inb4 promote blog sendiri reshbala The Museum Of Kopitiam Sat, 30 Mar 2013 03:35:28 +0800