http://forum.lowyat.net/ Tue, 07 Jul 2026 19:47:26 +0800 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5058261 Got into a relationship with a divorcee a year ago. <br />From all eyes on me to mobile gaming<br /><br />I can accept <br /><br />Then till now, gaming plus social media ..so basically we only meet on weekends and I&#39;ve seen gaming and now socmed during the times we&#39;re together<br /><br />For me, i think he is getting bored of me.<br /><br />It&#39;s not a year yet <br /><br />Love is dead<br /><br />What do you think? Cat_in_pink Cupid&#39;s Corner Sun, 15 Nov 2020 21:48:11 +0800 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/2187374 can anyone tell me what to do..<br /><br />I&#39;ve been with this guy for four years and we were living together.. <br /><br />I really loved him maybe because we were too used to each other already so whenever he encountered any problem.. i will help him...mostly issues with money...i was a student and he was working but that salary was never enough and he always borrow money from me... ok so i thought that i stay in his house so im ok to help.. not only on money terms...on the third year, he went jobless....during these months...i was the one supporting him..his smoking habit..food n drinks.. imagine how much pocket money a student would have..but still i didnt give up..i help him to go online to find a job..so he managed to get the job...<br /><br />he started this job early 2011, this job requires him to work outstation...1month to jb n malacca another month to east coast... he worked for about half a year and i graduated and found a job...our salary is almost the same but somehow he will still borrow money from me.. he said he wanted a ps3 and a tv so that we can stay at home and save money because can stay in and no need to go out for entertainment...then i bought a tv and ps3 set.. i even bought a new laptop and he use my old lappy.. <br /><br />when i started to work...i was stressed out and gave him a unhappy face whenever he reached home.. we fought about this and made up...then he said he got work problem in jb so he has to go for the weekend... when he reached home.. i found out that he actually we to east coast to meet up with a girl...the girl even uses my lappy that i borrowed to him.. he deleted the calls and sms with the girl but anyhow found out that he actually calls the girl everyday and talk on the phone for 30min or more...the girl is someone from his industry also..<br /><br />i confronted him and he said he wanted to be friends and he said he dun feel the sparks anymore...i thought t was my problem and i said i will change for him.. i thought it was about my stress and he doesnt like to see my grumpy face...so i determined to change... but somehow the phone calls with the girl still goes on for few months... that night, he had to replace his broken simcard and the first thing when he turned on his phone..the girl sms came in...i could take it anymore and i took his phone and messaged the girl.. so he felt it was awkward and promised to never find the girl anymore... and thats it...<br /><br />the following months..he went out everywhere with me except for once that he said he need to go out with colleague and clients so i didnt join..but other than that he is always with me...till recently i found out that his best friend also know the girl... the friend said the girl came up alone to find my bf and the friend tagged along...so i think it was the time when he said he need to go out with the colleague and doesnt want me to follow.. this month he went to east coast again.. i saw the bills he sms the girl non stop and lied to me saying that he wanted to sleep early at 12am and after the call he call the girl and at 3am he still sms her again.. i saw all this tru our bills.. tat morning i asked him again and he said &quot;i dont know what are u talking about&quot; and keep on saying that he didnt call or go out with the girl... i send him a pic of the bills and he didnt reply or call me since he was at outstation that time.<br /><br />At night i called him... i asked him.. he said &quot;u already knew everything and what else u want to ask&quot;...i cant believe it... four years relationship is gone just like tat.. it&#39;s very scary that a person can be so cruel... <br /><br />at that night itself, a guy friend came to me... he chased me four years ago and that time i was with this bf so i didnt accept him...he was very nice..be there for me when i cried...even treat me better than my bf... he helped me to move my things from bf&#39;s house...he always try his best to make me happy...drives me to work and all sorts of things a bf would do for a gf...he is very nice... i know at this point he is just a rebound... i wanted to try but i felt i can never love a person the same way i loved my bf... but i know this guy is still waiting for his ex of 2 years...he said he wanted to try and who knows it might work out between us... so what can i do now?...i cant ask him because i know his ex is very important to him just like how my ex is an important part of my life..<br /> Cat_in_pink Cupid&#39;s Corner Thu, 12 Jan 2012 16:47:47 +0800