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[WTS] Second hand Cort G210

theprobe — Sat, 18 May 2013 10:00:46 +0800

Wanted to learn electric guitar but ended up hardly using it

WTS price: RM250 (Negotiable)
Year I purchased the guitar: July 2011
C.O.D Areas: Bukit Jalil, USJ Taipan, Cheras Tesco, Sunway

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CONSTRUCTION: Bolt-on
BODY: Basswood
NECK: Canadian Hard Maple
BINDING: N/A
FRETBOARD: Rosewood, 9.5" Radius(240mm)
FRETS: 22 / Large (2.7mm)
SCALE: 25 1/2" (648mm)
INLAY: White Dot
TUNERS: Die cast
BRIDGE: 6-screw Vintage Tremolo
PICKUPS: Powersound PSEG5P-5F & PSEG5P-5M & PSEG4P-2R (S-S-H)
ELECTRONICS: 1 volume, 1 tone, 5way lever
HARDWARE: CR (Chrome)
STRINGS: D'addario EXL120(042-009)

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My gf keeps mentioning that we should get married

theprobe — Tue, 29 Nov 2011 17:42:44 +0800

Does she really mean it?

My gf keeps saying it that she wants to be my wife, asking me want to be her husband many times in a week for the past 1.5 months... She kept saying she wants to be my wifey so bad...wants to live with me together...

Everytime I just said yes to her request but I didnt take any action.... I told her we need to find a day whereby we can talk and plan and she told me to do the planning asap... Is she for real I wonder sometimes haha

Sexual relations prior to being a couple

theprobe — Tue, 29 Nov 2011 14:45:18 +0800

Will this type of relationship last? Did go for a couple of dates first prior to what happened...

Will a relationship be more healthy or so called normal if sexual activities are done only after being together?

Discuss:

Relationship Problem. Help..

theprobe — Tue, 01 Nov 2011 14:20:03 +0800

My problem: I do not have the trust that my gf will be loyal to me and I think somehow or rather I have lost my respect for her too.

The story: Before me and my gf are together in this relationship, both of us were acquaintances for almost two years. It was not until a few months ago that we started communicating via sms and going out one-on-one for dinners and movies. During that initial stage, it was always her whom initiate sms contacts with me and was also the one whom asked me out on our first date. After our second date, she started to give hints that she likes me and misses me. During that time I was still not really interested in her. But on the 5th date, we had sex. Before we did it, she asked me if I want to be her bf and while we were doing it she asked me again to be her bf and said that she love me (I think definitely she said that she loves me in the passion of the moment). After the sex, she asked me to be her bf again but I was hesitant and informed her that I needed some time to think about it.

So I spent almost 1 and a half weeks (I did not meet her during that time) to make my decision and decided to go into a relationship with her. She is of course happy about it. But one thing that was not stated in the beginning of our relationship was that we need to inform each other on where we are going if we are not meeting each other up. This proved to be a mistake as on the 3rd day of us being in a relationship, I caught her going out with a guy after work. She was surprised that I was there to pick her up as I did not inform her. So she told me that she will go out with that guy for only 1hr to discuss something. I was so pissed and I smsed her that I want to end the relationship with her while she was in the discussion with her friend. She replied to all my smses promptly and beg for me to see her. I wanted to go home but she came over and explained to me on what her discussion were about.

From that day onwards, my trust on her is gone but I decided to give her another chance. Of course there were times when I felt really happy when I am with her. She tells me all the time that she loves me and misses me. Most of the time she will be the one doing the smsing and calling. She knows that I do not trust her but she still wants to continue with the relationship and make it work. Recently, I have been angry with her very easily and on every occasion she said sorry and told me she is afraid that I might dump her and keeps on telling me she is afraid of losing me. We have been going out almost everyday. On days she did not go out she stayed at home. But when her relatives are here in KL, she is quite busy and I got the nagging feeling that she might be using relatives as an excuse to go out with other people.

So the ultimate reason for me to lose my respect for her is that she had sex with me before we go into a relationship. It makes me feel like she is so easy and since she is so easy, I dont find her trustworthy that she will not cheat.

What shall I do?? Sorry for the long story..