http://forum.lowyat.net/ Sun, 28 Jun 2026 19:37:33 +0800 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/2839227 I&#39;ve been with my bf for 5 years and we&#39;re planning to get married end of this year.<br />For the past few months, we&#39;ve been busy planning our wedding. Everything seemed normal, until last week, i was using his handphone and noticed that he calls this girl B very frequently (she&#39;s third on his favourite list). When i asked him about it, he said that B is just a colleague of his good friend, and they chat every now and then. So i told him that i am not opposed to him having female friends but he should maybe introduce us so that i will feel more comfortable about it. He appeared to be understanding about it. <br /><br />A week later, i checked his phone hoping that she would be lower on the favourite list hierarchy after my talk with him. However, i found that he is still calling and messaging her frequently&#33; I was upset, and confronted him about it. Instead of pacifying me, he said there was nothing going on with them and instead he got upset with me for checking his phone. He just left without giving me any explanation. Now I feel so disappointed and lost. To me, it&#39;s clear that he should be providing explanation, but the way he looked at me was like i was in the wrong and launched a cold war. On one side, i feel angry with him but on the other, i wonder if i was overly posessive by checking his phone. What should i do?<br /><br />P/S: before this, i have seen him sending flirtatious messages to other girls before. yellowz Cupid&#39;s Corner Thu, 06 Jun 2013 15:47:24 +0800