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What should I do

Yoru No Hikari — Tue, 30 Jul 2013 13:16:01 +0800

I dunno if u guys remember me the girl who easily will get panic attack whenever she been surrounding by guys...
Well as I slowly taking ur guys advice... I met with few guy friends and be friend with them..I become more friendlier and not thinking much whenever I'm going out with them..I'm still feeling awkward with certain situation but slowly try my best overcome the feeling..

So, lately I realize I become more observant towards one my guy friend where actually before this I'm not taking much attention towards him but when I'm started working with him he made me feel respect towards him. He very knowledgeable, nice and kind toward other colleague. Got a very good work etiquette which is very important for me bcoz his working with me and never troubled me with pending work.

One day, one of my family relative pass away and he send me condolence message and he said he will take over my job when I'm on my leave. Out of all my colleague his the only one sending me that message. I feel so touch but I don't want to misunderstand his kindness. As I remember his not showing any interest towards me he just treat me like other colleagues i think.

CASE1:

I wanted to approach him but i fear rejected. It's not that I head over the heels towards him but I think we can be compatible with each other because we got similar interest and his lifestyle also simple like me. Until now I still cannot figure out why he still not married despite he already reach mid 30s.

CASE2:

I have another issue where I think one of my colleague maybe like me but i dun want to be perasan. His difference from the first guy, where his quiet bold showing his affection. He will totally show full attention whenever I talk to him and he will try his best to talk with me whenever he got chance. But, I always give him cold shoulder as his age as same as my younger brother it's quiet difficult for me to treat him like a man. I see him like younger brother although he never call me kakak at all whenever he talk to me.

Am i giving attention to the wrong man or maybe I misunderstood both guys attention towards me

UPDATED: I'M MARRIED WITH THE FIRST GUY...

CASE SOLVED...

Water Bank Essence

Yoru No Hikari — Mon, 09 Jan 2012 17:50:05 +0800

Currently I'm using Laneige Waterbank Essence, I like to find other brand maybe a little bit cheaper but will give same effect like Laneige.
Laneige product quiet expensive but seriously it really give a good effect for my skin. I've neva felt my skin look radiant until I meet laneige when i visiting Korea last year .. meet the sleeping pack mask and water bank essence really give the magic to my skin..

But, I would like to open for suggestion because my waterbank essence getting finish and I think laneige quiet pricy for me at malaysia unless i live at seoul it will be diff situation..

How to start a conversation

Yoru No Hikari — Tue, 29 Nov 2011 17:54:12 +0800

OK I'm Back with another problem..please dun bored with me..
Because my problem earlier about panic attack .. i think i really got a good advice from all of u here.. and i'm slowly overcome my issued..thanx a lot..

If i try to approached a guy how should i said other than "Hi"..what next...?? i become blank in front him.. or if got guy approaching me..after he said Hi, i only can smile..then when he start do the talking yeah i can follow the flow..i can answer all his question but i cannot prolong the conversation..after a while it will become a very boring meeting..oh what shud i do..

in my mind only got this word..

HI, boleh berkenalan..then _________fill in the blank_______ oh i'm so noob..

Panic Attack

Yoru No Hikari — Fri, 15 Jul 2011 14:48:57 +0800

My big problem until now that blocking me from having a boyfriend i have problem deal with a guy.

I can not talk to them face to face..i can not walk at the crowd full with a guy..

If any guy approach me to ask my name i will just give my name then i run..

I only have a few guy friends but friend always be friend can not cross that boundaries..

At one time i just wanted my family to arrange meeting with other guys if they want me to get married..

It was so difficult for me to start a conversation with a guy..

Until when i see all my friend getting married one by one i'm in dilemma.. i try to approach my best fren like what i said earlier it was difficult .. i have feeling towards him but it look like he just treat me as a friend...

i wanted to find a boyfriend so that i can get married..but with this kind of issues it looks too impossible for me to achieve that..