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If PH wins, I will...

justforly — Thu, 12 Apr 2018 04:11:59 +0800

If PH wins, I will ________________

KLCC kena chopped

justforly — Sun, 08 Apr 2018 23:49:17 +0800

Left only reflection ... kesian

Why jibby hates KLCC?

Inb4 KLCC mamak punya

page 17 of BN Manifesto booklet 2018

Pic Available at Jibby site https://www.najibrazak.com/bm/manifesto-pru14/tn50/

https://therakyat.com/wp-content/uploads/20...egaraKu-ENG.pdf
>>> PDF of 220 pages

Haha how true?

justforly — Thu, 20 Oct 2016 20:07:47 +0800

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It says me all over it. Got hitched almost immediately after dropping the 5'10"

Any guys compromised looks/boob size for your "soul mate"? 😆

Malaysia famous liao

justforly — Fri, 22 Jul 2016 20:05:30 +0800

Make me crave for donuts damn

Is it possible for non-Muslim to marry Muslim

justforly — Wed, 15 Apr 2015 00:58:32 +0800

is there any exceptional case at all?

I think I just attended one wedding of hb's colleague, Malay Muslim (Malaysian) who married an American mat salleh, and was quite sure he didn't convert as his family is strictly Catholic.

Do you feel bad if you are the reason your bf/gf

justforly — Tue, 03 Mar 2015 12:23:44 +0800

I just found out recently that my fiance wasn't single when he started dating me. Which I always thought he was.

And, he "forgot" to dump her as well, just went on date me, move in with me, and then propose to me.

I also found out - she went around scolding me bf stealer, taking opportunity of the relationship in a fragile state, banning me to attend any events, party and outings if there r her mutual friends - now this explained a lot why am I excluded from all the invites... just found out now! All the friends has been really "cooperative" in keeping the disaster the ex tried to stir in the dark (LOL?)

Anyway it does feels like shit. Can I confess and tell my fiance I really don't like this kinda handling? It's very irresponsible and cowardly. It's not that I very pity the ex do not get a proper closure, and got dumped without even being told. I just suddenly realized what kinda man I engaged to, and going to marry. Worse case scenarip, One day, he may do that to me too?

Did his bestfriend just spoiled it all!?!?!

justforly — Thu, 06 Nov 2014 13:36:28 +0800

Now I can't stop thinking about it... I'm happy, at the same time scared.

I am on a business trip for a whole month, now it's the week #2 without him.

He planned a little vacation of 5d4n for us when my work is finished here, and meet at the airport of that vacation location.

Then we will fly to my hometown where he will be meeting my parents, yi ma gu jeh (relatives ) etc etc

His best friend, my friend, the friend that introduced us... SPILLED THE NEWS TO ME that he is looking on buying rings, and propose to me at the vacation.

Then share the news to my family later when we got there, and of course, officially ask my mom & dad for my hands. - Of course, this supposed to be a surprise!!!

Now I can't stop thinking about it, and I'm going crazy, I even started to look at wedding photography and songs to play on a wedding day I CAN'T HELP IT

At the same time... WHAT IF HE CHANGE HIS MIND? and treat it like a normal vacations? I never has this lack of confident feeling about our relationship until this moment...

And which day of that vacation he's gonna propose? And how??? so if Day 5 no proposal means he cancels it? And I'd be thinking what have I done wrong and what's going wrong with our r/s???

I feel like beating that friend to death now, he's too lucky I'm not in town... argh...

I will be reported back if my bf really really made up his mind or maybe they just got drunk over some bar and that's what he thought he heard him said.

no matter how "practical" & "down-to-earth"

justforly — Wed, 08 Oct 2014 21:12:32 +0800

my bf loves me because of my down-to-earth lifestyle and practical attitude

instead of a posh girly car, luxury designer shoes & handbags... I rather park my money in property investments, some good return rate fixed bonds, good dividend and stable shares on the stock market, drive a decent japanese car and only timeless fashion & good quality clothing & minimum accessories, minimalist.

our dates used to be great food without burn a hole in the pockets, great deals & offers, spoiled ourselves once in a while with the newest additional member to our home, the 55" 4k Ultra-HD TV... Now that we have a place of our own, instead of ripped off fancy restaurants we got ourselves some gourmet groceries and always have our little gourmet candle lights dinner at home...

we also have our quiet me-time, tapping on each others' gadgets/devices checking our facebook and surfing our own interests, gossips with our own group of friends, girls and buddies.

now when he wanted to give me gifts or something, it always be something like, add my name to his pension fund, or the house his parents going to give him, or buy me some shares he thinks very good and stable investment, or a piece of furniture i really like and will enjoy together with him (like that TV)...

HOW... to hint or talk to my man, that, afterall I'm still a lady, ... very girly deep inside, doesn't have to add my name into what property, just surprise me with a bunch of 10-bucks-on-offer roses from Tesco sometime... and still will do a proper proposal with a ring and all... text me randomly with sweet messages and saying I love You ---- after being "misunderstood" by him that I am his best buddy in the world that has everything in common, and not even have pms signs monthly (yea my menstrual cycle kinda being quite kind to me, no severe pms or serious cramps etc) then... yet... my gender fitted his sexual-orientation to be his life partner as well?

well he used have to do many of those little thing to his exes, and very frequently, and for him that is defined as "hard to please", "high maintenance" (not just finance but the details and attentions needed), and "my exes , they r hardwork" will he leaves me if he found out I also has traits like that, am i asking too much (ah but i have not asked)

and when come to this thing... how do u ask/hint your partner of your needs ....its weird to say, "hey buy me flowers u numpty, it's on offer, 10 bucks only at tesco", or, "text me sweet messages!" "Say I Love You, Daily!" etc etc

I am wondering, next time anniversary, birthday or christmas... will he just write me a check or give me cash instead... or tell me, buy and come claim your budget:$XXX ---hope not!

Man steals, cooks ex-girlfriend’s dog, feeds it

justforly — Tue, 23 Sep 2014 21:14:06 +0800

Tuesday September 23, 2014 MYT 7:14:37 PM
Man steals, cooks ex-girlfriend’s dog, feeds it to her

http://www.thestar.com.my/Lifestyle/Featur...eeds-it-to-her/

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It was supposed to be a reconciliation dinner for the troubled couple, but he decided to serve revenge instead.

Ryan Watenpaugh, 34, of Palo Cedro, California, was arrested on Sept 11 and charged with counts of domestic violence, false imprisonment, stalking and cruelty to animals, according to records from the Shasta County Jail.

Watenpaugh’s ex-girlfriend, who is not named by authorities, called Redding Police Department on Sept 9 and reported being stalked by Watenpaugh, says the police. Redding is roughly 257km northwest of Sacramento.

The ex-girlfriend told law enforcement officials that her relationship with Watenpaugh was punctuated by bouts of domestic violence, but the two attempted to reconcile their problems last week over a meal that he cooked.
Sicko: Ryan Watenpaugh (L) who allegedly killed and cooked Bear, a Pomeranian that belonged to his ex-girlfriend, which he then served to her.

Following the meal, which contained meat, Watenpaugh sent her text messages asking how her dog tasted, says police. A few days later, he left a bag on her porch that contained two dog paws.

The victim’s dog, a Pomeranian named Bear, had been missing since August after she fled the apartment to escape one of Watenpaugh’s assaults, says police. During the police interview with Watenpaugh, he admitted to menacing her and leaving the paws on her porch, but denied killing or cooking the animal.

While executing a search warrant on his house, authorities found an AK-47 assault rifle and several high capacity magazines. Watenpaugh is being held in the Shasta County Jail on US$250,000 bail, according to jail records. It was not clear if he had an attorney. – Reuters

Video of text message sent to gf telling her she eaten her pet dog.

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When do you first tell him/her "I Love You"?

justforly — Wed, 03 Sep 2014 00:09:07 +0800

the three words... or even just Love You. or sign off with Love,

or Xxx (I guess this means I love You)

kinda wanna survey, and discuss how important it is...

quite devastated over a relationship that going to hit 8 months soon, and he has not say he loves me.

He treats me really nice, caring and loving.

I met his parents

We were steady

We talked about the future like marriage and kids, making plans.

But he has not tell me he loves me

When we had a session of "coming clean with our past", I told him mine, he told me his, and we showed those messages and chats between us and our exes, laughed about it, and talked about the mistakes we all made and silly things, laughed bout it and got over... just realized he already said Love You, Name. and Xxx, Name. only after 3 months (or at least that's the record of facebook chat) with his first love, am his second relationship.

is he being more cautious this time , either he do not want to simply say Love You, or he really not yet Love me, just "like" only... and it will still take more time?

some guys told me that they just not the kind that will say I Love You even tho they really Love a girl (WHY???Genetic???) and tell me don't think too much, no big deal, "those who says everyday or easily r players". (but it's really sweet and nice if you say it, text it, type it, write it?!??!)

does it has to be a special occasion to do that? no special occasion close by, his birthday next month

btw call me pantang, feminist, whatever, i'd like the guy say it first. (yes I love him so much but I just can't say it before he did!)

Bf don't want marry but want have babies first

justforly — Tue, 24 Jun 2014 23:01:31 +0800

We were together and very happy

Well some little arguments here and there which we made it up and be lovey dovey again after that

We r like so happy and so right together but since it's only months time we going steady, and recently very official, met his parents, all his friends

Sometime, when watch movies that has engagement , proposal, wedding , or attend our married friends house party , or attend weddings of friends, he will mention about "our wedding" but then he would quickly retract and says yeeeeaaaa too soon thou... Which I think the same

But he wants us to try for a baby as soon as possible, as soon as I say yes and stop contraceptive he keeps on pestering me, and gulp whenever passing by baby dept in mall, and so fond of friend's babies

Totally confuse. Or is this culture shock, he's American born Chinese, one of his friends had a baby before marry , and the baby boy later become the best"man"(baby) at his wedding . So maybe it's normal for him?

Should I tell him frankly that NO way, have to marry me first

Deep down inside am ok, but my parents and family will freak out and , don't know why , altho it's the new era now I still feel ashamed if to have babies before marry, so hard to get pass this feeling

Normally girls should be the one that behave this way in a relationship?

Another thing is am at a career change , I will start a new job , at the process of interview and hiring, definitely cannot be pregnant

Jumping Politicians games coming

justforly — Wed, 26 Feb 2014 21:24:31 +0800

would be nice if got Najib?

Flappy Bird inspired game coming soon

justforly — Tue, 18 Feb 2014 05:12:07 +0800

All thr troubles with house sharing... Come

justforly — Tue, 07 Jan 2014 05:27:54 +0800

Sharing house with 4 other girls in one 4 rooms house, total people on house, 5
3 get single rooms and 2 sharing one room

Rants

Other housemates, always bring guests back stay for days, hogging broadband, and bath so long

One housemate always eat other ppl's supply in the kitchen , not say stingy, but after she ate, then I got left nothing to eat lor...

Eat nvm, cooked using my veg and meat too. Cook nvm, cooking so lousy until she also cannot eat, left there for days till moldy, then ppl ask her still want or not if not then throw , then only throw, and used ppl's bowl and when ppl want use, not being washed , have to wash for her if not got no bowl to use

Never bother to take out the trash even got food thrown inside all the leftover and stuff, throw so many time and keep getting full so fast and no one bother take turns

When do duty rooster, simply do and not even clean using any cleaning product just vacuum

Haihhhhhhh sad

Next yr will move to studio suite, I must........ Tahan

How to not response to booty calls ?

justforly — Thu, 12 Dec 2013 20:13:59 +0800

I guess most of you should know what is a Booty Call, a guy, not serious and no intend for a relationship, but somehow may just like treat you as "Last Resort" or "Spare Tayar" out of loneliness of whatever his reason is. Knowing that. I still cannot get myself out of being his Booty Call... I hate myself so much for it. Sometime , Its really fun being together, but sometime, he just hurt me due to his obviously just want me there due to his boredom, always talked about how he wanted his Princess Charming to be, big boobs, pretty face, from rich family can take care of herself, smart but know when to pretend not too smart when it's needed, must be obedience to him, younger than him at least 5 years (we r same age). Every time he said those thing I sure feel so horrible, and just cannot take it anymore and said "then why r u still find me?" he just like "oh well" not much respond. Every time, I said I will not see him again but when he texts and say "dinner tonight" i cannot help it again... If you ask me why, I don't know, really, he is not rich, when we out for dinner, movie, or show, we AA or we took turn to pay, and I don't mind that. He is not handsome and he is botak. And, please do not say he is good in bed or anything because, i haven't tried that. I don't know why is it spell? He made it clear that he is temporary fooling around while waiting for his scale 8-10 princess charming hence he don't mind a just-passed me. And still I let him treat me like this. I cannot explain.

Swimmer admits cheated during gold-medal rally

justforly — Wed, 08 Aug 2012 00:22:48 +0800

Swimmer admits to breaking the rules during gold-medal performance in London
By: Jason Devaney, NBC OlympicsUpdated: Aug 7, 9:02a ET

LONDON – Men’s 100m breaststroke winner Cameron van der Burgh has admitted to cheating during his victory at the Olympics, which came in world-record time.

In breaststroke, competitors are allowed to take one dolphin kick at the start and one after each turn before starting their breaststroke kick. But with no underwater video judging, swimmers are sometimes able to sneak in an extra dolphin kick – a whip-like motion generated from the hips.

Video replays appear to show van der Burgh taking three of them.

Van der Burgh, who is from South Africa, spoke to the Sydney Morning Herald and admitted to breaking the rules. He also said other swimmers employ the same tactic.

“If you’re not doing it, you’re falling behind,” Van der Burgh told the paper. “It’s not obviously - shall we say - the moral thing to do, but I’m not willing to sacrifice my personal performance and four years of hard work for someone that is willing to do it and get away with it.”

This is not the first time the dolphin kick issue has surfaced in breaststroke races. Silver medalist Brenton Rickard appeared to use dolphin kicks at the start last week, and at the 2011 World Championships, 50m breaststroke winner Felipe Silva used a dolphin kick at the finish.

In the Sydney Morning Herald story, Van der Burgh said there was underwater video technology used at a meet in Sweden in 2010.

“‘It was really awesome, because nobody attempted it,” van der Burgh said. “Everybody came up clean and we all had peace of mind that nobody was going to try.”

Although there’s no way for FINA to review the race at this point and make adjustments to the finishing order, there is some precedent from the IOC to do so. Eight badminton players were kicked out of the Olympics last week after they were accused of deliberately not trying during matches to give themselves a lower seed in the later rounds – effectively securing an easier trip to the finals.

Just like the badminton case, the van der Burgh incident is a fair play issue. Since the race happened over a week ago, however, it’s looking less and less likely that the IOC will take any action.

What’s more realistic is that FINA could revisit their policy of not using video review. With only judges along the pool deck to look for illegal kicks and strokes, that’s probably not enough. Especially when the Olympic champion admits to breaking the rules.

http://www.nbcolympics.com/news-blogs/blog...-in-london.html

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justforly — Fri, 05 Aug 2011 22:20:17 +0800

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what to wear on 1st date?!?! for girl

justforly — Mon, 06 Jun 2011 21:03:58 +0800

hm... it will probably be a coffee session at a quiet cafe

skirt + blouse
dress > trying too hard?
jeans + t-shirt (probably not)
shorts/capri with a shirt

???