How to win my ex-girlfriend heart back?

dark_evil18 — Sat, 03 Jul 2010 23:48:19 +0800

Ok guys, let me tell you my story first..

My girlfriend and me already built our relationship for almost 3 years. She just broke up with me precisely a week ago and it's been hard for me until now. The reasons behind all of this broke up thing are because of:
1. Long Distance (I've already LDR with her for almost a year, I'm in malaysia and she in china),
2. Communication (We have less communication recently around 2-3 months),
3. Serious Relationship (She is not sure where our relationship will go in the future)

After she broke up with me, I've a plan to win her heart back. Since we are in long distance and usually we only talk in msn / sms, seldom using phone, I'm thinking of having a real talk with her (face to face). She already planning a trip to hongkong later on mid of July and I'm thinking to go there to surprise her and maybe had a talk on the end of the trip (why at the end? because I don't want simply straight away had a talk with her when I met her there, if her answer is no then the rest of the trips will become awkward and I don't want that), right now I'm thinking of what I need to do when I met her there. btw, I already buy airplane ticket to go there so of course I'll be going there.

First of all, she will be there with her friends around 5-6 person including her for 3-4 days and I'll be there 1 day ahead. I'm planning to surprise her on her first day there, maybe around night, I'll be just showing up.. (how I met her? as coincidence her roommate is my friend from college) and on the second day I'm thinking of giving her box of chocolate and flowers, the third day I want to take her to disneyland and then at night when there will be a fireworks in there, I'll start talking with her and ask her to be my lover again. I will promise her to communicate with her more, discuss with our relationship, etc. If this really work out I'm thinking to give her more surprise. When she celebrate her birthday later on around september, I'll be coming to her hometown from malaysia to indonesia and surprise her there. I'm thinking to celebrate this with her parents also. I need to think mature from now on and built our relationship.

I've already talk with my friends and some of them are thinking this is a good idea, but some are not. I need opinion from you guys about this, about the idea I had whether is it good or not, if possible you may give me some idea how to impress my ex-girlfriend and win her heart back so she want to be with me again. thanks guys..

QUOTE(Update 1)

right now the condition is like this:
Since we broke up, I already hopeless but I come back from life and I believe there is still hope for me. so what I do? I built our relationship again by start message her every morning and night, on afternoon usually I ask her what she's doing, don't forget to eat her lunch, etc2. I called her every night asking how is she and chat a bit. Until 4th day after the broke up, she asked me to stop calling her and I respect her wish. then in 7th day, she asked me to stop sms her every morning also since last time I seldom sms her every morning and still I respect it. But I still sms her every afternoon and sometimes in night and morning, I just reduce the frequenciness. In all of the message I send to her, sometimes I got reply from her, sometimes are not. But I still keep contact her, I just don't want to break our communication.

Notebook Asus K50 charging problem

dark_evil18 — Mon, 13 Jul 2009 15:16:17 +0800

well, its my friend's laptop problem, I just trying to help.. anyway here it is..

my friend yesterday at sunday going to lowyat and decide to buy asus K50 because of the nice spec and design with affordable price.. then he go back home and charge it for a whole night (need to do so if first time using the laptop CMIIW).. this morning when he woke up and want to try turn on the computer, it didnt want to turn on, but the ac adapter is on (got small led).. but when use battery it can turn on but still not charging.. but last night the laptop was charging..

what problem it might occur then? AC adapter problem?

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dark_evil18 — Tue, 26 May 2009 15:19:23 +0800

hi mate, I got this problem in antivirus.. last month I buy original kaspersky internet security and want to install it in my laptop.. but suddenly got problem saying that I need to uninstall the mcafee antivirus, but I already uninstall it.. I check with add/remove program also mcafee not there anymore, but everytime I want to install kaspersky, this probelm always occured.. so anyone can help me?

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