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can't get over cheating bf

young heart OL — Sun, 17 Apr 2011 17:33:31 +0800

last time, i wrote about how my bf cheating me, anyway, he comes back to me for many reasons, and we works fine. going to be 4 years soon.
his email still has my name there.
Recently, found his hp still have the girl's sms, like saying how hurt she is. i feel like want to slap her. my bf ady leave her, why still want to make my bf think of you sometimes.

i try being cool to my bf, because i know in this situation, i should not same as the younger girl who only know how to cry, beg for my bf attention. But i don't know will it work? I found out my bf changed the content of his blog from my friend yesterday, she told me previous content is about the girl, is this good sign?

I think i have to find more ways to attract him back. Giving him second chance, but really hope he will appreciate me. my age doesn't wait.

Risks of Having Pregnancy at High Age

young heart OL — Sun, 27 Mar 2011 11:14:44 +0800

I am 30 years old woman and having relationship with a younger guy, thinking of after he finished up his education, we get married and give borth. But I would like to know wat the risk of having pregnancy at the age of 34 or 35. infertility? Having child of down syndrome ? thanks.

Trust the man's words?

young heart OL — Sat, 19 Mar 2011 00:33:20 +0800

My english is not good, sorry for my broken english

My bf and I hav 8 years difference and soon I become 30, he is student. My friends saw him flirting with a girl in his college and they said to me this girl and my bf are couples before I find out. I scolded him and the girl, he promise me to break up with her. He say that girl finds him first, not his fault. He say the girl is give her many burdens so only be with her. I ignore him and it is hard to let go the relationship. He and I together for 4 years, go through many things. We also slept together before. He gave me bouquet of flowers and watch on valentine and say will appreciate me. We together back after valentine day but I feel insecure. Many people tell me he loves that girl, but that girl refuse to be with him after I scold her in front him. Some tell me he slept with the girl when they are couples. I asked him and he said that are dirty tactics others play to break our relationship bond. I bother about my age too, hard to find better guy if I let go him. Should I believe him ?