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Need advice

Extreme108 — Sun, 11 Sep 2016 00:29:10 +0800

Me and A have been dating for 2 years plus, sometimes when I asked her stuffs regarding her family, she usually gives me this "I dunno" reply, all the time.
She is from another state, and I am from KL. She's working and living in KL.
I asked her how many cars does she have at home incl parents, a normal person would usually say 3 or 2 well since she has 7 family members. I need to like keep asking her only I can get to know. And don't mention about what kind of cars they have. Took me hard enough to keep telling her to be frank with me on this small matter.

Next, when we started dating she told me her mom is very strict person and since I'm her bf, she'll be strict on me, ask me what plans I have for future, rich or not, drive what car, mind you I was only a student that time. But once I met her mom, she was very friendly and not at all like what she described.

And so there comes a time, when my family, me and my gf was having a dinner, so a simple question popped up from my dad which was "How many worker does your dad have ?" . Well, I can see she starts to count, brought up her hands, and then changed her mind saying "Not sure" , basically I dunno. I mean it's just a general question right, plus her father is not doing something illegal.

Been in a dilemma for a long time but everytime when I talked to her about this, there's bound to be an argument, so I kept letting it go.

Insights anyone ?

Kiddy attitude

Extreme108 — Mon, 19 May 2014 00:09:09 +0800

Is there any ways of dealing with kiddy attitude of a girl ? I've been dating this girl for like half a year already , and every single time when I did something wrong which I don't realise I'll get the silent treatment from her and I'll have to take the initiative to ask her best friend on what happened .
Why can't she just talk to me face to face , and tell me not to do it rather than keeping it silent .

Next , I've read through some of the topics this one caught my attention . "She would generally try to find any fault with me and always needed reassurance from me which I believe i did but it was never good enough." I need to like assure her like almost everyday telling her that I was single and never had girlfriend before because why , she said I look like a playboy( means in the past dated and flirted with alot of girls) . However in another scenario, she told me I'm "ugly" , "short" and does not match(tall , handsome , smart, rich) with her other admirers which she ignores most of time .
Note that her facebook has like just around 130+ friends . At first I thought it might be true since she's saying that alot of admirers are chasing after her but one fine day , she left her phone open and I checked her facebook and I saw a totally unpredicted messages between him and a guy(which she had a crush on which was a year ago) . That guy totally shunned her , as he feels that she's stalking him . And I was like LOL yet she said she has alot of admirers . I doubt so .

Then , it even came to a point that my confidence was even affected saying no girls would like me as I'm short , not handsome , dark , not smart and not rich .
There was once I cried inside my heart , feels like shattered , it's like I lost my self-worth . In truth , I'm not short , I'm just around average height , not that dark , and just a average student , rich or not I'm just average yet we went out to like so many shopping centres during the weekedns to walk around and for every meal I paid for both of us .

What are your thoughts ?

Selling my collection

Extreme108 — Fri, 24 May 2013 20:25:16 +0800

Item(s): SH Figuarts by Bandai
Package includes: Figures with accessories (all intact)
Price: Check figure !
Warranty: None
Dealing method: Postage
Contact method/details: PM me
Age of item: Few years back but still untouched

I'm a SH Figuarts Collector and SIC (soon to be) ! A heavy one .
I'm planning on downsizing on my collections mainly Kamen Riders and Super Sentai , so if you're interested pm me !
Negotiations are welcomed
All are new MISB mostly with brown boxes unless stated
Buy more can nego more !
No pictures as they're not with me at the time .
Please do offer me your price

W series
Red Nasca - RM 220
Weather Dopant (PM price)

OOO series
UvaGreeed - RM 220

Den O series
G Den O - RM 220
Diend Complete - RM 200

The First
Cyclone bike - RM 125

Shinkenger (Take all offer RM 800)
Shinken Blue
Shinken Green
Shinken Pink
Shinken Yellow

Help me

Extreme108 — Thu, 15 Dec 2011 15:00:38 +0800

Hi everyone , so there was this day , I came back from a shopping center and my friend we name it as AX called me. AX was a businessman and was selling something .

So , he called me , and asked me whether can I go on that particular day to get the item , before this I message-ed him asking him whether is he going or not and he said he's attending on Sunday . I did not say I'll be attending , I'm just asking whether will he go .

So , he called me and ask me confirm or not , I said I maybe cant go , and then he said all those words ''go la'' , ''walao'' , ''cannot like this la'' , ''u promised'' , and the problem is I did not promised at all I'm just asking whether is he going or not . I did not say that I'm going .

And of course I did reject him . But still to no avail . He could pester me till I cant think of anything to say , plus he said there's few ppl going on that day so that's why he's going and if less ppl going he's not attending , because his house from the place is quite ''far'' , mind you its only in KL . Plus , he gave alot of excuses like tol fees , parking fees , oil , time .

Now , how do you reject offer from this type of ppl , this happened too sudden , I cant think of any word to say . After the conversation only I'm able to think of what to say . Why are these ppl like that .

My message clearly stated that I'm just asking not confirmed .