http://forum.lowyat.net/ Mon, 13 Jul 2026 02:44:41 +0800 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/1748815 I would like to participate in charity activities. Any charity organisation situated at Bandar Sunway? Please provide website and contact. Thanks. DeeperBlue LYN Charity Foundation Thu, 10 Feb 2011 17:11:50 +0800 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/1747919 Here&#39;s an issue about two of my best friends (Ben and Janet) who got married 2 years ago, and they are both 35 years old, childless. I have been very busy with my work, so it came to mind, perhaps it would be a great idea to share with you their issue and please do tell me about your sincere advice. I need your advice so I have something to tell when it comes to my turn to advise Ben.<br /><br />Problem: Janet wanted a child ever since she got married, but Ben has been an ignorance for the past TWO years. Janet insisted I should help to advise Ben as he no longer listen to her.<br /><br />About Janet: Janet graduated with an overseas degree, and has been the breadwinner of the family. She earns RM 6,000.<br /><br />About Ben: Ben graduated with a local diploma, perhaps he would have failed miserably if not the help he received from Janet on assignments and revision. Ben earns RM 1,500. Ben&#39;s father is odd job worker, while his mother is a housewife. Thus, Ben must support his parents (about RM300 per month). With the pathetic salary, Janet advises Ben to improve himself, and look for better job, but to no avail. Ben could not secure any new jobs for more than a year. <br /><br />Consequence: Janet and Ben quarrel over trivial matters. Ben never wants a baby. However, Janet is already 35 years old&#33;<br /><br />Question: Ben should understand his responsibility as the man of a family, his responsibility to bring home the bacon (money), so that the family could have a stable source income. According to Janet, they could not have a baby because of their limited saving, and Ben earns not much. Now, Janet&#39;s age is catching up. How would you advise Ben?<br /><br />Note: I understood Janet and Ben have a high combined salary of RM 7,500, but let&#39;s assume that they have very limited savings due to some issue, and the focus is how should I advise Ben. DeeperBlue Cupid&#39;s Corner Wed, 09 Feb 2011 22:27:28 +0800