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            <title>Nikon 50mm 1.8D VS 1.8G</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/3290511</link>
            <description>Greetings.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I&amp;#39;m a newbie in photography. Sifus please help me on this.</description>
            <author>3ightDim3sion</author>
            <category>Photography, Digital Imaging &amp;amp; Video</category>
            <pubDate>Tue, 15 Jul 2014 19:26:10 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>God Car Vios</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/3197923</link>
            <description>A colleague of mine trade in her 2009 Vios S for a new Honda CRV. It&amp;#39;s kinda amazing she can actually trade her car in for RM50K++. I mean for a car that long and that price. Wow...&lt;br /&gt;I know Toyota RV not bad, but I never expect it to be that good.</description>
            <author>3ightDim3sion</author>
            <category>The Museum Of Kopitiam</category>
            <pubDate>Fri, 18 Apr 2014 20:26:16 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>Unifi users kambing</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/3155224</link>
            <description>Any idea when will they start imposing quota?</description>
            <author>3ightDim3sion</author>
            <category>The Museum Of Kopitiam</category>
            <pubDate>Sat, 08 Mar 2014 17:48:37 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>Why Kia/Hyundai resale value so bad?</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/3144828</link>
            <description>I&amp;#39;m thinking of buying a new car. Was gonna get Kia Cerato, but a friend of mine told me Kia resale value very bad. He sold his forte at a great loss. &lt;!--emo&amp;:(--&gt;&lt;img src='http://static.lowyat.net/style_emoticons/default/sad.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='sad.gif' /&gt;&lt;!--endemo--&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Kia/Hyundai design now so nice. How come resale value so bad? Toyota design so so but resale value so much better. &lt;!--emo&amp;:hmm:--&gt;&lt;img src='http://static.lowyat.net/style_emoticons/default/hmm.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='hmm.gif' /&gt;&lt;!--endemo--&gt;</description>
            <author>3ightDim3sion</author>
            <category>The Museum Of Kopitiam</category>
            <pubDate>Wed, 26 Feb 2014 22:08:37 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>Am I thinking too much?</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/3125921</link>
            <description>Finally got over a crappy LDR 2 years ago. Never thought of dating anyone at the moment. Yet.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But, I met this one girl in a 1 week company assigned training. We were in the same group and I was the team leader. Ok, I&amp;#39;m gonna admit she&amp;#39;s adorable and smart, but I&amp;#39;ve never thought of her more than just my teammate. She&amp;#39;s quiet and I&amp;#39;m not really paying much attention to her because it was a hectic training program. We never really talked to each other except whatever related to the day-to-day training activities. Upon finishing the training, we had lunch together with some other friends before I left KL. (I&amp;#39;m based in Sabah)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After finish the training, out of nowhere, she whatsapp-ed me. I was quite surprise because she&amp;#39;s not really a highly sociable person. We had a whatsapp group. She rarely reply in the group. Some of the participants of the training texted her and whatsapp-ed her too, but I don&amp;#39;t think she replied. At first it was normal chat, eventually getting more friendly, started teasing each others and joking. But not the lovey-dovey stage. Once in a while we exchange motivational pictures and quotes. Eventually we both got busy with our work, so we contact less. But still, she&amp;#39;ll find me like few times in a week. and she&amp;#39;s the initiator most of the time. OK, I&amp;#39;m just an ass because i don&amp;#39;t reply whatsapp at work and I usually finish my work late, so just a few short replies then I&amp;#39;m off Zzz...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She said she&amp;#39;s planning to fly to sabah to find me too and looking forward to my next trip to KL. I&amp;#39;m confused. Am I thinking too much? Or does she had thing on me? Is it like some sort of hint? Or am I overreacting? What do you all think?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And yes, she&amp;#39;s the type of girl I&amp;#39;ll fall in love with. But at the moment, Not yet.</description>
            <author>3ightDim3sion</author>
            <category>Cupid&amp;#39;s Corner</category>
            <pubDate>Sun, 09 Feb 2014 22:23:52 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>Convert from celcom to digi</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/3091105</link>
            <description>Anyone with experience before? Share2 la..&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;</description>
            <author>3ightDim3sion</author>
            <category>The Museum Of Kopitiam</category>
            <pubDate>Mon, 06 Jan 2014 20:18:20 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>My problem</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/3085458</link>
            <description>Hello,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I got out of a LDR 2 years back. I think I&amp;#39;m over her and ready for a new one. Friends around been introducing some to me. I can really connect with some of them and I really like some of them. But half way through I will lose the will to continue. Stop texting, stop chatting etc. No idea what&amp;#39;s wrong. Maybe I&amp;#39;m constantly looking for reason not to be in a relationship after the lousy one last time. Sigh...</description>
            <author>3ightDim3sion</author>
            <category>Cupid&amp;#39;s Corner</category>
            <pubDate>Wed, 01 Jan 2014 21:09:41 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>Tell us about your worst roommate experience ever</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/2734051</link>
            <description>I believe most of you share room/house before. So, what&amp;#39;s your worst roommate/housemate experience you ever face?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My worst roommate:&lt;br /&gt;-Talking on phone as if nobody&amp;#39;s in the house.&lt;br /&gt;-Childish, stupid talk with his dumb GF who seemed to believe everything. ( I&amp;#39;m gonna buy you this and that but the fact is everything he got is given by parents )&lt;br /&gt;-Hamsap lvl over 99999. My room is full of condoms and lubes.&lt;br /&gt;-He got few scandal&amp;#39;s dress and bra on his bed. (WTF??)&lt;br /&gt;-Always on speaker loudly even though I&amp;#39;m sleeping.&lt;br /&gt;-Very messy and untidy person.&lt;br /&gt;-I believe he brought back some random sluts. ( I found used condom in the room&amp;#39;s dustbin )&lt;br /&gt;-Never initiates to clean the room.&lt;br /&gt;-Super annoying and attention seeker.&lt;br /&gt;-Always doing last minute works and spoiling my sleep.&lt;br /&gt;-His annoying alarm, he never wakes up to it, but definitely spoil my morning.&lt;br /&gt;-Use my stuff without my permission.&lt;br /&gt;-Smokes in the room&lt;br /&gt;-etc&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How bout you guys?</description>
            <author>3ightDim3sion</author>
            <category>The Museum Of Kopitiam</category>
            <pubDate>Wed, 13 Mar 2013 01:43:29 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>Please help to respond to my Survey</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/2611446</link>
            <description>Hello everyone,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I&amp;#39;m doing a research and project on how we can use mobile application to monitor daily electricity usage and how this application can help to promote energy efficiency and raise awareness among the society towards energy conservation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Would really appreciate your few minutes time to respond to my short survey below. Thank you&amp;#33;&amp;#33; &lt;!--emo&amp;:clap:--&gt;&lt;img src='http://static.lowyat.net/style_emoticons/default/rclxms.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='rclxms.gif' /&gt;&lt;!--endemo--&gt;  &lt;!--emo&amp;:clap:--&gt;&lt;img src='http://static.lowyat.net/style_emoticons/default/rclxms.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='rclxms.gif' /&gt;&lt;!--endemo--&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href='https://docs.google.com/spreadsheet/viewform?formkey=dGliN3d1N1BJRkMzQkRwQ3h5XzBQTnc6MQ' target='_blank'&gt;https://docs.google.com/spreadsheet/viewfor...wQ3h5XzBQTnc6MQ&lt;/a&gt;</description>
            <author>3ightDim3sion</author>
            <category>The Museum Of Kopitiam</category>
            <pubDate>Sun, 02 Dec 2012 12:15:01 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>Our first android application</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/2458935</link>
            <description>Hello everyone,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I&amp;#39;m a newbie to this page as well as android developments. Me and my friends (as a team) are developing a mobile learning application for children called &lt;span style='font-size:14pt;line-height:100%'&gt;&lt;span style='color:green'&gt;EinScience4+&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; as our project. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Basically it is a mobile game, designed to encourage and assist young children to learn and discover the wonder of Science. Beautiful and cute graphics, animations, as well as sound effects are used to make this application more interesting.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Would appreciate your downloads, support and recommendations to encourage us to continue learning and expanding our android development knowledge. Please help us to spread this application.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thank you so much.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Link:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href='https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=tony.ttp.EinScience&amp;feature=search_result#?t=W251bGwsMSwxLDEsInRvbnkudHRwLkVpblNjaWVuY2UiXQ' target='_blank'&gt;https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?...blNjaWVuY2UiXQ&lt;/a&gt;..&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Please type &amp;quot;Einscience&amp;quot; on Google Play.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Any comment please email us at einsciencedevelopment@gmail.com&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;P.S. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For ICS and JB, please upgrade your flash player to version 11.1.115.12 following the below link:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href='https://docs.google.com/open?id=0B7r4dg0vuQ2dMVhZcm5ZblAtWnM' target='_blank'&gt;https://docs.google.com/open?id=0B7r4dg0vuQ2dMVhZcm5ZblAtWnM&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;this is the only flash release fully working for ics and jb</description>
            <author>3ightDim3sion</author>
            <category>The Museum Of Kopitiam</category>
            <pubDate>Mon, 06 Aug 2012 17:20:21 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>Our first android application</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/2458904</link>
            <description>Hello everyone,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I&amp;#39;m a newbie to this page as well as android developments. Me and my friends (as a team) are developing a mobile learning application for children called &lt;span style='font-size:14pt;line-height:100%'&gt;&lt;span style='color:green'&gt;EinScience4+&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; as our project. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Basically it is a mobile game, designed to encourage and assist young children to learn and discover the wonder of Science. Beautiful and cute graphics, animations, as well as sound effects are used to make this application more interesting.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Would appreciate your downloads, support and recommendations to encourage us to continue learning and expanding our android development knowledge. Please help us to spread this application.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thank you so much.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Link:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href='https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=tony.ttp.EinScience&amp;feature=search_result#?t=W251bGwsMSwxLDEsInRvbnkudHRwLkVpblNjaWVuY2UiXQ' target='_blank'&gt;https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?...blNjaWVuY2UiXQ&lt;/a&gt;..&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[attachmentid=2986281]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Any comment please email us at einsciencedevelopment@gmail.com</description>
            <author>3ightDim3sion</author>
            <category>Android</category>
            <pubDate>Mon, 06 Aug 2012 17:02:23 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>What will 23 years old girls</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/2390433</link>
            <description>Need your opinion on the above subjects.</description>
            <author>3ightDim3sion</author>
            <category>Cupid&amp;#39;s Corner</category>
            <pubDate>Sun, 17 Jun 2012 12:22:52 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>Psycho EX-Girlfriend</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/2334122</link>
            <description>Before I explain anything, I want to state that I&amp;quot;M NOT A PLAYER.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I dated this girl few months back, but I dumped her due to her bad attitudes: &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She smokes and clubs with other guys without me knowing. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Always make ridiculous request like asking me to fetch her home from work. ( It took me 30 minutes to travel to her workplace, 20 minutes to her home, then around 30 minutes back to my home. Petrol is on me too).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Never attempt to pay for anything when we went out. ( Not asking her to pay, but at least show some initiative to pay lar..), she believes itz normal for guys to pay for everything when going on a date. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The way she talk is really a problem. Always use the word like, &amp;quot;go die&amp;quot;, &amp;quot;eat shit&amp;quot;, &amp;quot;CB&amp;quot;etc tad kinda word. Not cursing me, but I still hate the way she use these words a lot.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Always get angry with little stuff like not replying her sms etc.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Simply childish and not understanding.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In front me seemed to be very loyal and obedient, but when I checked her FB, HOLY SHIT. She&amp;#39;s flirting with almost everyone. (I can see her chat history)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like to pretend as if very innocent in front of my friends, but the fact, she&amp;#39;s the devil.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thought she&amp;#39;s the prettiest girl in the whole universe. ( Indeed, she&amp;#39;s pretty ) I hate the way she always say other girls are ugly and fat that kinda stuff. I mean, come on la, ur a girl man...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like to cheat and lie. Once I saw her loitering with her friends at the mall. I sms asked her where is she and she said she&amp;#39;s at home. I hate her friends too. They are just like her. More other stories.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;etc etc. more other negative acts.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, I cannot stand her anymore so I dumped her in January. But in my opinion still can be friend. Once in a while she still find me on FB to chat. I replied her too, because i thought we were friends. But of course, I just replied straight to the point, no belok here and there. So she got pissed and said something like, &amp;quot;OK la, I know U like other girl now, can simply dump me aside la&amp;#33; I&amp;#39;m not tad easy to bully one&amp;#33;&amp;quot;. I just ignore her la and continue my work. I was damn busy tad tym.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Next few day, chat again. Same, i reply short then she got angry and said something like, &amp;quot; I know u dun love me liao&amp;#33; But no need do till so obvious&amp;#33; I understand liao. Wont disturb u anymore. Bye&amp;#33;&amp;quot;. So I thought tads the end, but after few days, she find me again and again. Everytym saying the same thing. I want to block her so much on FB as she&amp;#39;s really psycho-ing me now. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What do you think I shud do?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;**UPDATE**&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After 1 year, after I tell her I can&amp;#39;t take it anymore from her, suddenly this crazy girl find me again. Again with the bullshit attitude. She texted me last night. It goes like this:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;she: Hey, how you doing?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;me: Hi, doing ok. Busy as always. How bout you?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;she: Nothing special. long time din hear from you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;me: Well, I&amp;#39;m really busy lately. Hardly have time to go online sometimes. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5 mins later&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;she: Why do you play with my feeling? What I did and why do I deserve such treatment?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;me: What on earth are you talking about? When did i play with your feeling? I thought we broke up on good terms?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;she: You told me you love last time, but now you seemed annoying just to reply my message. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;me: Well, I think we are not suitable with each other. Honestly, I loved you before, but we are too different. There are things that you just can&amp;#39;t force and pretend.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;she: Do you still remembered that you told me before, no matter what happens, even if we broke up, we will still be friends keeping in touch with each other? I told you I&amp;#39;m an avengeful person but for your sake, I agreed to stay friends. But you didn&amp;#39;t keep your word. You lied to me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;me: Well, aren&amp;#39;t we communicating right now as friend? As friends, there are boundaries, you know? You can&amp;#39;t asked about every single detail of my life. I&amp;#39;m trying hard to keep u as friend, but I found it hard to do so with you keep on accusing me this and that. And what&amp;#39;s with the &amp;quot;I miss you message and don&amp;#39;t look at other girls message from time to time&amp;quot;? You got a bf now, for god&amp;#39;s sake. Honestly, you&amp;#39;re making me suffocating. I find it hard to become friends with you if this persists. That&amp;#39;s not what friends do.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;she: You can say whatever you want and blame me for the failure of our relationship. But I don&amp;#39;t think I deserve such treatment. I&amp;#39;m not satisfied&amp;#33;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;me: What do you want from me? I don&amp;#39;t think I owe you anything anymore. FOR GOD&amp;#39;S SAKE, YOU GOT A BF NOW&amp;#33;&amp;#33;&amp;#33; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;she: I&amp;#39;m not satisfied. I&amp;#39;m NOT&amp;#33;&amp;#33;&amp;#33; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I&amp;#39;m pissed so I stop the conversation.</description>
            <author>3ightDim3sion</author>
            <category>Cupid&amp;#39;s Corner</category>
            <pubDate>Sat, 05 May 2012 20:30:11 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>Which telco offers the cheapest data plan?</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/2214282</link>
            <description>I&amp;#39;m looking for a cheap 1GB data plan just to whatsapp and viber my friend oversea. Which telco provides the most affordable data plan? I&amp;#39;m rili blur on this. &lt;!--emo&amp;:)--&gt;&lt;img src='http://static.lowyat.net/style_emoticons/default/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /&gt;&lt;!--endemo--&gt;</description>
            <author>3ightDim3sion</author>
            <category>Mobile Phones and Tablets</category>
            <pubDate>Sun, 05 Feb 2012 10:04:34 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>iphone 4 stuck at &amp;quot;sending&amp;quot; while sending sms</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/2199788</link>
            <description>My GF&amp;#39;s iphone always get stuck at &amp;quot;sending&amp;quot; while sending a message. She will need to restart the phone to make it work . And on some occasion, I received duplicated sms from her phone too. (I&amp;#39;m using Galaxy S2)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Any of you faced such problem? Any idea to solve it? I&amp;#39;m not familiar with ios.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thank you.</description>
            <author>3ightDim3sion</author>
            <category>iPhone</category>
            <pubDate>Mon, 23 Jan 2012 14:30:17 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>Need help with iphone</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/2198643</link>
            <description>My GF&amp;#39;s iphone always get stuck at &amp;quot;sending&amp;quot; while sending a message. And on some occasion, I received duplicated sms from her phone too. (I&amp;#39;m using Galaxy S2)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Any of you faced such problem? Any idea to solve it?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thank you.</description>
            <author>3ightDim3sion</author>
            <category>Mobile Phones and Tablets</category>
            <pubDate>Sat, 21 Jan 2012 23:25:02 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>once a sad love story of mine</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/2164970</link>
            <description>Hello everyone, How are you guyz doing?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Congratulation to those who succeeded in their relationship and for those who haven&amp;#39;t YET, please stay strong as I believed God has his own arrangement for everyone of us.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I&amp;#39;m in a steady relationship now, but I would like to share a chapter of my downside love story. Years ago, I think during my form 2, I had a crush on  one of my classmate. She was totally awesome. She&amp;#39;s polite, pretty and cute, humble, smart, friendly, honest, understanding and she got all the good quality which is hard to find. She&amp;#39;s the top student of my school last tym and so I kept my feeling to my own. I was one of the &amp;quot;Popular group&amp;quot; during my school day so I tend to act cool in front of everyone and I think that&amp;#39;s why nobody ever realized that I actually have feeling for her. But I really paid attention to her all the time and I always asked around (in a cool way) about her stuff. The reason I did that is because I had no confidence back then to tell her my true feeling. This is because, she came from a rather good and wealthy family and she&amp;#39;s the top student in my school. My family background aint&amp;#39;t bad but my grades were not as good as her&amp;#39;s and I&amp;#39;m only in the top 10. So I felt very embarrassed to tell her my true feeling. I&amp;#39;m too scared to know her answer, so I thought, might as well just leave it like that. In that way, maybe we can still be friends.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The feeling never changed until when I&amp;#39;m in form 5, one day, out of a blue, the teacher asked me to move to the seat in front of her. The seat was unoccupied and i was sitting at the back of the class that time. I was froze. For a short moment, my mind is totally blank. I don&amp;#39;t know how should I react. So I moved to the seat in front of her and I was damn awkward&amp;#33;&amp;#33; Luckily she didn&amp;#39;t realized it. So that marked the starting point of us, not being couple yet, but as good friends. We talked a lot at the beginning and I found that despite of how smart and nerdy bit of her, she&amp;#39;s actually quite cool and fun to talk with. Days passed and we become closer and closer. I had to admit that was the best moment ever for me. That&amp;#39;s one of my happiest moment ever. One day, She was absent. I was really curious and worried at the same time. Later, I found out that She had dengue and was admitted to the hospital. That evening, I went to the hospital to visit her. She was shocked with my presence. She&amp;#39;s usually alone during that time because her parents were busy with their business. So for the next 4 days, I visited her and accompany her at the hospital until just before her parents came. I guessed she was touched by what I did. After that, She started to be really close with me and started to become very2 close with me. We were both in a language club. Although she was elected to be the president of the club, she declined the offer and nominated me instead. I was shocked with what she did and when I asked her why she did that, she said I was more capable of being a leader. She became the secretary of the club and we became closer than ever. I started to feel her feeling towards me. But I didn&amp;#39;t confess straightaway, so I asked around her friends about it. Her friends also noticed how her behavior towards me had changed and they urged me to confess my feeling to her and stop acting cool before her feeling towards me faded. LOL...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So on her birthday night, we held a BBQ party for her at the beach. After BBQ, I asked her to accompany me to walk by the beach. Most of our friends had left and so she agreed. I was really nervous by that time and I could feel my legs trembling. Finally, I held my courage and confessed my feeling to her. She muted for a few seconds after I confessed and seriously those few seconds felt like hours for me. She finally gave me her answer. The long awaited &amp;quot;Yes&amp;quot;. After secretly being in love with her for nearly 4 years, I finally got the answer I want. I was overjoyed that night. She promised me that as long as I hold on for her, she will never let go of this relationship. That night onwards, we moved from friendship to relationship. Everything just seems so right to me. We met each others parents and we got the green light from both families. She&amp;#39;s very interested to become a doctor, therefore, she really worked on her grades. My biology wasn&amp;#39;t that good but because she really wants me to further study in medicine with her, I worked really hard for my biology.It was a happy year for both of us and I was overjoyed when my results were almost as good as hers. She was really happy for me. One day i received a letter from a well-known wealthiest company in Malaysia. They are offering me full scholarship to further my study in IT and they also promised a job offer upon graduation at that time. I was really interested in IT and I found out that i actually do not want to be a doctor. I know being a doctor promises a higher pay but I&amp;#39;m really not interested in it. Besides, I have my family&amp;#39;s full support  to accept the scholarship offer. So i finally accepted the scholarship. When I told her about that, she was heartbroken as she had arranged for both our studies in A levels in a private university. She was furious and we had our first fight. I was disappointed with her because I expect her to understand my choice. We didn&amp;#39;t talk to each other for few days, but we were okay after I tried to talk properly to her. I promised her to hold on to our relationship although we were separated by few hundred kilometers. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I went study in Perak and she went to some university in KL. Things were smooth at the beginning as we still text and call each other everyday. But when study life gets busier, We eventually contact each other less. But we still text each others. After few months, I started to feel the difference in her. She no longer send me lovey-dovey sms and her sms were usually short, like &amp;quot;OK&amp;quot;, &amp;quot;I know&amp;quot;, &amp;quot;Nite&amp;quot;, &amp;quot;Nothing&amp;quot; etc. I called her one night and asked her what&amp;#39;s wrong. She refused to say anything at the beginning and after I urged her for few times, She finally told me that she felt as if I was never there for her and that she wants my accompany really bad. She no longer feel my feeling toward her. I clarified to her that I still love her and I asked her to stay strong for our sake as I&amp;#39;m trying very hard to cling to our relationship as promised although we were separated. After that, she seemed okay little bit. We really seldom meet each other because even our holidays were different. Until one day, when she called, crying, saying that she couldn&amp;#39;t take it anymore. She said she missed me so much and she no longer sure if I still have feeling for her. I tried to explain to her but she refused to listen. So the next day (Friday) after class, I took night bus to KL to meet her the next day. Things improved a bit and I traveled every weekend from Perak to KL just to see her. I was tired and my wallet really suffered but i thought it was worth it as I really love her so much. This continues for the next 1 years. She finally finished her A-level, and she entered a famous medical university in KL.  She got really busy and she hardly have time to meet me anymore although I traveled all the way from Perak just to meet her. Sometimes, she had some discussions or replacement class, so i had to wait for her at her campus&amp;#39;s bus station. Sometimes, I need to wait for her for 5-6 hours and sometimes, the whole day when she was really busy. No matter how hot the sun is and how heavy the rain is, I waited patiently outside her campus. i felt all I did was totally worth it. In the other hand, she never bothered to give me a call or maybe get me some mineral water or umbrella when it&amp;#39;s raining. Sometimes, I waited for her the whole day, but in the end, went back to my uni without even meeting her (i usually go back on sat nyt)  because she claimed that she had no time to meet me. I never complained and I continued to do that.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Until one day, she suddenly she called and told me that she really need to focus on her study and asked for break-up. I was furious and I scolded her. Instead of thanking me for all I had sacrificed, She asked for a break-up??&amp;#33;&amp;#33; WTH?? We had a huge fight that night. We stopped talking to each other ever since. It was my final exam period and my result for that semester suffered as I was too frustrated to study. After my exam, I returned to my hometown. Not long after that, she came back too. My friends came to visit me (I&amp;#39;m from Sarawak) during the holiday and so I invited her out for dinner. After dinner, we went for a walk at the beach. i brought my friends along too. I apologized to her that night and asked her to forgive me, but she demanded a break-up, saying that she no longer felt my love towards her, She lost her feeling towards me totally. My heart shattered. As if my last 6 years were wasted. 6 years ain&amp;#39;t a short time. I cried for the following few weeks. Every night. In front my friends and my parents. Alcohol became my best buddy and I actually don&amp;#39;t give a damn about everything anymore. All my allowance were spent on alcohol. I was really heartbroken. I must have cried for almost 1 month, every night. Once in a while, I texted her, but she never replied. I stopped hanging out with friends, I stopped hanging out with my families, I stopped watching movie, I stopped online. I will be drunk during the night and will be sleeping the whole next day. I lost my weight so much and my parents were so worried. I finally got better after 1 month. I started hanging out with everyone. I was so fragile that time. Every once in a while, I still cried silently in my room. Some of my friends told her about my condition but I guess she never bothered to know as she never called or texted me. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It took me nearly 2 months to recover. I became a playboy for a while and &amp;quot;played&amp;quot; few girls over time. I had never really dated another girl for 2 years. Although some nice quality girls confessed to me, I declined as I was afraid of being hurt again in the future. This continued until recently, I came across a really sweet girl. We&amp;#39;ve been together for nearly 2 months and I enjoyed every seconds of it. I stopped thinking about how are we going to end, instead, I told myself to shower her with love from the bottom of my heart. I stopped feeling sorry for myself and I actually regretted for being such as ******* for the past 2 years.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What I&amp;#39;m trying to tell everyone here is, everything happens for a reason. Don&amp;#39;t be too sad when your relationship isn&amp;#39;t working out as expected. God had made arrangement for everyone of us. When the time comes, you&amp;#39;ll find the person who&amp;#39;s gonna changed your life. Until then, you just need to stay strong and be patient until your partner appeared. I&amp;#39;ve experienced worst than most of you here. Stop feeling bad and sad because you are not alone.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;God Bless and Merry Belated Christmas to all LYN members. Cheers. biggrin.gif</description>
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            <category>Cupid&amp;#39;s Corner</category>
            <pubDate>Mon, 26 Dec 2011 21:51:42 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>What do girls like?</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/2135229</link>
            <description>Hello everyone,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I&amp;#39;m thinking of giving something to my GF, but running low on idea. How can I surprise her? Need fresh ideas. Would like to hear some suggestions from you all. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks.</description>
            <author>3ightDim3sion</author>
            <category>Cupid&amp;#39;s Corner</category>
            <pubDate>Sun, 04 Dec 2011 19:28:10 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>My GF always wants me to go out...</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/2123816</link>
            <description>Hello everyone,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I really need some advise from all of you. Both guys and girls. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I haven&amp;#39;t been dating for 2 years after my last break up. Lately, I start dating this girl. She&amp;#39;s younger than me and still studying and I actually just graduated and start working. She&amp;#39;s a wonderful girl, lovely, pretty, gorgeous and according to my friendS she looks kinda like some Korean actress. (LOL) We know each other for quite sometimes and started dating weeks ago. One thing bothers me is that she always wants me to go out with her but sometimes I&amp;#39;m really tired after whole day of work. Since my job is project-based, I always need to work at home at night to meet project deadline. Sometimes, I just need some personal time to rest or maybe accompanying my family. We were happy when going out on date but every time I came back from dating, I need to finish tons of work and sleep late.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I really like her and I don&amp;#39;t wana hurt her feeling or see her unhappy. I explained to her before and she seems and sounds ok and she says she won&amp;#39;t force me. Every time when I say i can&amp;#39;t go out, she seems and sounds ok, but I can actually tell that she lost mood. I realized that from her voice when I called her during my lunch hour or at night. Maybe I&amp;#39;m too worried of hurting her feeling so in the end, I always change my mind, go out with her and then come back to a huge pile of work after date. My parents also started complaining I going out too often till late at night. My colleagues also noticed that I look tired and sleepy during work. This is supposed to make me happy, but now I&amp;#39;m really tired. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I really need advise from everyone about what should I do and how should I tell her so that she understands completely. Besides the above problem, she&amp;#39;s totally perfect. I&amp;#39;m really trying to make things work between us as my last break up was due to long-distance and less time seeing each other.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks.</description>
            <author>3ightDim3sion</author>
            <category>Cupid&amp;#39;s Corner</category>
            <pubDate>Fri, 25 Nov 2011 20:59:43 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>Watch out for this number</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/1849510</link>
            <description>I&amp;#39;m not sure whose number does that belongs to but it&amp;#39;s given by the conman Leovaness when i try to struck a deal with him/her.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Jz beware of this number. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I would like to hear more updates or info about this number as I have a friend who was conned by him b4 this.</description>
            <author>3ightDim3sion</author>
            <category>Dispute Resolution Corner</category>
            <pubDate>Sun, 24 Apr 2011 19:56:17 +0800</pubDate>
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