http://forum.lowyat.net/ Fri, 19 Jun 2026 07:20:36 +0800 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/1725951 i met a girl not long ago. in the start, i always seeing her as potential life partner. but she made me uncertain, after a few incidents<br /><!--SPOILER BEGIN--><div class="spoilertop" onClick="openClose('6ea2be018fb648a11b16be3db9358a64')" style="font-weight: bold"><u>&raquo; Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... &laquo;</u></div><div class="spoilermain" id="6ea2be018fb648a11b16be3db9358a64" style="display:none"><!--SPOILER END-->[she seeing &quot;dirty&quot; things, during unhappy days],<br />[bad tempered &amp; crazy wind moody, some phobia for alone or darkness], [sticky &amp; marathon hell calling when i bz or cant answer phone]<br />[said her x keep kacau and calling her, but i see nothing. and the ex is in other city. said her ex raped her last time], <br />[ppl everywhere wan to woe her:lift/street/fb/phone] <br />[many incidents on the road that other driver tailgating her n chase her n trying to kacau her] <br />[a lot of sudden health conditions: nose bleed, earwater.unbalance, headache, etc etc. see doc regularly also wont solve]<br />[say not friend in this town. and i pity her so i intro her to some friend of mine]<!--SPOILER DIV--></div><!--SPOILER DIV--> <i>i hide the detail for easier reading. click spoiler for details thanks</i><br /><br />we were still seeing each other, but to declare bf/gf, really doubtful.<br />so this went on further until i said its better u focus on your study, we talk later abt this.<br />then she suspect i seeing someone, check all my fb comments activity talk with who<br />then ask me are u seeing that girl? they are all my friends in my group. <br />i was .... wth??&#33;&#33; cyber stalking?<br />then i told her we should stop seeing each other. for her to focus back to study and for her to move on, i have to ignore all, cos she is not listening to my advice or being rasional anymore.<br />then, a lot of weird and crazy thing follow.<br /><!--SPOILER BEGIN--><div class="spoilertop" onClick="openClose('caf2d050915997f55c009cc5fd404a3a')" style="font-weight: bold"><u>&raquo; Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... &laquo;</u></div><div class="spoilermain" id="caf2d050915997f55c009cc5fd404a3a" style="display:none"><!--SPOILER END--> sms me say she going to have surgery. <br />sms acting like nurse/friend typing sms on behalf of dying patient, &quot;pls visit xxx she is dying&quot;<br />she badmounthed about me to my group of friends. <br />telling them all that i am her ex (while i never declare she is to anyone), abt i dumped her, <br />i left her to dying, i am a lousy guy, i chase other girl while with her<!--SPOILER DIV--></div><!--SPOILER DIV--><br /><br />i never cheated on her, or take her stuff. guy also need some private time doing their own thing sometime.<br />i brought her to doc many times. doc always only give normal medication and ask her rest. none critical ilnessess<br />also found out from friend she didnt go surgery or flying off to somewhere else.<br />we cant everyday run to cater for this mentally provoked sudden condition, as we have a career and family to take care also.<br /><br />i regret intro her to my group of friends. now they all misunderstood me. ignore me online/offline. i have to give up hobby fun with these friends. funnily now she start to take this hobby and join their activity.<br />i no contact with her or that group of friends so long, i still hear bad things talking about me.<br /><br />now she seeing a new guy. very intimately as published on fb<br />but no one say she is the playgirl.... why??&#33;&#33;<br />ppl always only believe girl is the victim when they cry.<br /><b><br />the worst of all this, bcos of her... i lost this bunch of friends. bcos of her, i get a bunch of new enemy morphed from friends.<br /></b><br />can someone here tell me u meet this kinda of freaky phobia girl before? <br />and why no one believe there is such thing as playgirl, only playboy?<br />the girl these day i see in society are getting more and more complicated and unlike last time very innocent and natural. oenrob Cupid&#39;s Corner Fri, 21 Jan 2011 11:50:03 +0800