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Time, A tragic part of life

Stanza — Wed, 26 Jan 2011 18:56:36 +0800

Come share your thoughts on 'time'. Serious talk.

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Time is a tragic part of life, family is a blessing of life. I don't want to lose my mom, don't want to lose my dad, don't want to lose my siblings, and far into the future, I'll say "I'll give up anything to be with them again".

What an inevitable fate to be faced.

As I sat thinking at my desk, my mind began to realise something that one day my parents will not be around anymore. I'm not gonna used to hear my mom's nagging and singing anymore, I'm not gonna used to see my dad working out anymore, and somehow there will be separation between my siblings. As I sat there thinking, I suddenly started to miss the old times when I was little when I had nothing to worry but to behave as my dad and mom and older brothers took care of me. Innocent days where everything steady. But now, I've realised that the more I grow up, the less the time I have left to be spent together with my mom and dad and the more I realise that the time spent for conflicts with family members are but too much to be wasted away and at the end of my heart, I could only cry hoping that we all in family could stay together forever happily ever after.

Fear of height

Stanza — Wed, 26 Jan 2011 18:34:37 +0800

Serious talk please. How?
Feel free to contribute ways(links or tips) on how to overcome acrophobia.

Diploma in Healthcare

Stanza — Fri, 21 Jan 2011 19:54:57 +0800

Greetings everyone. I am considering to pursue my tertiary education in Diploma in Healthcare in Masterskill as in the following:
http://www.masterskill.edu.my/MASTERSKILL%...pHealthcare.php

I need all the help that I can get here concerning:
(1) Brief introduction on Healthcare
(2) Useful books that I should read
(3) Useful websites that I should visit
(4) Job prospect of this diploma
(5) Health in general
(6) Management in general
(7) Anything else related to life science, management, health, medical or even student's lifestyle.

Please give me advices and tips regarding these seven things.
Thanks in advance for your help and attention.

[Youtube]Toddler Falls in Gorilla Cage

Stanza — Mon, 17 Jan 2011 21:09:33 +0800

It's quite an old vid tho..
[YOUTUBE]ihUGT7MdDB4&feature=fvw[/YOUTUBE]

My thread disappeared/deleted

Stanza — Mon, 17 Jan 2011 12:55:07 +0800

Not long ago I made a sharing thread named '[Sharing]Twice in Love' in Cupid's Corner but now it's gone and I don't know why?
Why my thread got deleted?? And why am/was I not told the reasons of its removal?
The sharing just went on fine and I was waiting for more reply to come in(with my post being the last). Is there any appropriate reason for its deletion at all?? Need logical answer here!
And I want my thread back!

[Sharing]Twice in Love

Stanza — Wed, 12 Jan 2011 12:12:01 +0800

Have any of y'all fallen in love with the same person twice? Well I've had.

It was PMR year, I was studying in the best Secondary 3 class named 3 UMS. Evening class for the classroom would be 1 UMS which denotes Secondary 1 students studying in 1 UMS.
So once upon a time to tell y'all, I found a notebook within my drawer. I looked at it's front cover detail and came to know that it belonged to someone from 1 UIA and I was wondering "What on earth does a book of 1 UIA doing in this class? Should be 1 UMS in my drawer. Oh well, maybe it's borrowed and left here."
To cut the story short, I befriended the notebook's owner via the notebook. We got to know each other by writing in it. Next mornings I would always look into my drawer and see if the notebook's still there and see the latest message.
So one day, becus PMR was tightly around the corner, I decided to go meet the owner and tell her that I wouldn't be able to contact her anymore. I remembered I was infatuated at the first sight of her. After the brief meeting and finally(lol) returning her notebook, I was hooked to prepare for PMR. After PMR finish, I never recalled to ever go find her until around June about two years later, when I was gonna sit for SPM exam.
It was June. And I was depressed because I was dumped by my girlfriend for ridiculous reasons. So one day, as a Discipline Prefect, I was doing my patrols during recess time. I came across my bunch of merry friends at a long table in the canteen playing a game.
"Stan, you look so stress man, Come on here join us and play this game" one of them said and so I joined them. They were playing 'Truth or Dare' game by spinning a ballpen, and whomever the ballpen points after its spin, the person must choose either Truth or Dare. If Truth, we're gonna ask some serious questions and the person must answer. If Dare, the person must do whatever thing we want them to do. And so to cut the story short, the ballpen finally ended at me. I chose Dare cus we had been all choosing Truth lol.
All of my male friends at that spot challenged me to get acquainted with Swera(not a real name) and become her close friend. Yes, the name Swera's the name of the girl of the notebook, and yes you may flame me for not remembering her or her name at all during that point.
When I was challenged by their challenge, there were hypes going about my male friends since January that year saying stuffs like
"Hey there's a new morning-session girl in Secondary 3 and she looks sooo pretty" but I didn't care about it, not until I met this Swera whom I thought a new person in my memory.
I was able to befriend Swera rather easily and became her close friend. My friends were impressed. One day I realised that I've fallen in love with her. So one day I asked, "Swera do you want to be my girlfriend for one day? Don't worry I just want to talk and walk with you and to experience the feelings of being your boyfriend. I know after SPM I'l be gone and so I wont be able to contact you much anymore. That's why one day.."
and she said rather cheerfully, "I ask my daddy first."
The next morning, the answer was no. But we're still good friends and we continued to talk and walk each other daily like usual, like couple. We made an exchange of experience. I was gonna teach her English, Science and Mathematics and she was gonna teach me Mandarin. I even wrote for her a novel named Flaring Stars, to treasure our friendship in a form of fairy tales. She really liked it!
To cut the story short, one day we had this longest talking session and we shared lots of things.
She asked me, "Why do people court each other? Isn't friendship good enough to experience love?"
Me: Well, you might as well ask your parents why they got married and gave birth to you.
Swera: I know..but often, after we court somebody, we quarrel and break off and we never want to see each other again and the heartache and hatred's just there never going away. Isn't it sad to see the one you previously so love now as someone who disappoints you? Therefore, if I love somebody in that way, I for now won't ever want him to be my spouse cus I'm not ready to go through the intense heart-to-heart relationship and risk of losing him in the process.
Me: Ohh I see...I got your point..

At this point, she then asked me, "Do you want to be my best friend or korkor?"
Because I thought being her adopted brother is better than best friend, I answered, "Korkor."
But then she shot back in a tone of dismay, "Hahh? But if you become my korkor, I won't ever let you be my boyfriend in the future!" and giggled.
And then I quickly said, "OKay okay! Best friend! Hahaha!"
"Umm actually we met before.."
"Huh? Seriously? When? I can't remember." I thought she was joking so I laughed a bit.
"Umm never mind.." then she changed the topic and we talked about other topic.

To my surprise much later after SPM, I suddenly was able to recall the memories of the notebook when I was in Secondary 3. And I cried so hard in regrets. Then only I realised why it had been so easier for me to befriend her. It's becus she remembered me!
Furthermore, the novel that I wrote for her also has twice-in-love theme which made me a lot more sadder. lolz

Ahh well, just a theme for this sharing:
[YOUTUBE]Ye7BGnlTZmQ[/YOUTUBE]

How do you add byline below your avatar?

Stanza — Tue, 11 Jan 2011 18:48:33 +0800

Hi sup, folks.
How do you guys add byline below your avatar, may I be taught please?