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Valentines Day Florist

boylikegirl — Sat, 11 Feb 2012 15:12:19 +0800

Hello everyone,

Which florist do your recommend for delivery in Johor Bahru for valentines? (on line florists)..budget below Rm 150

Dare to be a champion

boylikegirl — Mon, 16 Jan 2012 10:27:16 +0800

Hi all...I love reading autobiographies and coincidentally sports and lee chong wei are of my interests..

I'm looking for this book as it will only be launched on the 18th...will it be sold at bookstores such as mph and popular?

Heard that it's already been sold at Putra Stadium but most of us are in outstation...

To anyone who already read the book..how was it??

Gf working life

boylikegirl — Tue, 10 Jan 2012 13:25:30 +0800

Please advice and give suggestions on what to do.

Me and my gf are one year into our relationship. She’s working while I’m studying. She’s living with her friend while I’m staying in hostel.
She has two other close friends who are living in a rented house by one of the friend‘s boss 20 minutes drive away. The rented house is initially for the boss’s mistress and the two friends were staying there together with the mistress. The boss regularly goes to the house and brings all of them and my gf for dinner and mid night karaoke even though my gf and the other friend is of different company. They were even invited to his company dinner.

My gf is changing her job soon and her workplace is near the rented house. My gf will be moving in there. No guys are allowed to be at the house as instructed by the boss. The problem is I dislike my gf’s association with the horny old boss. He’s just desperate for young girls company. This is my assumption because I have not met the ‘boss’ in person before.

I trust my gf well. I know she loves me much and assured me when I told her about my dislikes. But, I just don’t feel good. I have no right to ask her find another place to stay. She’s in another foreign city and all she have no one else except her friends.

I argued a lot with her about this. And it’s affecting our relationship. Am I just being insecure? I’m not worried that she’ll betray me, but..I just don’t feel good. Haih… why are there horny old men who willing to spend expensive dinner and karaoke to girls?? Even though the girls are stranger to him?? Please help and advise. I’m sad. Is it too much that I’m worried about this and making this an issue? My gf thinks that I don’t trust her and too controlling.

Gf late night outings

boylikegirl — Sun, 16 Oct 2011 00:41:28 +0800

I'm with my gf for 10 months..she is a nice girl and we loved each other much..she's working while I'm still a student..

My gf likes going out till late night, usually with her gang of girlfriends and occasionally some guys who also belongs to the same circle of friends...mostly they'll spend their time singing K and watching midnight movie...

The problem is i am always worried when she does that...always when that happens...we will surely argue...apart from that...we really have no problems at all....the reason is that it;s dangerous to go out at this time, moreover she's driving on the streets...my gf works during weekdays and her outings only limited to weekends...

but..deep inside me...i just feeling insecure...am i? i do know that couples need time for own life...but, i just cant accept her midnight outings...much of her outings are due to influence by her best friends...because when she's alone and in hometown...she will just stay home...it's her girlfriends who kept pestering her and bringing her out...

am I thinking too much? partly i'm just a student...i'm not as capable as her...she graduated earlier and owned a car...while I have nothing, no income watsoever....partly because I myself do not go out late nights...she asked me to trust her...i accused her of being wild...she said i should understand her better that nothing in her is wild...everytime this happens, we will surely argue and this sucks

Need some opinions ppl..

boylikegirl — Mon, 06 Jun 2011 19:56:06 +0800

I'm in a relationship with my gf for 5 months. After the 4th month, we're in LDR as she has already graduated while I still have a year to go. And we're from different hometown too.

This 5 months there have been ups and downs. I was immature at first in this relationship, but somehow I've learned my lesson and our arguments lessens significantly. From my view, the problem is always with her lately. I feel that she gets agitated easily for small problem. And she always tell me that we have many things not in common, we have different circles on friends, different interest and hobbies, and I'm english educated while she's chinese-educated.

But for me, I do not think we have anything uncommon, coz I do understand in a relationship, differences should be tolerated and I do feel that opposites attracts. She's too stubborn for my liking and do not admit her mistakes. Always when I tried to talk it to her, she's always in denial and it will end in an argument. But, I still love her very much and do not mind her shortcomings...She too emotional sometimes, i met her last week in her hometown, she did not talk much to me and cited that she does not have the mood to talk...yet, just now when we argued, she said we seldom talk when meeting up..

I'm worried this r/s will not last long...for me, I wanna make this love simple and happy, but she always tries to make it complicated...I always the nice guy in this r/s, I never blame her and never put her shortcomings in my heart. My question is, are these normal in a r/s? we're both 23 and this is our 1st r/s anyway....What should I do to make this love last? i'm worried.

Disney Merchandise

boylikegirl — Sat, 21 May 2011 21:18:58 +0800

Hello friends...I'm looking for a store in KL/PJ that sells disney official merchandises...I searched on line and found that Pavillion and The Curve have it...but does anyone knows exactly what is the name of the store?

THANK YOU

Is this relationship moving to fast?

boylikegirl — Wed, 26 Jan 2011 08:15:39 +0800

morning guys....I'm 22 while my girl is 23......This is my first ever relationship and also her first...

we got into this relationship only for about 20 days....the first week was kinda tough and full of issues....Guess i was too inexperienced and so do her...we argued about many minor issues even in the first week and this has been sorted out in later days...no arguments happened after that and we're both getting more comfortable and at ease with each other....

we started holding hands and we kissed each other cheeks on our first day...we tongue kissed even after 3 days of meeting....one thing lead to another and finally we got sexual...

now...i just really feel guilty...we're together coz of pure love....getting sexually active was something unexpected...I know she is very inexperience...but...do u think this is getting too fast? i really love her much and do not wan to lose her...i'm glad she did not blame me and say we should share the blame..how do we prevent things like this from happening again? Because i really want to build on this relationship first...gosh we're not even together for a month and there are many other things I got to know more about her...Though we know each other 6 months ago..but I still feel I need to understand her lot...