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            <title>Wtf not sure if bodo</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5397141</link>
            <description>&lt;a href='https://pictr.com/image/Ef5Ix1' target='_blank'&gt;&lt;img src='https://pictr.com/images/2023/07/31/Ef5Ix1.md.png' border='0' alt='user posted image' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.reddit.com/r/MalaysianPF/comments/15edxlf/i_got_a_job_offer/?utm_source=share&amp;utm_medium=ios_app&amp;utm_name=ioscss&amp;utm_content=4&amp;utm_term=1' target='_blank'&gt;https://www.reddit.com/r/MalaysianPF/commen...nt=4&amp;utm_term=1&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The OP Comments even funnier&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href='https://pictr.com/image/Ef5fTA' target='_blank'&gt;&lt;img src='https://pictr.com/images/2023/07/31/Ef5fTA.md.png' border='0' alt='user posted image' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href='https://pictr.com/image/Ef5AP6' target='_blank'&gt;&lt;img src='https://pictr.com/images/2023/07/31/Ef5AP6.md.png' border='0' alt='user posted image' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href='https://pictr.com/image/Ef5joI' target='_blank'&gt;&lt;img src='https://pictr.com/images/2023/07/31/Ef5joI.md.png' border='0' alt='user posted image' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href='https://pictr.com/image/Ef5Wlq' target='_blank'&gt;&lt;img src='https://pictr.com/images/2023/07/31/Ef5Wlq.md.png' border='0' alt='user posted image' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;</description>
            <author>persona93</author>
            <category>Kopitiam</category>
            <pubDate>Mon, 31 Jul 2023 21:17:07 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>Coffee Machine</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5386274</link>
            <description>As per topic, wanna get 1 for wife&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;currently Nespresso Lattissima machine at Shopee got RM300 discount&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;looking at Gran Lattissima machine &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src='https://pictr.com/images/2023/06/14/Edba9P.md.jpg' border='0' alt='user posted image' /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;budget 2k ish&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;thanks all sifus</description>
            <author>persona93</author>
            <category>Kopitiam</category>
            <pubDate>Wed, 14 Jun 2023 11:45:52 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>FFFUUUUUUUUUUU</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5368521</link>
            <description>NSFW post showing tortoise peepee&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[reddit]/r/Unexpected/comments/1261mgy/well_its_bigger/[/reddit]</description>
            <author>persona93</author>
            <category>Kopitiam</category>
            <pubDate>Thu, 30 Mar 2023 10:53:46 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>Aummzzz</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5368234</link>
            <description>[fb]https://www.facebook.com/100011373459221/posts/pfbid0fMxFfhUWGcXmazaGKJRSbpZuELVVAy8dVpSur6KcuDdoo5BgviY624NQGPBTnvdcl/?d=w&amp;amp;mibextid=qC1gEa[/fb]</description>
            <author>persona93</author>
            <category>Kopitiam</category>
            <pubDate>Wed, 29 Mar 2023 11:39:25 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>This one salah who?</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5367862</link>
            <description>[fb]https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=771027787592029&amp;amp;extid=CL-UNK-UNK-UNK-AN_GK0T-GK1C&amp;amp;mibextid=1YhcI9R&amp;amp;ref=sharing[/fb]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;!--QuoteBegin--&gt;&lt;div class='quotetop'&gt;QUOTE&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class='quotemain'&gt;&lt;!--QuoteEBegin--&gt;Penghantar makanan maut dirempuh SUV&lt;br /&gt;IPOH – Seorang penghantar makanan maut apabila motosikal ditunggangnya bertembung dengan kenderaan utiliti sukan (SUV) jenis Haval di Jalan Tanjung Rambutan-Chemor di sini semalam.&lt;br /&gt;Nahas tersebut mengorbankan mangsa berusia 32 tahun di lokasi kejadian akibat kecederaan parah.&lt;br /&gt;Ketua Polis Daerah Ipoh, Asisten Komisioner Yahaya Hassan berkata, polis menerima laporan kemalangan membabitkan SUV jenama Haval dan motosikal Honda RS150 pada pukul 10.44 malam.&lt;br /&gt;Katanya, siasatan awal mendapati kejadian berlaku ketika kereta dipandu lelaki berusia 21 tahun itu dalam perjalanan dari arah Tanjung Rambutan menghala ke Chemor.&lt;br /&gt;“Apabila tiba di lokasi kemalangan, kereta tersebut telah bertembung dengan motosikal yang ditunggangi mangsa.&lt;br /&gt;“Mangsa yang mengalami kecederaan parah meninggal dunia di lokasi kejadian manakala pemandu kereta tidak cedera,” katanya di sini hari ini.&lt;br /&gt;Menurut beliau, mayat mangsa telah dihantar ke Jabatan Forensik Hospital Raja Permaisuri Bainun (HRPB) untuk bedah siasat.&lt;br /&gt;Katanya, punca kemalangan berlaku apabila kereta berkenaan bertembung dengan motosikal ditunggang mangsa.&lt;br /&gt;“Siasatan terperinci sedang dijalankan dan kes disiasat mengikut Seksyen 41(1) Akta Pengangkutan Jalan 1987,” katanya. – KOSMO&amp;#33; ONLINE&lt;!--QuoteEnd--&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;!--QuoteEEnd--&gt;</description>
            <author>persona93</author>
            <category>Kopitiam</category>
            <pubDate>Tue, 28 Mar 2023 08:57:21 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>Reborn</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5367682</link>
            <description>&lt;a href='https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/asia/dalai-lama-mongolian-boy-b2307461.html' target='_blank'&gt;https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/as...y-b2307461.html&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;!--QuoteBegin--&gt;&lt;div class='quotetop'&gt;QUOTE&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class='quotemain'&gt;&lt;!--QuoteEBegin--&gt;A Mongolian boy born in the US has been named as the reincarnation of the third most important spiritual leader in Tibetan Buddhism by the Dalai Lama.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The faith’s spiritual leader has been pictured with the eight-year-old boy taking part in a ceremony in Dharamshala in the Indian state of Himachal Pradesh – where the Dalai Lama, 87, lives in exile – recognising him as the 10th Khalkha Jetsun Dhampa Rinpoche, according to The Times.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Mongolian media reports suggest the child is one of a pair of twin boys named Aguidai and Achiltai Altannar, sons of Altannar Chinchuluun and Monkhnasan Narmandakh, a university mathematics professor and a national resources conglomerate executive, respectively.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The boy’s grandmother, Garamjav Tseden, is meanwhile a former member of parliament.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The move to acknowledge him as the rebirth of Buddhism’s spiritual leader in Mongolia is likely to anger China, which has previously insisted it will only recognise Buddhist leaders who its own special government-approved appointees have chosen.&lt;!--QuoteEnd--&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;!--QuoteEEnd--&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href='https://pictr.com/image/EVBGU8' target='_blank'&gt;&lt;img src='https://pictr.com/images/2023/03/27/EVBGU8.md.jpg' border='0' alt='user posted image' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;!--SPOILER BEGIN--&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;spoilertop&quot; onClick=&quot;openClose('a78c4f6648966047bc12d42dc6c96ff9')&quot; style=&quot;font-weight: bold&quot;&gt;&lt;u&gt;&amp;raquo; Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... &amp;laquo;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;spoilermain&quot; id=&quot;a78c4f6648966047bc12d42dc6c96ff9&quot; style=&quot;display:none&quot;&gt;&lt;!--SPOILER END--&gt;The development was reportedly met with a mixture of excitement and apprehension in Mongolia, with the likely animosity of Beijing considered cause for concern.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In 1995, when the Dalai Lama named a new Panchen Lama, the second most important figure in the faith, the child was swiftly arrested by Chinese authorities and replaced with a candidate of their own.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Fears persist that something similar could happen when the Dalai Lama himself eventually passes away, an event he has predicted will not take place on Chinese-controlled territory, indicating that his successor could emerge from another country in which Tibetan Buddhism is practised such as India, Nepal, Bhutan or Mongolia.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In a prelude to the present excitement, the spiritual leader visited Mongolia in 2016 and announced that a new incarnation of the Jetsun Dhampa had been born and that the search was underway to find him.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;China reacted angrily to that visit and threatened Ulaanbaatar with diplomatic repercussions if it allowed him to return.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The eventual unveiling ceremony in question is understood to have taken place in Dharamshala on 8 March in front of an audience of around 600 worshippers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“We have the reincarnation of Khalkha Jetsun Dhampa Rinpoche of Mongolia with us today,” the Dalai Lama told his followers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“His predecessors had a close association with the Krishnacharya lineage of Chakrasamvara. One of them established a monastery in Mongolia dedicated to its practice. So, his being here today is quite auspicious.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Dalai Lama was himself recognised as a reincarnation of the faith’s previous leader in 1937 when he was just two years old.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Mao Zedong’s communist forces occupied his native Tibet in 1950 and he was forced to flee Lhasa nine years later following a failed uprising.&lt;!--SPOILER DIV--&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;!--SPOILER DIV--&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;</description>
            <author>persona93</author>
            <category>Kopitiam</category>
            <pubDate>Mon, 27 Mar 2023 14:27:57 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>Hmmmm</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5367024</link>
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            <author>persona93</author>
            <category>Kopitiam</category>
            <pubDate>Fri, 24 Mar 2023 15:42:06 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>So now West to East?</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5366975</link>
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            <author>persona93</author>
            <category>Kopitiam</category>
            <pubDate>Fri, 24 Mar 2023 13:15:56 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>Wow US really liddis meh?</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5366452</link>
            <description>[tiktok]7210822116491431211[/tiktok]</description>
            <author>persona93</author>
            <category>Kopitiam</category>
            <pubDate>Wed, 22 Mar 2023 16:49:16 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>Oldfags kam in</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5365671</link>
            <description>&lt;a href='https://pictr.com/image/ELh6xf' target='_blank'&gt;&lt;img src='https://pictr.com/images/2023/03/20/ELh6xf.md.jpg' border='0' alt='user posted image' /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;</description>
            <author>persona93</author>
            <category>Kopitiam</category>
            <pubDate>Mon, 20 Mar 2023 11:44:23 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>School holiday habis liao</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5365615</link>
            <description>How was the traffic for you guys&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Mine was shyt, wanna filter and cilok also cannot&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;actually what&amp;#39;s the science behind school holiday less cars and more jam??</description>
            <author>persona93</author>
            <category>Kopitiam</category>
            <pubDate>Mon, 20 Mar 2023 08:23:18 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>Basikal Bodo</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5361221</link>
            <description>[fb]https://fb.watch/j1rVt4gjQq/?mibextid=xs5ma6[/fb]</description>
            <author>persona93</author>
            <category>Kopitiam</category>
            <pubDate>Fri, 03 Mar 2023 16:59:23 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>Weh PKP back?</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5360251</link>
            <description>&lt;img src='https://pictr.com/images/2023/02/28/EpUIZP.md.png' border='0' alt='user posted image' /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;!--SPOILER BEGIN--&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;spoilertop&quot; onClick=&quot;openClose('5fe4f600356eb02d0b6c99ff1b03e71e')&quot; style=&quot;font-weight: bold&quot;&gt;&lt;u&gt;&amp;raquo; Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... &amp;laquo;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;spoilermain&quot; id=&quot;5fe4f600356eb02d0b6c99ff1b03e71e&quot; style=&quot;display:none&quot;&gt;&lt;!--SPOILER END--&gt;&lt;span style='color:red'&gt;&lt;span style='font-size:16pt;line-height:100%'&gt;&lt;b&gt;OK THIS IS A SATIRICAL PUASA 2023 POST &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;!--SPOILER DIV--&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;!--SPOILER DIV--&gt;</description>
            <author>persona93</author>
            <category>Kopitiam</category>
            <pubDate>Tue, 28 Feb 2023 15:01:18 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>Helu Polis</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5359923</link>
            <description>Sudah kena angkut belum?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[fb]https://www.facebook.com/100044952080240/posts/pfbid0vvZK91v1TdYjkaoRaF3eRbyWiVaBEtBRfruuNCeLMRyprGJsVaRHPs2qxnnb8GJJl/?d=w[/fb]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[fbv]199182232706495[/fbv]</description>
            <author>persona93</author>
            <category>Kopitiam</category>
            <pubDate>Mon, 27 Feb 2023 14:46:12 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>SPM 2023 got bocor?</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5359115</link>
            <description>&lt;!--QuoteBegin--&gt;&lt;div class='quotetop'&gt;QUOTE&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class='quotemain'&gt;&lt;!--QuoteEBegin--&gt;SOALAN peperiksaan Sijil Pelajaran Malaysia (SPM) 2022 melibatkan topik Kertas 2 subjek Sejarah didakwa bocor hari ini.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Topik bagi soalan kertas sejarah itu didakwa tersebar di aplikasi WhatsApp sejak semalam, sebelum calon menduduki peperiksaan subjek berkenaan pagi tadi.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Difahamkan antara topik yang dikatakan bocor membabitkan ‘Malayan Union’.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Di aplikasi TikTok, isu soalan bocor itu mengundang rasa tidak puas hati pelajar dan netizen yang mahu Kementerian Pendidikan Malaysia (KPM) mengambil tindakan tegas terhadap pihak yang membocorkan soalan peperiksaan berkenaan.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Netizen mendakwa soalan bocor itu diberikan seorang guru yang juga penggubal soalan Sejarah daripada sekolah berasrama penuh.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Rata-rata pelajar kesal dengan tindakan guru terbabit dan berharap supaya tidak perlu menduduki semula kertas berkenaan.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Subjek Sejarah merangkumi Kertas 1 dan Kertas 2 merupakan subjek teras yang perlu diambil pelajar.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Seramai 403,637 calon menduduki peperiksaan bertulis SPM 2022 yang bermula Isnin lalu hingga 15 Mac, membabitkan 3,355 pusat peperiksaan seluruh negara.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;KPM dalam kenyataannya memaklumkan seramai 131,318 petugas peperiksaan telah dilantik bagi memastikan kelancaran pengurusan dan pengendalian peperiksaan berkenaan.&lt;!--QuoteEnd--&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;!--QuoteEEnd--&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href='https://malaysiapost.com.my/2023/02/23/soalan-sejarah-kertas-2-spm-2022-bocor/' target='_blank'&gt;https://malaysiapost.com.my/2023/02/23/soal...spm-2022-bocor/&lt;/a&gt;</description>
            <author>persona93</author>
            <category>Kopitiam</category>
            <pubDate>Fri, 24 Feb 2023 10:38:34 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>TS want to get money back from friend</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5358193</link>
            <description>Hi /k &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I&amp;#39;ve got a retarded someoene that I know who&amp;#39;s owing me RM8680. A little bit of background, i know him 4 years ago, we worked at the same tuition centre. His parents are divorced and last time he used to stay with his grandmother and now i dont know where the fuck he&amp;#39;s at.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Before Covid, he was doing well by teaching tuition, he&amp;#39;s a smart guy gotta give him that. He even bought over another tuition centre but then Covid came and that&amp;#39;s when his downfall started. I met my ex in the same tuition that me and him were working together. After his downfall, he started with his sob story and shyt and to date I have gave him money, bought devices for him to help with his studies and rent (he&amp;#39;s a part time loyar). He did pinjam other places, take loan here and there, borrowed along and other stuff. So i did tell him (2 years ago)  settle everything else then come to my hutang&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When me and my ex broke up, I did go to him for advice because he knows my ex longer than me, so that&amp;#39;s where i feel indebted to him to the point where i thought by doing good deeds i would get my ex back, but then nothing worked out  my family was a bit enraged with my ex due to how she dumped me, and they harassed her quite a bit so this friend advised my ex to report police and stuff if it persists. but moving on, he did gave me advice to just move on and stuff.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;so since last year I have started to ask my money back, RM200 a month, so far he&amp;#39;s paid RM1000, which brings the total now RM7680. But for now, for 2 months he has not paid me back, i have been messaging him constantly and he does reply from time to time, he has been giving countless reasons that I&amp;#39;m honestly fed up with. today after 3 days of no reply, i messaged him and he said he&amp;#39;s taking a loan to pay me back, i told him give me proof that he&amp;#39;s applying a loan to pay me back&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;how can i get back my money back FUCK&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;tldr; TS want to get money back from friend</description>
            <author>persona93</author>
            <category>Kopitiam</category>
            <pubDate>Tue, 21 Feb 2023 11:09:39 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>Two Wongs don&amp;#39;t make a Wright</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5356069</link>
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            <author>persona93</author>
            <category>Kopitiam</category>
            <pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2023 15:37:35 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>Jom kira2</title>
            <link>http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5354939</link>
            <description>&lt;!--QuoteBegin--&gt;&lt;div class='quotetop'&gt;QUOTE&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class='quotemain'&gt;&lt;!--QuoteEBegin--&gt;I probably need some advice, but this is a rant more than anything else.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Background&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I came from a B40 family (parents were lab techs or lowly government servants). Growing up, we knew the importance of money and I learnt how to save from my parents, who would boycott stuff for years even if the price increase was just 20-50 sens. They would also tally income and expenses every month manually in a ledger, and they started channeling some savings into equities etc. Of course, properties then were lower than they were now, and so my parents eventually had multiple properties.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My siblings and I were also pushed very hard at school (they still believed that the best investment was education). We had to be it all. Best student, athlete, you name it. What that meant was that all of us were admitted to reputable foreign universities. Unfortunately, I did not get a full scholarship, unlike my siblings. That won&amp;#39;t have been a problem if I stayed overseas, since could earn in a stronger currency.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Fast forward, I met and married my wife who insisted on staying back in Malaysia and in a particular state. For love, I agreed. So yes, it was my decision. But that has brought my family into a financial stalemate. Even after 3 years, we do not have much savings due to very high expenses - something which I would not have imagined to be caught dead with - having being brought up in a low income household who constantly drilled it into my head that &amp;quot;it&amp;#39;s not how much you earn, but how you manage it&amp;quot;. Summary below.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Income and Expenses rundown&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We take home about 28k MYR a month after taxes. I feel that in any other scenario, we would have been fairly well off. My parents had far less than that.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-RM5k - I am still paying back a study loan which was in USD, and it will be another couple of years before I can finish it. Even a meager amount in USD is insane in MYR&amp;#33;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-RM 3k - There are now 2 children who incur some expenses every month.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-RM 2k - As my wife insisted in staying in one state, and I had to work in another state to ensure I earn a high enough income to support my study loan and the family. But weekly the back and forth commute adds to expenses. I have half a mind now to stop going back until we have a financial buffer, but I really, really love being with my small children and my wife also does not agree.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-RM 7k - Wife&amp;#39;s general expenses. Although my wife was brought up in an even poorer family (uneducated parents who could only work factory jobs or unemployed), they did not espouse the same thrifty values. This was extremely surprising for me - I wrongly assumed that all people from poor origins would know the value of saving, but she was brought up where her parents were content with their socio-economic situation, alright in living hand to mouth, &amp;quot;borrowed&amp;quot; money from relatives and friends to keep afloat, and didn&amp;#39;t have the capacity or viewed an importance to save. I am surprised also because she has a postgraduate degree. Most of her other family members were also contented with earning low and I believe it this mentality is now ingrained in her. So while our expenses are through the roof, she still earns a meager salary and does not seem to be able to advance in position or pay.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-RM2k - to my wife&amp;#39;s parents. She was brought up in a traditional setting where parents viewed children as potential bank accounts.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-RM3k - have to rent 2 places at once since it&amp;#39;s in 2 states.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-RM2k - Food.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-RM1k - Other general expenses like shopping.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So I am asking if anyone has any ideas:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What should I do with 3k leftover a month? What sort of investments (non-bumi) should I take right now? I&amp;#39;m 35 so the runway has significantly decreased.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What expenses can I cut? You may assume that most of what my wife expenses is non-negotiable (although I recently had a chat with her about buying children unnecessary stuff every week and she seems receptive to reducing that). I am thinking of cutting the 2k weekly flights. I don&amp;#39;t think I can decrease that by taking the train or bus as my job is intense and I have no energy to spend 5+ hours commuting. I have also recently reduced my rent to live in a room with room mates, even though I am 30+ years old. However, I cannot downgrade my wife&amp;#39;s rent as both my child and her parents (they don&amp;#39;t have property) with us.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Generally, I am quite disappointed with life. Even if I were in a high income high expenses situation, I wished it were because I have a mortgage - I don&amp;#39;t even have a house at 35&amp;#33; At least that would have been money put towards a possible asset. I know comparing is bad, but I also constantly envy my siblings as they have multiple properties overseas despite being younger than me and are living comfortable lives in fat cat jobs that typical ivy league graduates overseas have. They could come home for a holiday and make RM20k purchases on the spot while we are leisurely walking around the city without blinking. Who cares about FIRE when you&amp;#39;re making half a million out of college, amirite?&lt;!--QuoteEnd--&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;!--QuoteEEnd--&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;tldr&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We take home about 28k MYR a month after taxes. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-RM5k - I am still paying back a study loan which was in USD, and it will be another couple of years before I can finish it. Even a meager amount in USD is insane in MYR&amp;#33;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-RM 3k - There are now 2 children who incur some expenses every month.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-RM 2k - As my wife insisted in staying in one state, and I had to work in another state to ensure I earn a high enough income to support my study loan and the family. But weekly the back and forth commute adds to expenses. I have half a mind now to stop going back until we have a financial buffer, but I really, really love being with my small children and my wife also does not agree.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-RM 7k - Wife&amp;#39;s general expenses. Although my wife was brought up in an even poorer family (uneducated parents who could only work factory jobs or unemployed), they did not espouse the same thrifty values. This was extremely surprising for me - I wrongly assumed that all people from poor origins would know the value of saving, but she was brought up where her parents were content with their socio-economic situation, alright in living hand to mouth, &amp;quot;borrowed&amp;quot; money from relatives and friends to keep afloat, and didn&amp;#39;t have the capacity or viewed an importance to save. I am surprised also because she has a postgraduate degree. Most of her other family members were also contented with earning low and I believe it this mentality is now ingrained in her. So while our expenses are through the roof, she still earns a meager salary and does not seem to be able to advance in position or pay.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-RM2k - to my wife&amp;#39;s parents. She was brought up in a traditional setting where parents viewed children as potential bank accounts.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-RM3k - have to rent 2 places at once since it&amp;#39;s in 2 states.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-RM2k - Food.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-RM1k - Other general expenses like shopping.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What should I do with 3k leftover a month? What sort of investments (non-bumi) should I take right now? I&amp;#39;m 35 so the runway has significantly decreased.</description>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 10 Feb 2023 14:22:33 +0800</pubDate>
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            <title>Take loan to buy car for work</title>
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