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Dilemma

AirMY — Sat, 20 Jun 2020 23:09:36 +0800

Hi all,

I am currently dilemma on my situation here.

I am currently in ITSec dept.
- The manager do not really possessed good leadership skill to lead the team and has always been occupied to entertain the higher management instead.
- The only senior that I am closed with are leaving. He was the person that guide and teaches me.
- Other than him, I am pretty much unable to communicate with my teammate (1. the rest of the people in my dept are not part of my team) (2. My team is a small 3 person teams)
- I can see that I still got many things to learn here in this dept and will most likely be super busy.
- However, I can't work well with the other teammate at all and I loathed him on his working attitude.

There is someone from another dept who manage the servers in the company.
- He was very helpful and willing to guide me (yea, pretty funny to have another dept's lead to guide me)
- He was looking for a successor after him, so he willing to train me.
- He has been asking me to switch over to his dept

My dilemma:
1. Someone told me ITSec will have better prospect in long run compared to the other dept.
2. Our current dept already lack of manpower with one senior leaving, due to the other teammate's working attitude, i can tell that my current boss (manager) depending on me to handling the task left by the senior (I am still a junior)
3. At the same time, I don't really like the job either and feel that I have been underpay.
4. Switching dept doesn't means my salary will be increase and in the current covid19 it is even more impossible.

So, i am not sure whether I shall switch or not. Need advice. Thank you so much

A girl ask me out to church

AirMY — Thu, 02 Jan 2020 03:47:09 +0800

There was this girl that I kinda know her online and didn’t really chat much with her. Just occasionally ask her what’s up kinda thingy

Then one day, she suddenly messaged me with “hehe” and ask me if I interest to join her church Christmas party

Then in the party, she was busy performing so ended up her friend layaning me. I brought a Christmas present just not to looks like empty handed and I passed the present to her.

But then damn funny wei...I can see that she is very awkward, even when she walk back to her table...the walking posture is sort of awkward

Then after that, some time later, went to the photo boot to take photo, then I noticed that she immediately change her hand posture to match mine when taking photo.

Then got take other photo with her and her church female friends too. So after the party I asked her to send the photo to me

Then she told me that her church friends all likes me a lot and will love to see me in church

I did follow up the photos from her and she later did gave me the photos, but she only gave me the 1 and only photo that I took with her.

The other photos that with her friends, she said for some reason failed to save into her phone to WhatsApp me wut?

So my question is, is she into me or what? I went to the party and find it strange that she invited me. I mean she can invite other people also, but why me?

And we really dun talk much also, so it is kinda weird to be invited...

Do you guys have any similar experience in your life to Share? Thank you

I am not feeling well

AirMY — Sun, 11 Nov 2018 23:23:04 +0800

I am not feeling well.

I know I had been having mild depression.

These days, I often feel like wanna cry inside my car and scream my lung out...

It all happened after my gf dumped me after 3 months relationship this June, I thought I get over it and recovered but reality I didn't. Because after that, I tried to mentally prepare to woo other girls, and I did tried but failed on 1st girl.

Then on top of that, I am still been very unhappy over my ex.

And my job is serious stressful for me, plus my sport training, I am also been humiliated badly, i felt like I had lost my dignity.

On top of that, also feel very sad that I can't give my mom or anyone a good life with my current income and my face is face problem.

Just 2 weeks ago, I fell sick.. sore throats and coughing.. the cough got terrible at night and it disturbed my sleep. (This stressed and frustrated me even more, someday, i was very furious in the morning because I knew I will be very stressed in the office, i needed to rest badly yet i can't sleep. )

Although I am able to get some sleep these few days...

And yesterday, i only found out that my 2nd target got bf edi... i became deeply unhappy about it again,

I noticed that I am becoming dumb and blur.

I feel like I lost my critical thinking and I kept making mistakes... stupid mistakes.. like just now i wanna pump Ron 95, i dunno why i pump Ron 97 etc. I became very blurr

I am not sure what is happening, but i know i am very demotivated and keep on feel like wanna cry. Is it my mental is breaking down? I know I told myself that i am very tired of living this life but so far I am still able to hold myself, I just scare that someday I just go ahead and do Stupid Stuff.

I really dunno what to do.. i am a lost , dumb and blur guy now. Losing my dignity.. becoming more and more anti social.

[Serious] I am not feeling well

AirMY — Sun, 11 Nov 2018 22:46:23 +0800

I am not feeling well.

I know I had been having mild depression.

These days, I often feel like wanna cry inside my car and scream my lung out...

It all happened after my gf dumped me after 3 months relationship this June, I thought I get over it and recovered but reality I didn't. Because after that, I tried to mentally prepare to woo other girls, and I did tried but failed on 1st girl.

Then on top of that, I am still been very unhappy over my ex.

And my job is serious stressful for me, plus my sport training, I am also been humiliated badly, i felt like I had lost my dignity.

On top of that, also feel very sad that I can't give my mom or anyone a good life with my current income and my face is face problem.

Just 2 weeks ago, I fell sick.. sore throats and coughing.. the cough got terrible at night and it disturbed my sleep.

Although I am able to get some sleep these few days...

And yesterday, i only found out that my 2nd target got bf edi... i became deeply unhappy about it again,

I noticed that I am becoming dumb and blur.

I feel like I lost my critical thinking and I kept making mistakes... stupid mistakes.. like just now i wanna pump Ron 95, i dunno why i pump Ron 97 etc. I became very blurr

I am not sure what is happening, but i know i am very demotivated and keep on feel like wanna cry. Is it my mental is breaking down? I know I told myself that i am very tired of living this life but so far I am still able to hold myself, I just scare that someday I just go ahead and do Stupid Stuff.

I really dunno what to do.. i am a lost , dumb and blur guy now. Losing my dignity.. becoming more and more anti social.

Which hand you prefer to hold your gf hand?

AirMY — Wed, 02 May 2018 15:52:14 +0800

When go out dating, you prefer to use which hand to hold your gf?

First time buying house

AirMY — Fri, 16 Mar 2018 11:57:46 +0800

Dear all,

This is my first time buying house, would like to know what sort of schemes/programs/incentives available for people like me who never own a house?

Be it for subsale or new property launch.

Hopefully all the gurus here can also advice people like me that never buy a house before on what is the precaution, what is the best methods etc to buy a house.

Thank you so much

Curious, how awang hitam scored amoi?

AirMY — Wed, 18 Oct 2017 00:23:45 +0800

Just now at my condo's swimming pool saw an awang hitam was rather close with an amoi in the swimming pool.

She seem to be dunno how to swim and shy but the guy is like encouraging her and so on.

So i was like how he managed to do that? as most amoi I knew are rather conservative and not easily to get into the intimate stage with them, i think it's even harder if they are awang hitam.

Hence, I am quite perplex that quite a lot of awang hitam managed to do it.

I don't care you are beta male trying to be alpha, or alpha male. Come and share your opinions and experience about this. Thanks.

how to change LED Panel Light?

AirMY — Tue, 10 Oct 2017 00:22:56 +0800

Alright my room got 2 LED Panel Light, seem to be EOL already.

Symptoms:-

1. When switched on the switch, both of the LEDs will flickering.

2. Sometime, it just dim and not the usual bright.

3. Sometime, it just normal (rarely)

Most of the times, I have to keep switched off and on repeatedly for it to be bright like normal. Otherwise, it will either flickering or just dim.

I also noticed, if I left it flickering for a certain period of time, it will just ended up stop flickering and just dim.

Now I purchased the LED Panel Light already, I noticed inside they included a boxy thingy called "driver".

So, my question is, shall I change the panel only? Or shall I also change the driver as well? How am I suppose to know is the LED panel issue or driver issue?

Note: Shall I also off the main circuit box before I proceed to change? Or just off the light switch will do?

Thank you.

Has anyone done acne & allergy treatment in,

AirMY — Tue, 11 Jul 2017 00:26:38 +0800

Hi, I would like to know which Private Hospital in KL got treatment for skin allergy as well as laser treatments for Acne scars like Fractional CO2 Skin Laser and so on.

If you had been to private hospital for such treatment or knew it through someone else experiences, kindly share.

Thank you

Has anyone done acne & allergy treatment in

AirMY — Tue, 11 Jul 2017 00:21:46 +0800

If I wanna create an NGO

AirMY — Tue, 11 Jul 2017 00:18:29 +0800

ME and my friend plan to found an NGO in order to advocate some diseases and do charities.

We wonder, does an NGO needed to register to ROS or not.

What're the requirement to form a proper and legit NGO?

Thank you

Those people whom display Bank Acc info

AirMY — Sat, 03 Jun 2017 22:41:12 +0800

I saw a lot of traders in this forum displayed their bank account info publicly. Besides that, many people also sometime shared out their bank account info for donation over something tragic.

Aren;t they afraid that their account may be use as money laundering? OR some ah long or drug dealer decided to bank-in some dirty money, won't these people (shared their bank acc) also kena investigate for been complicit with them?

Or anything bad will happen...

How can they share something so private so openly?

Automated car wash

AirMY — Sun, 21 May 2017 17:44:17 +0800

I have never use automated car wash for my entire life. So I don't want to go there and be jakun.

Mind telling me what i shall do? There will be a conveyor right? So I just need to put "N" then relax?

Then how to pay ? Pay 1st? or after wash only pay? How I know they will not provide value added cleaning services then charge me?

Thanks

Does been a spare tyre a concern for you?

AirMY — Sun, 19 Mar 2017 13:47:13 +0800

Does knowing that you are just a spare tyre for a girl. And never is her first choice.

Will that be a concern for you?

Will that hurt your ego?

But then, if you never have any other girls yet, why not right?

E-cop

AirMY — Thu, 03 Sep 2015 12:50:17 +0800

I would love to know more about its environments, cultures and benefits. Besides that, does people who work at there have to wear formal all the time? Or just casual wear?

Thank you.

e-Cop is a good company?

AirMY — Thu, 03 Sep 2015 12:42:02 +0800

e-cop is a good company or not? How's the environment and benefit? People working inside wear formal or casual T-shirt?

Shall I pump in Euro4 Ron97?

AirMY — Thu, 20 Aug 2015 19:20:01 +0800

I have just got my new Honda City and I am not sure is pumping the new Petronius euro 4 Ron 97 will benefit my car or not.

I have read about the Paul tan article about it but it seem like Euro4 only benefit the environment instead of our car engines. The article was quite technical , so I was rather confused .

What do you guys think?

Shall I pump Euro4 Ron 97

AirMY — Thu, 20 Aug 2015 19:19:05 +0800

What brand is your car tint?

AirMY — Mon, 10 Aug 2015 18:35:28 +0800

May I know what brand is your car tint and how much does it cost?

By the way, I have a budget of 1k for car tint and the tint shop quoted me

Raytech AX

and

3M LS-80 FWS & HP-50 SWS

Do you think these are good? There's also a brand called Solar Guard which been quoted Rm 1.5k So I not sure which 1 is good and which 1 is not.

Chronic Hives aka Urticaria

AirMY — Sun, 07 Dec 2014 17:30:41 +0800

I am currently suffering from Chronic Urticaria, is quite suffering actually with whole body itchy whole days with no apparent reason. One fine day, it just strike my body and ever since I am consuming anti-histamine to control it otherwise it will comes back and haunt me.

I already suffering from it for a year + , I am quite frustrated with it.

Anyone of you who have the same unfortunate fate as me? Mind to share your experiences or expertise with all of us? Thank you