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Single's Club v332

Eclipxe — Fri, 28 Oct 2011 20:03:37 +0800

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Sunday Dimsum
Ho Choong Tuck @ Damansara Uptown, Petaling Jaya, Selangor
9am, Sunday 06.11.2011
Please confirm with Eclipxe / Skypie if you want to join
Ho Choong Tuck Dimsum shop >> Click for Map & Food images <<

attending: Skypie, Wingsoflove, WK80, Hairylgs, Eclipxe, nicol3mii, Red shirt, Havendragon, Senyii, gorillaz_113, wangpr
tbc: chiahau, nickisthemost, lacus
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THROUGH A RAPIST'S EYES

Eclipxe — Tue, 25 Oct 2011 15:30:41 +0800

Hi girls, sharing this article which I think it's quite useful for you girls.

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It seems that alot of attackers use some tactic to get away with violence. Not many people know how to take care of themselves when faced with such a situation. Everyone should read this especially each n every girl in this world.

THOUGHT THIS WAS GOOD INFO TO PASS ALONG...
FYI - Through a rapist's eyes! A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interviewed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:

1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.

2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who's clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut clothing.

3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.

4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store parking lots.

5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.

6] Number three is public restrooms.

7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don't have to worry about getting caught.

8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn't worth it because it will be time-consuming.

9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.

10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you're not worth it.

POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:
1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk: can't believe it is so cold out here, we're in for a bad winter. Now that you've seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a target.

2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they'd leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.

3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.

4] If someone grabs you, you can't beat them with strength but you can do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and armpit or in the upper inner thigh - HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.

5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy's parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you'll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he's out of there.

6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.

7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don't dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel little silly at the time, but you'd feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.

FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ....
I know you are smart enough to know these pointers but there will be some, where you will go "hmm I must remember that" After reading, forward it to someone you care about, never hurts to be careful in this crazy world we live in.

1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.

2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you.... chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won't see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON'T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.

5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:
a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may be hiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .

b. If you! u are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.

c. Look at the car parked on the driver's side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked "for help" into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.

I'd like you to forward this to all the women you know. It may save a life. A candle is not dimmed by lighting another candle. I was going to send this to the ladies only, but guys, if you love your mothers, wives, sisters, daughters, etc., you may want to pass it onto them, as well.

Any Halloween event in KL or Petaling Jaya?

Eclipxe — Thu, 20 Oct 2011 12:12:02 +0800

Am looking for one for Halloween gathering among online friends age range from 20 to 30+ and currently I checked, most of them are organised by Clubs. Anyone can recommend any other Halloween events? Thank you in advance

Single's Club v324

Eclipxe — Mon, 18 Jul 2011 13:12:31 +0800

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August massive gathering!
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Single's Club v323

Eclipxe — Mon, 11 Jul 2011 16:17:41 +0800

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Singles' Club V320

Eclipxe — Mon, 27 Jun 2011 10:24:47 +0800

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Singles's Club V317

Eclipxe — Wed, 15 Jun 2011 11:32:15 +0800

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Single's Club v305

Eclipxe — Tue, 26 Apr 2011 14:27:51 +0800

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14-15th May 2011 - 2d 1n trip to Cameron Highland
Planning in progress. Attendees please confirm your attendance by 25th Apr,
and I need to collect RM60 deposit to avoid any FFKs. Please pm me for banking details
Our rental department: Villa Dahlia 4 Rooms Penthouse: RM450 per night.
Thank you very much!
Attendees: (1) Al3x0174 - Paid
(2) Eclipxe - Paid
(3) MultiplyConsult (TBC)
(4) quireyuyue - Paid
(5) Skypie - Paid
(6) Goonie(TBC)
(7) hairyLGS - Paid
(8)~Lynx~ - Paid
(9) you kah?
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Single's Club v303

Eclipxe — Fri, 15 Apr 2011 17:38:18 +0800

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22th Apr 2011 - Yamca @ McD SS2, time: 8 / 9pm onwards
Mari lim coke, eat fries with us!!

14-15th May 2011 - 2d 1n trip to Cameron Highland
Planning in progress. Attendees please confirm your attendance by 25th Apr,
and I need to collect RM60 deposit to avoid any FFKs. Please pm me for banking details
Our rental department: Villa Dahlia 4 Rooms Penthouse: RM450 per night.
Thank you very much!
Attendees: (1) Al3x0174 - Paid
(2) Eclipxe - Paid
(3) MultiplyConsult
(4) quireyuyue
(5) Skypie
(6) Goonie(TBC)
(7) hairyLGS - Paid
(8)~Lynx~
(9) chiahau(TBC)
(10) nwpp0506(TBC)
(11) you kah?

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Single's Club v302

Eclipxe — Wed, 30 Mar 2011 14:22:53 +0800

[center]Single's Club v ThreeHunDred and TWO![/center][Center]
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17 Apr 2011 - PC Fair @ KLCC, 12pm
Go there see drillz and nom nom lunch

14-15th May 2011 - 2d 1n trip to Cameron Highland
Planning in progress. Attendees please confirm your attendance by 25th Apr,
and I need to collect RM60 deposit to avoid any FFKs. Please pm me for banking details
Our rental department: Villa Dahlia 4 Rooms Penthouse: RM450 per night.
Thank you very much!
Attendees: (1) Al3x0174
(2) Eclipxe
(3) MultiplyConsult
(4) quireyuyue
(5) Skypie
(6) Goonie(TBC)
(7) hairyLGS - Paid
(8)~Lynx~
(9) chiahau(TBC)
(10) nwpp0506(TBC)
(11) you kah?

Kindly inform or reach respective council members
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