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I read about what happened to MAS

duper — Mon, 21 Jan 2019 17:20:44 +0800

https://www.instagram.com/p/Bs0m3jDnIK3/?ut...id=u4s6w3epdgl8

I gots to know if I've been eating beef or pork all my lifeeeeee

Help

duper — Thu, 06 Sep 2012 13:43:09 +0800

Hello good people. Do you know of any clinics which sells MC? Or is there a specific method to ask? You can't just ask from the nurse at the counter?

Just came back from bar

duper — Fri, 22 Jun 2012 02:25:20 +0800

Hello guys, just gonna make this one quick. I just came back after drinking with my ex. We broke up for about a month plus, honestly, the reason for us breaking up is still a bit vague. Maybe we were tired or bored with each other. We were 2 years together.

So after drinking she sent her friend home and drove home. while she was driving she called me. I asked her not to talk on the phone while driving she was like "why? you dont wanna talk to me?" then i said no and continued chatting with her till she reached home. Then after she was home we texted a bit. It was hard for me to read what she typed caused it had a lot of typos so i called her figured out that she was drunk. And while talking half way i jokingly said that i wont carry her to her bed. Then she burst into tears asking why i dont wanna carry her to her bed. Managed to calm her down a bit. And after a while more, she said she was sleepy so i asked her to go to bed and again she started crying saying why i dont wanna talk to her. I did asked her whats wrong and she just said she's fine

My take is that she still has feelings for me. What say you guys?

Oh and an addition, were going for an event together with some friends as well soon, and she requested that she doesnt want anybody to share a room with us and she wanted a double bed instead of singles. (She said this a few days back while totally sober)

Opinions

duper — Sun, 13 Nov 2011 04:54:50 +0800

I'm sure this ever famous word has been starting and breaking relationships. "I have feelings for you lets be together", "My feelings for you has died, break up". But the fact is, a relationship is not just about letting those feelings run as long as they will! There is bloody maintenance. If there's no effort how can feelings last?

I'm saying this because my partner thinks that the feelings between us is fading, when she doesn't even have the effort to maintain those feelings! It's always me doing all the work when there's a problem in our relationship. She'd just be quiet and push the problem aside, until it rots or I ask her. Even is I ask, it'll take some time to dig it out from her. And when we're discussing it she'll say that she's tired and she wants to sleep. The next day, totally acted like nothing happened. I was really busy the last week and we didn't managed to spend a lot of time together. We were stressed up with our own work so it was really bad for us, every night when i chatted with her, all I got were just short replies. I asked her why and she said "I'm not spending enough time with her", "I don't know what to say", "I'm stressed". So I talked to her about her problem, tried to cheer her up and all, and bear in mind I myself was bloody stressed up as well (It was my final exams!!), still she gave me that "whatever" attitude. We argued like 4/5 times last week. Then now she said that her feelings for me has faded. So I explained to her it was because of our stress this week, and again she said she's sleepy, talk tomorrow. I really want to put hope in this relationship, but with her attitude... I don't know how long can we last. Btw we've been together for 19 months.

Annoying to my gal

duper — Fri, 08 Apr 2011 01:16:51 +0800

Hi

recently theres a guy whos going after my girl. they knew each other for like 2 weeks and he is being really aggressive. constant texting and IM on the net. my gf told him off and he was like just let it be and time will ultimately decide who she'll choose. she cant even focus on her academic work. she was fed up and just answered ok then. im gonna talk with him. suggestions on method to break his attempt or on thsi matter please?

thank you

Argued

duper — Thu, 23 Dec 2010 01:50:22 +0800

just had a quarrel with her. it was somehow stretched till the whole day. was stressful for me.

it began with her texting me in the morning, it was all fine she was happy, until she asked me whether i had my breakfast or not. i said not yet and could see that she began to be a little annoyed, saying its hard to be my gf cause i never listen to her. i was like ok sorry i'll try to be a better bf. it got worst after i said that. she said if i were to try means i dont intend to change. and i said of course i will if its for the good of the relationship. she just went "up to you".

then she didnt replied until 1 hour plus later cause she had something important to do. so when she replied a i asked her why was she so mad, was it because of me? she said maybe. i was like what? why dont u just tell me and not drag things longer causing more confusion. she said we'll talk about it at night (she had an appointment during lunch) so i said ok text me when you are ready to talk.

she texted me in the evening then, again i asked her why was she so mad. she said is it too hard to ask me to take care of myself and to accompany her at night? if its too hard then dont say i'll try cause she is expecting me to change and she wont control me anymore. i was like i already said i'll change and the reason i said i'll try is because she cant expect me to change within a day right. she didnt replied again until at night

i was pretty mad already at night from all the waiting. we argued abit and i really had enough. i asked her to go to bed

btw, few days before i told her that i'll spend more time with her at night and cut time going out with my friends. yesterday my friend called me to accompany him for dinner and i needed to get some stuff from him so i went out

im in a bad mood. advices on this guys?

broke up

duper — Tue, 10 Aug 2010 13:55:17 +0800

sorry accidentally created an extra..close it please?thank you

broke up

duper — Tue, 10 Aug 2010 13:52:01 +0800

i knew her few yrs ago..we were close since we knew each other..until 1 point in our friendship, i tot that, she is a very special girl to me and maybe we should take it to the next level..so our courting began..i have bad skills in courting girls..mostly it was the girls who confessed to me before that..it was my 1st time trying top court some1 that i truly love..shes a very pretty girl..she was every guy's dream gf..there was never once i heard that there are no guys after her..theres always a bunch of guys going after her..i managed to court her in a few months..

as usual..the 1st few weeks was total bliss and happiness..we cant wait to meet each other..she baked cakes for me..i traveled far for her just because she had a photo shoot.. i was with her through her ups and downs..comforted her when shes hurt, giving advice on decisions that shes unsure of, help on college work.. i gave her quite a lot of freedom cause i know shes the kind which doesnt like to be bounded..thats when things starts to get worst

2 months into our relationship, i was oversea for 2 weeks and there was minimum communication between the 2 of us..after i came back..i just casually asked how she was doing and all..and also updates on guys that are going after her (she always tells me, thats why i trusted her with giving her freedom) ..but the way she answered me was totally different than before i left..we went on a date on our 3rd month anniversary..i was supposed to buy tickets for my other friends for a premier class seat (couple seats), while lining up for tickets, she said "ive watched a movie here before with some1" so i kinda knew who was it..it was the more prominent guy (A) that was going after her.

i just brushed it off cause i didnt wanted to make a fuss on our anniversary..things changed pretty quick since after i came back frm oversea..the way we were together just wasnt the same..i felt that the love is slowly dying and always wanted to talk to her about it but she kept on delaying it..but the love hasnt really died off completely cause i still feel that she has some feelings for me..until ytd.....we had a small quarrel and she said she wanted to break..reason is because she fell for the guy (A). she admitted it was when i was away, she fell for him.. but i didnt wanted to give up cause i know she still loves me abit..i asked her to make a decision....she said shes to go with (A) my heart sank at that moment....i dint knew what to do at all.....this morning i sent her some texts saying that i will forgive her and ask her to think properly about who to choose...me or that 3rd party..still waiting for her reply

what hurts me the most is shes willing to forgo all our time being together (since i knew her) just because that guy accompanied her for the 2 weeks i was gone....i feel absolute pain in my heart..ive said it before that i'll never have respect for 3rd partiers..now its just total hatred on them

sorry for the long story..pls make me feel better

Sick

duper — Thu, 29 Jul 2010 21:09:15 +0800

Hello fellow k/ ians. im on a mission to fall sick.

so is there any methods that u may have?just spill it all out here

Suddenly....

duper — Tue, 22 Jun 2010 02:05:23 +0800

suddenly i have craving for hokkien fried aka 'fu-kin chow' i can smell the crispy deep fried pork belly yum

What would you do?

duper — Tue, 22 Jun 2010 01:02:08 +0800

ok so heres the situation, do u think its gonna be awkward if a guy tells you that he likes your gal?? whats at stake?