Little problem with my girlfriend

tky20 — Wed, 15 May 2013 02:57:58 +0800

Ok. I need serious consultancy .
During the time, i met her on last year july then the relationship started on oct. She was all good to me (from my aspect) and was been supportive on whatever i'll be doing.
Our conversations were very fun also a lot of stories to tell. She wasn't that sensitive and i can understand sometimes that she likes to make jokes on how she cared about me or vice versa.

Then now things are getting worse, she usually only request about what she wants without my consideration,
like going shopping, watch movie (cinema/home), go for some food she likes, jalan jalan etc.
Since now i am working as a full time programmer which i have to work from 9am until 6pm (tiring),
even i said "huh? i'm quite tired woh.", she will do some sort "emotional blackmail" act to me.
(Saying things like "whyyy oh? *sobs face on* you dont want meh? you dont like shopping with me? ok lorr")
BUT i still go with her, since i dont want her not to be happy.

She also like to keep talking to me about things that she likes, sometimes i will be spaced out/failed to listen to what she has said.
She is like.. "i also know you dont want to go out with me de lar. *sigh*" then i always apologize and ask her to repeat that what she has said. but then most likely she will be like sad/angry.
sometimes she's annoying when she remarking things like.. "you last time not like this one.." "you going to leave me soon ah?" "dont go flirt with other girl" "you dont love me liao?"
ironic, i don't have any close/good female friends and she also know that.
she often pressure me to talk to her when i don't feel like to talk at all sometimes. "i know you dont like to talk to me"

Then today.. finally i have got my working salary.
I promised to bring her for japanese food.
Then i treat her eat all those expensive food set she favors then have her favorite green tea ice cream drink.
then also walk walk around the shopping centres, we were both enjoyed and finally during the time when i was driving her to home. (i send her everyday like personal driver)

GF: "ehh the who who's single mom ah very rich... her money blabalbalbalba car" (i couldn't listen properly)
Me: "her money what ah?"
GF: "her money can instantly afford a car"
Me: "her money can instantly afford a car? did she buy a new car or?"
GF: *frustrated* "you got listen to me or not? i dont want talk to you liao"
I hanging in confusion then i ask again.
Me: "You mean she can spend a lot of money?"
GF: *i said her money already instantly could buy a car"
Me: "so a new car lah?"
girlfriend has lost her patience. "you dont want listen properly or you dont understand? you STUPID lar"
"dont want to talk to you"

Arrived her home, she has never talked to me until now. (usually we chat using whatsapp after home)
then i sent messages to her on facebook/whatsapp also get ignored.
then i saw her replying to a friend on fb

sometimes i think of going out with close friends (so long never see them liao)
she will AGAIN do those emotional backmailing "dont want to see me is it?" "want to leave me liao?"
I am feeling very annoyed and frustrating.
I also feel that i got mentally abused.
Is she starting to have the 'princess syndrome'? controlling?
she also likes to correct me like she's always right.
Anyway i don't want to leave her.. I'm still in love with her.
Really hoped that could worked out.

edit: i see her almost every day because usually we having dinner together.
i wanted to work this out. please refrain yourself from convincing me to dump her because i won't do that before i try to resolve the issues.

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tky20 — Sat, 05 May 2012 16:07:07 +0800

i have few question for you all

why johnkor so pro in softmod something to civic type r?
why meruchan is a penipu?
why kampung is so in love with his train?
why jegga/barney have to run nekkid?

mind to intro moar famous pipul?

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