http://forum.lowyat.net/ Wed, 03 Jun 2026 17:35:02 +0800 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/3406742 **just want to share out my thoughts &amp; feelings**<br /><br />Couples these days taking marriage too easily. Everything took for granted.<br />You work hard and spent much effort to held a nice wedding... for a proper marriage with someone you thought you could spend your life together. The next thing you know filing for divorce is much more easier. As long both agreed to the terms, a divorce will be settled in a few months time. And that&#39;s call an end to a marriage. Even though a marriage has been few decades it doesn&#39;t mean anything at all.<br /><br />Why would one, go through the trouble of courtship, relationship, marriage and lastly build a family when at the end is concluded with divorce? These days long lasting love or marriage doesn&#39;t exist anymore?<br /><br />I had a relationship with this guy since Uni for more than 10 years including 6 years of marriage. This man decided to walk away from this marriage and responsibility after I&#39;ve given birth to a child this year. Reason is that he&#39;s having another relationship outside. Instead of facing the problem... he gave 1001 excuses and push every blame to me. Although I&#39;ve tried many ways to work out this marriage... but ain&#39;t easy when one person&#39;s heart is not here anymore. He has totally changed to a different person. No longer the same husband that I used to live with. Imagine the man in your life neglected you and your child after you have given birth. The most crucial time when your other half&#39;s support is so important to you. I almost go into depression. Glad that I still have the support from my family members. <br /><br />Just because of one woman &amp; his freedom....all the hardship we&#39;ve worked together doesn&#39;t meant a thing? We&#39;ve been together from zero till today we own cars &amp; house, which we both worked it out.<br /><br />Makes me wonder... if marriage is like a piece of cake...why bother getting married and end up being hurt?<br /><br />Life no take two. Appreciate with what you have. thammelissa Cupid&#39;s Corner Tue, 11 Nov 2014 11:36:07 +0800