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Lied to

begkertashitam — Tue, 14 Jan 2014 15:01:30 +0800

1)Hello , recently my boyfriend lied to me about something . He went to a trip with his friends ( girls + boys) and i was very happy but conscious as well about the trip . He went there for 2 days . After he went back i asked him about the trip and he said everything was okay . Then he showed me pictures of his trips . while he was inside the toilet , an email noification popped up and i opened it , suddenly i saw bunches of pictures that he was trying to hide from me from the trip . Pictures of him and all of his friends , especially girls . I hurts me because he was not being honest . I was very mad , at first he didnt admit that but when i asked a lot of times , he was mad at me , saying he did that to jaga my feelings . It hurts and i said lets break up because i hate someone who lied to me . Whatever lie it may be . However , he didnt want it so i become kesian and sejuk hati . so the breakup was cancelled .

2) A week after that , a day before my flight to hometown , i figured out that he lied again about something . That noon i asked him where he had lunch he said someplace nearby his office , and i said have fun and enjoy your last time with your friends since hes gonna move to another office . Apparently , he went for bowling and didnt tell me , because i did asked him what else he did with his colleagues , but he said none .

Im so confused and sad in the same time . I know some people might say those lies were little compared to being cheated on . I was cheated before and things like this made me became so stresseful . What should i do , does it worth if i leave him ? because i find it hard to trust him after that happened .

in dillema and hearbroken

begkertashitam — Mon, 29 Oct 2012 14:16:51 +0800

First of all , i would appreciate if you guys can give serious advice , not something that is unuseful. because im looking for a solution here.

here the story goes ..

we ve been dating for almost 3 years .. we love each other so much , and i know he loves me but recently .. i found out he cheated on me with other girl. for the first time. we are in long distance relationship and we rarely meet each other.its because he is busy with his work and im busy with my study.. throughout our relationship . we have been through so many things. ups and down , change for each other , till i believe that he is my true love.we talked about future , marriage , and he even met my parents , and my family , and i even met his family. As far as i know i'm the first girl he brought to his mother.During our relationship , he spent his money , on me , too much . whenever he went to a vacation overseas he would bought me gifts , branded clothings , branded bags like coach , guess , prada and stuff. we also have been too many places for vacations. He also frequently gave me money if he has extra money.but i do not understand why he would cheat on me. and he said that , im too kind to her because i always be there for him , even when he is broke , or even when he has to drive kembara instead of his mercedes and bmw. i know him , even he is labelled as rich guy , he always has problems with money and his works. Apart from that , he apologized to me and he said he regret it so much , and we decided to give space for each other. i truly can live a day w out him . im dying. but i dont want to contact him either. i just dont know what else to do . im also afraid we would end this relationship as he is the only guy i have now. i dont have other guy friends. i only have girlfriends and ive been too loyal to him.. btw the girl that he cheated with whatsapped me , seek for my forgiveness too. i really dont know why she did that.my boyfriend said that he will find me again .. i just dont know when...

i really need an opinion on what to do here. is he really love me? do we have a chance to be together.. what should i do..

jus broke up

begkertashitam — Wed, 06 Jul 2011 19:54:02 +0800

hye im so sad what should i do i jus broke up with my bf , i ask for it , because he is having much problems and i dont want to trouble him with me because we just had a fight and he said things that broke my heart , i need advice , anyone can help me?

broken heart

begkertashitam — Sun, 08 May 2011 20:07:44 +0800

just now me and my boyfriend had a fight , her ex texted him and he replied , i told him at first begginning of our relationship that i dont like you reply any girl's text , except for work purposes. but now he ruin it , iam so sad rite now , before this he said that i dont put much effort in our relationship and now im in the process of changing my attitude for him , but in the middle of process he did like this , how im suppose to do , and so bad that i have my final exam for my bsness communication subject tomorow and i cant even study

(wta) LASER FOR SCAR

begkertashitam — Mon, 03 Jan 2011 21:12:36 +0800

iam 19 year-old girl and i have alot of scars on my both legs which is very very ugly. and i want to get rid of them. i tried many ways and thinking about doing laser . is there any information should i know .? thanks

[WTA] urgently! new user of dopod 838 pro

begkertashitam — Wed, 24 Mar 2010 09:43:35 +0800

hye.i am a new user of PDA..please dont condem me cause i am a newbie.

i hope someone can help guide me how to install this touchflo.cause im really in love with it!!

and i am so jelouse with my friend cause she has it

please help me.. i really need help! how to install.

thanks