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Dillema with future in-laws

DaisyHUHA — Tue, 28 Feb 2012 09:46:05 +0800

My boyfriend of many year start popping the question, I have yet giving him the answer because:

1) he's still like a big kid although already in his 30s
2) his family are somehow 'blood-sucker' in my opinion
3) i have to move in and stay with his family

The biggest problem is his 'care-free-don't-wanna-bother' attitude, and also 'living-in-stone-age-traditional' family. Everyone ask me to get a new house outside so i can live separately from the in law but i can't bring myself to do that as his father already past away left his mom alone. So i mati-mati also have to move into that house if i were to marry him.

erm...the downside for me is, this weird family (include my boyfriend) all along can live in a practically inconvenient 'kosong' house. It's not that they're poor or in debt, in fact his late father retired quite in an early age, raise them with just collecting rents all those years, now left them few pieces of land and properties for him and his sister. yes they're the typical, i mean very very very kedekut kind, who grabs their money hard until to their death. The kedekut-ness to a level i.e:

1) they're still using those yellow color bulb unwilling to change, some more it's like only one for each room
2) i've never even see a waste bin in his house, as sometimes when i visit i happen to wanna throw something and they ask me just throw outside the window
3) no sink in the bathroom, so all washing, brushing teeth done in the kitchen, the only sink
4) There's even no shampoo rack, and toilet roll holder, everytime u wanna go shower or do business..u have to bring those stuff in which they put in the ever packed store room

so much more the list is endless. I propose to my bf said, if i were to move in, there will of cos some change cos the house is quite old...well at least fix the room we're goin to sleep in, get a bigger bed and a wardrobe and ask some technician to add more sockets as the whole room only got one real old socket, which is impossible and i'm amaze how they can abuse that socket hole to supply altogether to aircond, fan, laptop, phone charger, hair dryer etc.....i wonder why it's still haven't explode.

His mum quite reluctant when i wanna proceed with those add-ups, keep questioning me why want this and that. In the end me and my bf take out 5k first and let her mother arrange for the minor renovation (tiling, paint, doors and sockets) for the room cos she insist want her relative to do the job. In no time, 1k of the money were use to bought tiles for the room....and also THREE OTHER ROOMS. It's ok, i thought let it be, that time they haven't know wanna put a ceiling fan(since the room is small) and get somemore socket, i discuss with him and her mum...her mum's eyes bulging out and again ask why need it and comes with so much excuses. And i also have to paint the room myself cos her mum said 'so called' it our room so we kaw tim ourself. By now the room is already painted with new tiles floor, just left to replace the old door and etc, but now her mum tell us to bear the charges for further stuff....i was like WTF???? Before she asked us 5k just to fix the room, and now, she took our money to buy extra tiles (it's ok) and i sendiri have to paint the room cos she said it will cos more to have ppl paint for us(it's ok) and now those remaining jobs which suppose to be done we ourself have to kawtim? Never forget she start renovate others rooms and the lawn, god forbids using our money too!

Look i know it's sound like no big deal, but i don wanna live with this kinda people. I was never the one who wanna get marry as i already know how's his family is, and i know himself also like that. yes i'm not perfect myself, but i'm not asking for the moon, i just want to live more comfortably. Is that too much to ask? I can't help but feeling like i'm so worthless that my mum won't received any 'ping gam' summore i have to bear the cost myself. My bf dun wanna care more to talk to his mother about this, cos he already scare of the hassle. Yes we both are not rich, but still we can afford this basic necessity, which already 'tergendala' cos his mum use the money on somewhere else and my bf still kedekut wanna fork out extra more. Am i over react?

Bizzybody is SO BLOODY MINDED

DaisyHUHA — Tue, 22 Mar 2011 06:12:40 +0800

Just wanna rant and share with you babes,

If u ever thought of paying your first visit to those slimming center, never ever go to bizzybody. Even if they have some offer like free first trial or watsoever. I bought a coupon from GROUPON at RM38 for the e-intense 1 treatment, since it's just 38 so i thought why not just give it a try as i knew i would never step into any slimming center as their package price always up to thousands which i couldn't afford yet.

i have myself in there a week earlier and make a appointment which is yesterday. During the whole week i call calls from them reminded me that i have these treatment, i was a bit happy to know that their services are quite friendly even thou i'm just using a RM38 a treatment cheap coupon.

The nuisances started when i step in to redeem the treatment yesterday...first thing they already had no intention of giving me to use the coupon ....cos the first thing they do is their consultant come attend....switching rooms to rooms to introduce their product and so on, when finally i got to sit down....she start talking about this package on and on and about HOWWWWWWW serious my thigh is and need like 20treatments, which cost around 10k plus, then i when i reluctant to it she start to gimme so called discount, or offer more free treatment and finally the packages reduces till to 3K something...i was there for almost 2hour hearing all these and fed up why they still haven't let me go into my treatment which i paid for and entitled to. More worst, the consultant got her senior and also manager to persuade me, stating to her seniors that she might having a problem to make me understand, i was like 'halo?? what understand, means ur only intention is ONLY to sell me packages?!"...another hour fly by with their bla bla bla...keep goin on how bad is my body and my health and i how bad i need their treatments, i keep saying that i never been to any slimming center and i won't pay satu kali so much as i dunno if its worth or work, what if i pay the whole package for something which totally doesn't work or worst just some products which i don't need summore they required me to visit their center twice a week., what if i don't have the time?

Then the manager comes up with the monthly installment plan, i started to fed up already and just said that i don't own a credit card and you know what? They can still ala ala so cut me some slack and ask me to pay by session, but required to sign up as member first which cost like RM380. I was like wtf, is GROUPON cheating me or what? Then i told them i don't have enough cash with ma la, come on la who will always carry so much hundreds on their pocket every time. Then the first consultant bisik to me said 'this is just for you only, maybe u pay a little, then the balance next time you pay lo, how much you have now?" by this time she's standing right beside me waiting for me to open my handbag and check my money, I felt like totally being rob, when they see i got feel 50notes in my handbag, they keep insist "oh u can give us that first, then u top it up lo, how much u got there, like 200 right? don't worry,"

They're totally like some stray dogs aiming at you while you're eating your drumstick waiting you'll throw that to them. Then i ask finally, is my treatment (the coupon) once can use today, guess what they told me

"of cos, let's do the registration first and you pay me the 200 first, then u can start right away?"

I felt sooooo tulan now

SE xperia x10 mini? HALP!

DaisyHUHA — Wed, 05 Jan 2011 00:55:22 +0800

Look, i a total noob when comes to all this high tech phones, i no nothing about androids, O.S, watsoever.....and suddenly just now, a group of my close frens present me this phone. At first i'm all so excited cos finally i can have myself some really high tech phone...but after i browse in....seems alot of inside (those icon, function and many clueless bla bla) function i never come across before, and totally no idea what it's about and how to use it.....help!!!!!

Does anyone out there who use this phone too?

How to shop at PAYEASY

DaisyHUHA — Fri, 19 Mar 2010 22:18:18 +0800

As above state, first i don't understand chinese world, so i did try to use google translate, and register myself also as a oversea customer, then ah....i dunno why the catalog for oversea customer not same wan. Not as much items as available in the main page....

finally thot wanna buy there coz the website offers more variety ma where Lyn didn't sell also...