[Need Advice] Suitable Birthday Gift

[L][B][B][K] — Sat, 06 Mar 2010 01:59:05 +0800

[MOD don't close or move thread ar. Posted at Cupid Corner but no reply ]

I have a female friend. Know her in tuition when we're in Form1. At that time, she was chubby, wearing noob specs, not that attractive. In tuition, we and few other people sit together, do exercises together. She brings chocolate junk foods sometimes, then we share share.

Then, i changed tuition and didnt hear anything from her anymore.

Later when i was 18, she and i joined the same college. BUt i couldnt recognised her, cuz she slimmed down, hair got nicer, wear contacts, nicer clothes. Sky and earth difference lah. I didnt know she was the same person I know in tuition. (I also forgot her name) Didnt approach her that time. Had low confidence that time.

Till last year, we joined an event organising committee. Got chance to talk, and i just know she's the same person. She told she knew it's me long long time ago. Then, sometimes i Msn her, flirt flirt a bit. Then, sometimes a bit lazy go touch her.

Then, recently she invited me to go her 21st birthday party. Planned to go at last, though I dunno much of her friends. But i dunno know what present to choose.

More details: This gal, I'm not 'very very interested' and also not 'not interested at all'. There's a probabilty that i will 'chase' her. But not at this time. I dun wish to 'invest' much on her yet. So, the present, roughly Rm50?

Oh yah. Forgot to mention, she's quiet and shy shy type of gal. Seen before she write in her Fb: Please forgive me, I'm that kind of girl who dont simply let ppl touch my heart. Smth like that.. Dun rmb any. Point is... She's not really open to ppl's woo-ing.

Am thinking to buy those ready made gifts from Body Shop, about Rm60-70. But later thought if i bring a bouquet of flowers to her party, others sure will have jaw drop one. Nice marh. And also can hint her a little bit.

What do u guys and gals think? Any suggestions? Btw tmr is the day leh!

[Addon:]
I told I didnt want to invest much on her, because I'm woo-ing another gal now. (Dont say me playboy first! Lemme say first!)
Last time use to like her a little. Not love. Go flirt a bit a bit. But then later didnt move ahead to woo summore. Then the like her a little slow slow fade away. Then I met with this current gal. Woo-ing now.

Then she invited me to her party. Choosing the right present quite important also marh. Then i moved on with the meaning that the present carries and there goes this thread lorh.

Sometimes I see her, I find she's still attractive to me.

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[L][B][B][K] — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 00:41:34 +0800

Me and one group of friends used to be classmated when we were in Pre-U. Then, now we moved up to degree already.
Not really close with them. I'm in another group. But last time used to joke with them once a while.

I used to be kinda fat. Then for past 1 year managed to slim down a little, by working out at gym. And i never ever say out that I'm super mega ultra giga handsome and body super fit or muscular. Never did or think of that, i swear.

Then, dunno why these group of people keep finding trouble to me. I didn't confront them straight. Didnt show i was pissed off also.

Lemme list down all the cases.

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Case 1:
When i go workout at gym, Mr A (one of them) always look down at me that i'm super weak.

Let say I managed to take like 40Lbs. He also he same or less than that. Then, he throw this sentence at my face: "Ehh, u cant do so heavy dont do larh."

I didnt get pissed off. I took what he 'recommended' when he's around and take what I could when he's not around.

Case 2:
There's once I go class. Then Mr A and his whole group saw me. Mr A shouted: "Ehh, your shirt looked like Malay larh."

Same thing. Didn't show i'm not happy with it. I just replied "ya meh? ya meh?"
Was thinking in heart: "Yeah lar. U rich mah. U need to wear super high quality branded shirts then only body wont itch mah. For me, got shirt then okay ady."

Case 3:
I uploaded a photo of myself at Facebook.

Then one of them (Mr B) tagged all his friends in and commented "Wah. So 'leng chai'... <--- inverted commas!!
I straight ask him politely at Msn "why tag larh. dun wan tag larh. no point marh". Then later he crap crap and crap. *whatever*

Later he block / delete me as friend. But still havnt in Msn.

Case 4:
Me n Mr C rarely talk in Msn. Knew him for 2 years, but we chat not more than 10 sentences. But still greet and joke with him when see him walking to class.

Then, one day, out of sudden, he sent me a link, showing a fat china guy with a hot girlfriend.

I asked my other friends (not from that group). They didnt receive that link for him. So, i assume that's specially for me. (Awwhhh. Ain't that sweet? )

Case 5:
Me and Mr D and my other Pre-U friends had gathering. Then my other friend was pinching my tummy (yes. i still have a tummy) and joked: "Wah. Got ppl slim down already worh"
Then, out of sudden, Mr D jumped from his seat and said "Ehh, human ar. If body fit, face not good, useless one."
I hell sure he's not joking one. He meant it one.

Was thinking: "So, u're telling i'm ugly lar?"
The problem is that he's not handsome also lorh. Not even close!

Case 5 ended with me make joke to change the topic away.

So far, I don't like what they do. But i havnt show them i'm pissed off.
Are they thinking i'm easy to bully and keep bombing me?

Last time in Pre-U, i got very pissed off with their stupid joke and shouted at them. Then they say "Owh. U say ppl can lar. Ppl say u cannot lar."
BUt the problem is, now i didn't step on their tail, and they straight fly few punches at my face.

I know if i were to shout of them, they sure say me 'small gas' one.
If i small gas, i already called people to chop them already lorh.

What do u think?

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