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I don't feel safe..

michellelurve — Sun, 08 Apr 2012 21:42:44 +0800

Just yesterday, my bf's eldest brother tried to slap me. My bf, pushed him away from me and a serious fight broke out.

In the fight, his brother was shouting about
"Because of the girl, you changed alot!"
"You were never like this before you are together with her"
"Because of her, our family is in a mess"
"She messed up our whole family"

And also...he shouted at me...
"I want you to get out of here"
"I dun want to see your face in this house anymore"
"Who are you to have the right to change my brother till like this?!"

I am in a serious dilemma.
I am together with my bf for 4 years now. His brother had been hating me for the past 4 years, ever since I started dating his youngest bro.
I can't just call off the whole relationship just because of the brother, neither I am safe being with my bf since he has a psychotic brother.

I am very afraid for my own safety as well as my bf's safety too..
What should I do?

pls help.... :'(

Insecurities

michellelurve — Fri, 30 Dec 2011 01:43:44 +0800

Hi all. Insecurities...a word every single couple would understand and perhaps most would have gone through.

To make long story short:

4++ years ago, I got into a relationship with Guy A. Been cheated on. Guy A went for another 2 girls when he's not with me. Broken up after a few months being together.

Got into a new relationship a year later (current one), been together for 3++ years. My current boy did nothing to betray my trust for him during this 3 years.
Yet from time to time, these insecurities came back and worst of all, it seems impossible for me to handle them.
It comes especially when a change of event is going to take place like...shifting of places to stay, getting a new job, shifting of job.

I do not want to burden him about my own problems. My own insecurities.
I trust him, but I do not trust the other people around him.

Now it just seems so unbearable. This feeling taking over every logical thinking I have left.
I know that trusting is one major turn on to each and every single guys out there.

The thing is, I do not want my baby to stay with me in this relationship because of the feeling of sympathy...where the his love tank would be almost empty.
He is a very patient guy whom I would not want to take advantage of especially when it comes to this matter. It's not his fault at all =(

I want him to stay with me because it's just me..the one he love 3 years ago and now.

The question is...how do i handle all these stupid insecurities???? =(
i dun want this issue to kill this relationship in the long run.

what do u think?

michellelurve — Tue, 29 Nov 2011 00:39:45 +0800

Something yours forever is never precious...

What do u think of this?

how to relax?

michellelurve — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 03:36:47 +0800

It's almost 4am ady. Still can't sleep. Having an exam at 6:45pm later. Accounting!!!!

Is there anyway I can relax my mind?
It's overloaded with information ady T___T

Taxation- Indexation

michellelurve — Sun, 11 Oct 2009 22:01:41 +0800

Anyone with good knowledge in taxation, will you help me please?

what is indexation in capital gain? and what can be indexed?

Thanks