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Rhb full flexi VS Ambank semi flexi

ilovechoc — Thu, 26 Jan 2017 14:11:41 +0800

Hey guys, I'm first home buyer here.
So I'm indecisive among these two banks.
Ambank gives better rate (semi flex)
Rhb gives higher rate (full flex)
However, which would save more or better in term of long?

Pls advice. Thx!

should i just let go?

ilovechoc — Fri, 25 May 2012 05:40:27 +0800

Our relationship started months ago officially. We were enjoying the relationship happily until the first broke up that requested by him due to my problem. We both were very sad and he got hurt so much. But after 2 weeks of that, we both agreed to be together back. This time, he's different from the previous time. He gave me every single freedom i ever wanted and don't bother much on me. Some issues happened within classmates affected us indirectly too. Due to all these matter, our relationship is actually remain unstable.

Time goes by, our finals is over now and he bring out the topic again as promised, he asked me to let him go. I don't understand why he keep hugging me while asking. I was sad, I moved to another corner and he hold me back again and hugged me. He said he doesn't know what's the problem make him think that he don't need a gf now. He couldn't find back the feeling of in love. He said it's seriously not my problem, but he get lost of his mind as well since he don't understand how could he felt so. I guess that it caused by the issues happened previously and he just mixed up all the problems and these lead him to this kind of feeling that single is better? He said he don't even know whether he still love me, he said sometimes he feel yes but sometimes that kind of feeling came across his mind again. I was so sad, my tears dropped. Because of this, end up he let me to make the final decision of this issue. I rejected to let him go as I am really love him very much.

I don't want to lost him. I have no idea of why i could falls on him that much. I have put a lot of effort in our relationship, I treat it so serious and him too, and I never felt so strong in a person before, non even any of my Ex. He's the only exception. And now, i'm like don't want to let him go, but think it deeper, by logically, it could be better to let go.

So, i am headache now. I wish our relationship is able to back to the good feeling and no more such attitude of him to me. Else, it's no point to be together right.

should i just let him go? As if I still wanted to save our relationship, how should I do? Is that worth?

*About the first break up we had:
He has high commitment at first, as other guys did, don't like his gf to go out often with guys and etc. But i did that all, even just normal friend he also don't like. Plus, that time I always hang out with a guy who liked me for working. So, he's very angry. He dislike our friends discuss much on us, but they did and he knew it. He has opened up our relationship to our friends, everyone knew it. But he just dislike people discuss about his personal problem much, he feels shy as if others knew that we're arguing or sth. One day, I was just so angry with him as he always show up the blackface, but I don't know that he's actually too stress due to all the problems that came up from studies, business, family and friends. So, the anger boom out at once. After struggling for some time, we broke up even we still loving each other and we were both very sad.

But after two weeks, we agreed to together back. This time he lost his commitment, because he knew that I wanted for more freedom in the relationship. So, this time he gave me all the freedom that I want, and he don't bother anymore about who i went out with etc. I am unhappy with this, i feels like sth is lost, which is the commitment.

Now, he said sometimes the feeling of don't need a gf came across his mind but sometimes he thinks he still love me. He also get lost. I guess that it's caused by this previous hurt he got perhaps?

What Should I do?

ilovechoc — Wed, 05 Aug 2009 02:56:07 +0800

the story begins from last few months,
we get to know each other due to the event, we from the same college n course.
we keep contact after he added me in FB then we always chat in MSN..
until he got my number and so we exchanged the number, started to start sms and also the phone conversations then.
maybe because of some of his attitude and also his appearance,
i feels that myself starting to have the feeling towards him!
i know he's still like his EX now, that's why he prefer single still.
ya, we do chat everyday.
until few weeks ago, i found that we have less topic to chat already, is it so called "cold" de?
but then we could talk alots in the call and we do hang out too(if both of us are free because he was always full of appointments with friends).
everyone was gossip about us.
his friends also asking whether i like him.
i believe that he know what i think and he should get what i mean too.
i have less confidence sometimes,
i dare not to talk much with him when we are not alone, and him too, don't want the friends continue joke on us.
i dont know I should continue wait until he moved out from the EX? is it worth?
or just move myself out from all these?
sometimes i do really feels that there're something special, else he won't treat people like this. (i think so. LOL)
but sometimes when he never replied me the text, worries come then.
it's suffer.
i'm not sure, but i can feel something there..maybe the percentage is not that high but i know there're something. (so far i think so)
is it because of i treats him too good so only he treat me back like this? or?
OMG, i was like totally confused.

*Sorry, if what i taip here makes u guys confusing..Haha!*