http://forum.lowyat.net/ Sun, 21 Jun 2026 14:11:43 +0800 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/1041588 Everyone wants to feel needed, loved and appreciated by somebody. That is the genesis or the main reason why everyone in a RELATIONSHIP. Beyond that, happiness is the main factor that holds the male and the female. Alot of topics involving love now is filled with sad,depressing sorry, procrastination, complaints why this and why that and generally it involves negativity. <br /><br />Why bother?<br />Why bother being a relationship where you dont know where is it going or heading?<br />Why bother being in a loveless realtionship where you just cling on the person that you known for donkey years?<br />Why bother having lunch or dinner without talking to your partner?<br />Why bother worrying if she or he going out or meet somebody?<br />and the best part is.....why bother?<br /><br />A lot of people simply wants and desire things, when they are single, they want to be in a relationship, When they are in a relationship, they want to be single again. Alot of relationship that stoods against the test of time requires patience, communication and the best is NO EXPECTATION. I simply dont understand why EXPECTATION comes hand in hand in determining your happiness in a relationship. Just stop asking your bf or gf be a better person, get a better job, stop working harder and get more cash, stop getting a better car as your wallet doesnt reflect your true self. Enough listening and comparing with other people. <br /><br />If everyone able to do this, then we can have heaven on earth.Life can be enjoyed to the fullest as we can appreciate smaller things, rather than wastin our time chasing the shadows of expectations that lives in your mind. It wont last. <br /><br />Again for the ones who constantly felt fustated, depressed, felt themselves ugly, just stop it. Enough of self pitying and swallow it up. No one can judge you except yourself. Again the ones that should be happy is you. if you are happy, then only you can share your happiness with someone who you think that deserves it. <br /><br />so first rule<br />1. No expectation<br />2. stop comparing yourself with others. <br />3. everyone die alone, so forget it if you think your partner willing to jump into the grave with you. <br />4. Everyone doesnt want to spend their life being miserable and end up with an ugly person. The notion of beauty is very subjective.<br />5. Appreciate small things as everything will PASS. <br />6. open your mouth and kiss the ones you love, you never know that you will be alive in the next 5 minute.<br /><br />Live Long and Prosper IG78 Cupid&#39;s Corner Mon, 25 May 2009 16:32:07 +0800