he said he liked her a lot

fire_angel — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 21:42:09 +0800

Im going through some problem here as my bf told me that he like one of his gal friend a lot. They had known each other before knowing me but they got closer only this year when we had a short break up. The gal told him that he looked like her ex bf which had died years ago. They kept in contact more often than my bf contact me. They went out movie more than him going out with me. Even her birthday he bought her an expensive birthday cake. Whereas mine , he only gave me a leg chain. I was being open minded as he told me many times he and her will never ever be together as they were good friends. But yet he did admitted he liked her before and till now. He told me He love me but He Like her as well. He is willing to do coursework for her, giving her advice, consoling her and protecting her. He cared her and told me no matter how he would take care of her. He even warn me not to disturb her ! ( Im not a person that would do such thing ) OH well, i felt dissapointed and lost of trust. Confused to know the truth that made me think that all these : his heart was with her and Im just a puppy love or something else. He told me not to worry , they wont be together cuz his 6 sense told him he wont be long with that gal instead he'll have a longer relationship with me. Everytime we break up or have problem, the first person he would tell or consult is her. While i will just be alone crying all to myself. Few months back when we got back together, and she found out from other friends that he's back with me, she cried whole night. I guess she also fell in love with him then. My heart is doubting his love towards me as if i ask for a date he would give excuses. He came to find me today out of sudden is becuz he said he was bored and not becuz he miss me.I ask if she had a bf, will he get jealous? he said maybe. Is it all due to brotherly love or maybe they really had a bond between them? Should i trust his love towards me or should i just let him go, let him find his true love and be with that gal he's been so nice too?

Im being CONTROLLED

fire_angel — Wed, 03 Jun 2009 00:33:14 +0800

Im tied down by my parents but lately i gained their trust more as i don't lie to them anymore.
They used to refrain me from going out at night but now isnt a problem for me as long as im back b4 12pm. AND i intro my friends to them.

Well, i used to be super sticky to him last time. Cook for him bring to his office n find him teman him eat lunch. However after one Holiday tragedy he broked up with me for he said he cant accept who m i n etc... It hurt me so badly and since that day i tried to make my everyday busy and Meaningful. I started to spend more time with my friends( realizing how fun it is !!) , doing house chores and attending more youth activities and photoshooting. However, those shooting are decent ones and I DONT "T CLUB at all~~ I find my life more cheerful and filled up.

He proposed me back, I still love him ! but i said give me time ... This time i said yes cuz he was so nice to me back ~~ N this time is his turn bring sticky... He's sticky is controlling...

Well, Now im tied down to my bf that dont allow me to photoshoot , and if go out with friends didnt tell him he'll get pissed off and crazy.
He thinks i behave like a kid and simply go out alone with another guy (which are practically my friends and closed ones not those i simply meet)
and he thinks i just dont have the awareness of danger and he has to keep my eyes on u everytime (Which he doesnt always cuz he's busy working for our future~)

SHOULD I USE THE SAME WAY of how i gain trust from my parents?
I wont give up in this relationship. Break up is the lamest excuse... but i can say..Im TIRED n SAD

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THERE IS ONE MOMENT WHERE IS WASNT POSSESIVE N CONTROLLING
I saw his thread and now i know... At that time he was in Love with another girl and had more interest in that stranger.
And Thus, I was neglected... now i understand~

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he said he liked her a lot

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